I'm beginning to wonder.

My first wife moved out to "find herself" (back in '90) and never returned. (She was also cheating on me.)

My second wife walked out (2000) so she could be nearer to her children (100 mi away), or so she says.

My youngest daughter moved in with her mother (#1) when she was a Jr. in high school. I was "too strict" (ha).

My son also left home to stay with his mother (still #1) when he was a Senior in high school. (20 miles away)

Now my sister, who moved in with me back on Dec. 1 ('09), has apparently moved in with our father (6 mi away). She has been there for over 3 weeks. No explanation. She sneaks out here to take things back with her, presuming I won't notice. Duh.

I take daily showers. I keep the house neat. I grow my own food and can cook for myself. I'm quiet and pleasant to be around (self analysis). I never yelled at or spanked my kids (or wives/sister).

I don't understand it. I had the same college roommate for 5 years (male), but excepting my son, women always leave me! (Well, my two eldest daughters didn't, although in a sense they did, since they live in Honduras and California!)

Should I ask my sister for an explanation or what her intentions are? I really don't care, and, as a matter of fact, I prefer living alone (hence "Solitaire"). But I sure do wonder--
maybe I have the infamous "cooties"!