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Health & Fitness > On Getting Older
 

On Getting Older

This is an excerpt from a Miss Manners column. Her real name
is Judith Martin and I think she said something that needs to
be said. It is as follows:

"It has come to be generally disgraceful, if not disgusting,
to age. The commercial world and the promoters of mental
and physical health bombard us with products and techniques that claim to retard, if not reverse, aging. The implication
is that ignorance or laziness is what keeps us from staying
young,and the elderly have only themselves to blame.

As a result an elaborate system of dissimulation has arisen,
with which people conceal their own ages and reassure one
another of eternal youth. "Oh, I am too young to remember
that!" Failing to observe this convention brings on the
accusation of "You make me feel old."

Power to you Ms. Martin. I am older than dirt and remember
the depression, WWII, the New Deal and other events such as
Sputnik, JFK and the man on the moon. We haven't learned
much because we are still wasting young men and money on
wars instead of spending money on education,eradicating
poverty, encouraging art and music and curing diseases
that destroy the body and mind.

I think you should look as good as you reasonably can and
be as fit as you want to be but there comes a time when
you have to face the fact that you are just old! It is not
your fault.

posted on June 19, 2013 4:05 PM ()

Comments:

That's a remarkable quote. She's right. When or how we will ever respect aging again will depend upon the emotional development of our culture and society. It's taken huge leaps backward.
comment by drmaus on June 24, 2013 10:20 AM ()
My inner child and I are applauding!
comment by marta on June 22, 2013 3:19 PM ()
Oh, I agree with you 200%!!! We age because time moves forward- not because we are weak or fail to care for ourselves. It has always bothered me that male baldness is treated like something horrible that must be fixed/reversed- while one of the most popular hairstyles for younger men is a shaved head. (Personally, I love bald men- Patrick Stewart, where are you, my love?) On the other hand- I am not ready for my own gray hair and continue to dye the roots brown. Does that make me a hypocrite? No, seniors today DO NOT look like people did at our age 50 years ago, but we still age!
comment by dragonflyby on June 20, 2013 2:08 PM ()
I don't know Dottie but I will be a platinum blonde as long as I can limp to the sink. If it was good enough for Mae West, it is good enough for me.
reply by elderjane on June 21, 2013 4:27 PM ()
One of the problems with aging is that it takes 10 years to get used to how old you are...then you have to start dealing with it all over again! Yikes.
comment by steeve on June 20, 2013 8:17 AM ()
80 was the turning point for me. I still feel well and can do a lot of work at home and in the garden, for which I am very thankful. We still feel
about sixteen inside and that is the clinker.
reply by elderjane on June 20, 2013 9:54 AM ()
76 next month, age is just another number and what with everyone trying to sell things to make you look and feel younger , i'll stick to the way i am
comment by kevinshere on June 20, 2013 3:19 AM ()
Seventy six seems nothing to my 84. Kick up your heels while you still can
is my motto.
reply by elderjane on June 20, 2013 5:22 AM ()
I don't like that society has dissed aging in women and we should have the same respect that aging men do. I thought about aging when I was about 12. I vowed to myself that I would always try to stay the same. I ran into an acquaintance who had known me at 25, when I was 35. He said "You don't change!!) I said it's because I do today what I did yesterday and that way I don't lose it. If one is happy going with the flow, I'm for that. I'm also for what I do.
comment by tealstar on June 19, 2013 7:02 PM ()
We all show our age at different rates. I have to admit I love the
pampering I get from strangers who rush to help me with packages and
groceries. That is one of the perks I get from being old.
reply by elderjane on June 20, 2013 5:29 AM ()
Oh I HATE all the stuff that they push to make - mainly women - look younger. No thanks!!!! I will take what nature gives me with grace ( I hope) but I agree, I think we certainly need to look at the aging process differently. I think there is just so much to learn from everyone's older generation...
comment by kristilyn3 on June 19, 2013 4:45 PM ()
I learned a lot from loving oldsters in my family. Women are pushed to
look like Diane Sawyer on a budget.
reply by elderjane on June 19, 2013 6:10 PM ()
I've always liked Miss Manners. I can't decide if I could handle having a cup of tea with her, but maybe if there were a lot of other people there it'd be okay.
comment by troutbend on June 19, 2013 4:33 PM ()
I adore her pithy comments, especially to brides who are angling for
wedding cash.
reply by elderjane on June 19, 2013 6:12 PM ()
I always say, "it beats the alternative". I just wish I didn't have so many aches and pains.
comment by jjoohhnn on June 19, 2013 4:13 PM ()
Take your Aleve. It helps me immensely if I take it twice a day. You may
be hitting the garden too hard. take care.
reply by elderjane on June 19, 2013 6:14 PM ()

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