Remember the Kermit, the Frog, song, "It's not easy being green"? I sometimes think that true about being single.
We live in a world where it is assumed everyone has a mate of some sort or another. And that we do everything in pairs.
In my recent Vegetarian Times magazine (even though I'm not), recipes are for at least two people. Backpacker mag always refers to hiking with a partner of the opposite sex.
Just two of many examples of "life in pairs".
We just had Valentines Day-for couples. I think we should have "Singles Day". It would be celebrated in recognition of all us solitaires. We are greatly ignored in today's society, yet we constitute a sizeable percentage of "family households".
I mean most holidays are for two or more: Christmas, Easter, Independence Day, Labor Day, Halloween, Thanksgiving, not to mention Mothers and Fathers Days, and the above mentioned Valentines Day. It's difficult to go out and celebrate these special days with non-family members. Yes, I have a family, but they don't live with me.
Opening up Christmas presents by myself or shooting fireworks alone, is a rather depressing thought. And sad.
We singles need to rise up! Demand respect for our lifestyle. Recipes for one. Activities for one. Appreciation for the power of going solo.
Do I ever get invited to a party or happening? Noooo. Why not? I'm single. Do I ever go out to eat in a restaurant? Hardly ever. Why not? It's lonely sitting at a table by oneself. (I felt weird eating alone in restaurants during my Florida excursion.)
Let's see, how many of my mybloggers friends live alone? Quite a few of us. This is my main social network. I look forward to reading and writing from and to you all. I can socialize with fellow golfers (all men--boo) in the summertime, but this is basically the extent of "conversation" during winter, besides my immediate family (not always pleasant).
I think something should be done to rectify this lack of respect for living alone.
So what do you say, fellow soloists and sympathizers? Peaceful protests or riot?