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Calling Out Today

I am not going in to work today. You all know I share the bad with the good, and right now its about as bad as it could get. I don't want to go into details, I don't want to hurt anyone further. In a nutshell here is what happened. Someone I once called a friend turned on me in a most vicious way with devastating results. I am sure they would want to know their plan was a success. I just cannot for the life of me understand what they got out of it. Was I too happy in my new life?
A few people have told me to take this to the police, that it constitutes harassment. I am thinking about it. It will involve printing out alot of 'evidence'. I just don't know what to do. Mostly I am thinking I will just leave it alone. I don't want to cause harm to anyone, no matter what has been done to me.
Today I will spend the day with my Kota, playing with his Christmas toys. He got this neat fire truck play set that I think we will set up in the living room today. We will use our imaginations and play and I will enjoy every minute.
Today is also the anniversary of when my Dad passed away. It's been 6 years now. If I am feeling better tonight, I will drink a toast in his honor. And ask him to watch over me and help me through this situation.

posted on Dec 31, 2008 4:31 AM ()

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Do you remember when hubby's sister was making my life a living hell over at blogster? I printed up everything that she wrote to and about me, took it to court and got a restraining order and when we went before the Judge it was a joke. She sat there crying and lying about Ra and it turned out that I had waited too long to file against her. Time is of the essence, don't forget that!!! I'm sorry this is happening to you and wish that I could do something, you've come a long way and need to remember that. Is this someone I know? Love ya buddy!!!
comment by sumkindabich on Jan 1, 2009 4:14 AM ()
Mary, you know I love you, my friend. This person obviously just wants to wreak havoc with your emotions. They seem to do this everytime you post that everything is going really well. That should raise red flags for you. Please, my friend, do not let them get to you. They are apparently not going to change. So, from now on, if you get an email from them, just delete it. Don't read it. Don't allow it into your mind or your heart. Just delete it. I know it's hard, but it seems as though they are hellbent on bringing you down. You are blessed, walk in it, cherish it, embrace it.
comment by hopefields on Dec 31, 2008 8:19 PM ()
comment by firststarisee on Dec 31, 2008 6:03 PM ()
comment by nittineedles on Dec 31, 2008 11:28 AM ()
I am so sorry to hear about what is happening. I cannot understand why people can't just be nice or no interact at all. It makes onno sense to me.
Have lots of fun with Kota!
AJ
comment by lunarhunk on Dec 31, 2008 11:21 AM ()
I agree with Tracy, be strong live long and prosper.
Blessings of insight on how to handle it all.
This may be about cycles coming around for completion?
comment by anacoana on Dec 31, 2008 10:29 AM ()
This Christmas was also the sixth one without my Dad, and, for some reason, I had a harder time with that this time than in times past. My heart goes out to you.
As far as the the other thing is concerned - I truly believe that there are some very jealous people in this world who have a hard time seeing other people being happy.
Without knowing any of the particulars in your case, if you think that what has happened is a police matter, I would seriously consider getting them involved, especially if the attacks continue. Don't discount yourself. If someone is maliciously harming you, you've got a right to stand up to them. And if you feel guilty about "hurting" somebody, remember that they are the instigators. You are merely defending yourself.
comment by hayduke on Dec 31, 2008 9:22 AM ()
Sorry to hear this and this is not the way to celebrate the New Year.
If it does get any worse,well maybe it is time to report it.
In the meantime keep your cool and enjoyed your precious time with Kota.
comment by fredo on Dec 31, 2008 9:14 AM ()
Let me know what is going on. You know I love you. I played hookey today as well, just didn't feel like going to JP today and stayed home. Going to take the tree down and just relax.
comment by teacherwoman on Dec 31, 2008 7:31 AM ()
just continue to be happy in ;your new life. We are all rooting for you. Love, Nena
comment by nenah on Dec 31, 2008 7:08 AM ()
'Someone I once called a friend turned on me in a most vicious way with devastating results.' They are jealous of what you have accomplished--don't let 'them' take that away--you are much better than 'them' and everyone knows it, including you!!! There are a lot of us who love you and that's what is important--stop giving 'them' the power to hurt you! HUGS!!
comment by greatmartin on Dec 31, 2008 6:38 AM ()
Seriously??? Man... that is just SO annoying and she needs to LET IT GO!
She reminds me of the plague...
comment by kristilyn3 on Dec 31, 2008 6:17 AM ()
Mary, I think it's time you got tough with this. If this has been going on for some time you need to sort it out now. You have done a good job of kicking yourself and your family into a new happier life. We can all see the change in you. Don't leave this nutter whomever it is drag you back down to the gutters where they enjoy living.
comment by tracy on Dec 31, 2008 5:56 AM ()

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