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A Day Later

Yesterday was not a particularly good day (and I'll tell you why).
First of all, it rained overnight--5 inches worth!!! What it did to my unfinished septic system was indescribable. Mud, water, corn field debris inundated my back yard. My newly installed dosing tank floated out of it's hole (it was empty).
My garden, yard, and basement were all under water. I never saw it so bad. Oh yes, and my power was out 'til 2:46 PM yesterday. My sump pump couldn't work, not to mention anything else.

Area roads and highways were closed. One small nearby community was totally evacuated (Edna Mills, IN, for "googlers"). It's much better today.

Secondly, I lost a good friend of mine to bone cancer (age 82), and I attended his funeral yesterday (barely making it through all the high water to get there). Normally, I don't do funerals, but Bob Gray was special. We played a lot of golf together. He was always happy, friendly, and positive. He mowed his church's cemetery and donated every penny of his "salary" to my daughter and SIL for their missionary work in Honduras. No reason except he though it was a worthy cause. "It's a priviledge", he would say.

So I said my goodbyes with a few tears and a heavy heart. I have many Bob Gray stories to tell, and they'll stay with me for years to come. Yesterday was not a particularly good day.

posted on June 23, 2010 2:08 PM ()

Comments:

comment by jerms on June 24, 2010 8:27 PM ()
But I'm stilling.
reply by solitaire on June 26, 2010 6:16 AM ()
Things will change and you will be yourself again. Try Dottie's solution.
comment by elderjane on June 24, 2010 8:57 AM ()
True. It's amazing how quickly time heals wounds.
reply by solitaire on June 26, 2010 6:17 AM ()
So sorry about the loss of your friend and your muddy mess. You have my sympathy on both issues.
comment by redimpala on June 24, 2010 7:45 AM ()
Thank you CJ. I was just thinking "what a bunch of nice people" (here at mybloggers).
reply by solitaire on June 26, 2010 6:19 AM ()
comment by jondude on June 24, 2010 6:28 AM ()
Much appreciated.
reply by solitaire on June 26, 2010 6:20 AM ()
Have lost older friends (and younger, too), think of them often, and miss them very much indeed. But your memories will keep him alive.
comment by tealstar on June 23, 2010 10:04 PM ()
I think of my father who has lost everybody except his children. Not easy growing older.
reply by solitaire on June 26, 2010 6:22 AM ()
((((((((((((((((Randy)))))))))))))))))))))

Be well my friend,
Barb
comment by darkstar on June 23, 2010 7:44 PM ()
Life is looking up. Thanks, Barb.
reply by solitaire on June 26, 2010 6:23 AM ()
How sad you lost a friend. True friends are rare.
comment by gapeach on June 23, 2010 7:09 PM ()
And every time I play golf, I think of Bob. Hard to erase. Thanks Nancy.
reply by solitaire on June 26, 2010 6:25 AM ()
My goodness, where did that weather come from? Not from here, that's for sure, must have been moisture drawn up from the Gulf. Your friend leaves a good legacy, we should all be so lucky.
comment by troutbend on June 23, 2010 4:15 PM ()
It's been Groundhog Day for the past two weeks--hot days, evening storms. I'm ready for a dry spell.
reply by solitaire on June 26, 2010 6:28 AM ()
Always hard to lose a friend but as long as you remember him he won't be forgotten!
comment by greatmartin on June 23, 2010 3:20 PM ()
I'll be reminded of Bob every time I play golf. That's not all bad.
reply by solitaire on June 26, 2010 6:30 AM ()
Sad to lose a friend. My condolences to you. Only one cure for days like yesterday- a bottle of wine, cheerful company and some good music. Consider me cheering you up in our virtual world.
comment by dragonflyby on June 23, 2010 3:15 PM ()
Except for a few minor setbacks, I'm doing better. There's always some fly in the ointment. (Gee, I haven't used that cliche for a long time!) I HAVE been "hitting the bottle" (but no more than usual--a glass a day). Thanks for the support.
reply by solitaire on June 26, 2010 6:32 AM ()
yeah to say the least it was a bad day! {{{{{HUGS}}}}}
comment by kristilyn3 on June 23, 2010 3:15 PM ()
One good thing about having a bad day--all the rest appear better! Thanks for the hug!
reply by solitaire on June 26, 2010 6:34 AM ()
comment by nittineedles on June 23, 2010 3:00 PM ()
Duly noted and appreciated.
reply by solitaire on June 26, 2010 6:35 AM ()
first sorry about the weird weather there and causing all lot of problems and a good thing that the tank was empty.
My condolence to your friend in passing.He seemed liked a very good hearted man.Hope that things will smooth out for you soon.
comment by fredo on June 23, 2010 2:29 PM ()
Thanks, Fredo. Things are looking up.
reply by solitaire on June 26, 2010 6:13 AM ()

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