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Taking Time to Reflect

I sometimes want to kick myself in the behind. I occasionally find myself complaining about some silly thing or ranting or worrying about something I have no control over.

My life is great, wonderful, stupendous. I love where I've been, where I am, and where I'm headed (excepting the inevitable!).

Permit me to list and extole my virtuous life.

Material-wise, I have everything. I flat out own my house and farm property (which I love). My truck is paid for and I have nary a debt. I'm thankful for electricity and heat/AC, not to mention what the electricity is used for. I am not starving (despite my skinnyness) or shirtless. And money is no object.

My lifestyle is the way I like it--simple and unadorned. No boats or expensive audio/video system or Ipod. A simple radio with pleasant music and a good book to read is all I really need to satisfy me. Golf and running is good exercise. Gardening is rewarding in many ways. I am retired (with pension), can travel at leisure, and participate in volunteer programs whenever I wish.

My physical health is as good as it gets. I'm so lucky I have ailments no worse than arthritis or dog bites! Health insurance is there if I need it (Thank you Uncle Sam). My mental health is equally good. I have few worries. I don't get depressed. Happiness, satisfaction, comfort fill my heart. I sleep well at night (plus a daily nap). I like my pillow and bed!

I much appreciate being an American with the freedom of speech and religion each citizen has. I'm thankful for my education, my knowledge and intelligence. Being independent (living alone) has its advantages. Need I expound?

Of course, I'm fortunate to have my family--sisters, father, children, grandchildren--all healthy and compatible to be with. And many friends for a semi-active social life.

I try not to worry (but am concerned) about things I can't control--politics, environmental issues, wars, prejuduce, etc.
Sometimes ignorance is bliss.

My main concern is that I can't putt anymore!
Still, LIFE IS GOOD!!!!!

posted on Aug 25, 2011 5:25 AM ()

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May there be only little blips on the screen of your life.
comment by elderjane on Aug 27, 2011 4:55 AM ()
I ignore the organized cultural life of Cape Coral and Fort Myers. I got out of the habit while dancing and working and studying piano and caring for a very ill husband. If a friend calls with tickets and wants to drive us, we might go, if we can get someone to give Brunswick his 9 p.m. medicine. I don't miss organized activities. I'm always doing my own thing. I do love social gatherings with friends. I also like day car trips with Ed -- but we haven't done any of those for a while. I will look up Fishkill (sic) in the local directory.
comment by tealstar on Aug 26, 2011 8:49 AM ()
I know the feeling. I used to go to jazz gigs all the time (Purdue and Indy), but it's been years. I get enough kicks from the radio. Just thought I'd call this Fischl thing to your attention. No biggie.
reply by solitaire on Aug 27, 2011 4:47 AM ()
Besides maybe you aren't aware of it but AJ (lunarhunk) is the official mybloggers worrier--he has had that title since mybloggers started!
comment by greatmartin on Aug 26, 2011 7:54 AM ()
Randy, it's not know it's time to enjoy it but NOW it's time to enjoy it. Sometimes my fingers get ahead of my brain.
comment by gapeach on Aug 25, 2011 5:51 PM ()
This did not happen by itself or because your stars were aligned correctly. I am sure it took planning and sacrifice early in your life so that you could enjoy your "golden years". I wish that I had made better choices when I was much younger. I have worked 40 years for a small family owned business that had no retirement program until about 8 years ago. I have accumulated a small amount in my 401K but not enough with which to retire, however, the trade off is I always knew I would have a job. Good for you, you have earned it and know it is your time to enjoy it!
comment by gapeach on Aug 25, 2011 5:49 PM ()
I frequently look back and wonder how I did it. But that's another story. I wish you luck in "surviving" the next chapter in your life.
reply by solitaire on Aug 26, 2011 5:19 AM ()
Isn't that a great feeling to wake up happy and realize it? So many people don't realize when they are well-off because they are always looking for 'more,' whatever it may be.
comment by troutbend on Aug 25, 2011 5:21 PM ()
Like my "grass is always greener" ex-wife. Now she's considering moving to Calif.!
reply by solitaire on Aug 26, 2011 5:17 AM ()
Also in "a good place" and it helps to be aware of what we have that others don't. So, enjoy...
comment by tealstar on Aug 25, 2011 11:47 AM ()
Hi Teal. Do you know any "Fischl"s in Cape Coral? In my recent FFRF magazine, there was an article written by Kayla Fischl about her "freethought" beliefs. In her bio, it says she's about to attend the "American Musical and Dramatic Academy (campuses in L.A. and NYC) to study musical theatre. In grades 9-12, she acted with Alliance for the Arts and Cultural Park Theatre. Sounds like somebody or something you might be interested in.
reply by solitaire on Aug 26, 2011 5:15 AM ()
comment by marta on Aug 25, 2011 9:57 AM ()
A very nice post and well said.Life is Good for all of us here.
Glad that you are comfortable and enjoying it.
We all need to reflex at times.Me all of the time.
comment by fredo on Aug 25, 2011 9:42 AM ()
I've noticed that about you. Self-analysis is good, as long as we don't beat ourselves up too much. Take care.
reply by solitaire on Aug 26, 2011 5:07 AM ()
There are many who sail in the same boat--I may not be as financially well off as you are but I use and enjoy what I have.
Life is good and whether we want to face it or not a lot of it has to be with maturing (That's a lot nicer than saying, getting old!)--in a couple of years you will stop worrying!
comment by greatmartin on Aug 25, 2011 7:59 AM ()
I don't know if I'll EVER stop worrying, but perhaps I'll worry less and less as I "mature"! I listen to the advice of my elders.
reply by solitaire on Aug 26, 2011 5:06 AM ()
You have what all should have in retirement-your life the way you want it. My life is similar to yours. I too am a "low maintenance" person. Aren't we lucky?
comment by boots586 on Aug 25, 2011 7:40 AM ()
What can I say? I'm a lucky guy. Thanks for peering into my life.
reply by solitaire on Aug 26, 2011 5:04 AM ()
Yes, you do have much to celebrate, and reflecting sometimes brings things into perspective.
comment by dragonflyby on Aug 25, 2011 7:26 AM ()
Negativity can bring a person down pretty easily. I'm trying to avoid that.
reply by solitaire on Aug 26, 2011 5:01 AM ()
I am happy for you... You do sound like you have what you need! Happiness is priceless.
comment by kristilyn3 on Aug 25, 2011 6:54 AM ()
It's funny, but I'm almost relieved about Lynn's "work schedule" obstructing us from getting together in the near future. I don't like the pressure of dating.
reply by solitaire on Aug 26, 2011 5:00 AM ()
You are in a good place. Unfortunately, not all are right now, but that is life.
comment by redimpala on Aug 25, 2011 6:20 AM ()
There is often turbulence in a stream's flow. Hopefully, things will smooth out soon.
reply by solitaire on Aug 26, 2011 4:58 AM ()

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