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The Babysitter

My usual daily routine was interrupted yesterday when I volunteered to babysit my 17 month grandson.

His grandmother, my ex, watches him most days. But she's divorcing her second husband, the man she left me for, and struggling to "find herself" (according to my daughter).

But this is about my little "Johnny" and me, not her. His name is really Jensen, my ex's maiden name. And because of the association (not to mention my own son's middle name is Jensen), I can't bare to call him by his given name.

Anyway, Johnny and I played and read and romped around outdoors. We went to visit my sisters and father. For some reason, he paniced at the sight of my dad--started crying convulsively in fear! He's never done that before, so I was mystified.

Otherwise, he was perfect. I introduced him to the Aldi experience, as I needed groceries! The field across the road from my house was being planted, and he was mesmerized by the tractor and planter. Everytime it would come around, he would point and dash to the window to watch. He knows sign language, giving the sign for driving. His vocabulary is only a few basic "ma-ma" words, but his "signing" is incredible! Too bad I couldn't understand him! Fun day.

posted on May 24, 2011 5:00 AM ()

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Sounds like you are a good babysitter.
comment by crazylife on May 27, 2011 7:23 PM ()
I oughta be. Raised 4 kids of my own! (By myself when their mother left) I love children--well behaved, that is!
reply by solitaire on May 31, 2011 5:00 AM ()
How delightful to send time with Johnny! Enjoy every precious minute! I'm a bit concerned about his reaction to your Dad. Hope you can arrange another time together that goes better, perhaps with some interactive time with your Dad doing something Johnny likes to do with him, replacing the scary incident with a happier one. Like going out for ice cream!
comment by marta on May 25, 2011 6:02 AM ()
Believe me, I was concerned, too. Don't know what triggered his reaction. Good advice. We'll see what happens next time. Hope you survived the storms safely.
reply by solitaire on May 26, 2011 5:10 AM ()
Is this the first time to the reaction to your dad?
I am not sure to go along with teal on this comment.
some children to fear of people.This I would not fear.
Just enjoy your time with him.
comment by fredo on May 24, 2011 3:47 PM ()
I concur. My daughter says she has a photo of my father on her fridge that they look at and talk about. Perhaps there is some strange connection involved that we don't understand. (Happy to see your reply here, Fredo!)
reply by solitaire on May 25, 2011 4:59 AM ()
Lots of children burst into tears at the sight of me and that's before I growl and gnash my teeth at them.
We all take immediate dislikes to certain people and children are no different. At 17 months he could be just "making strange". As a children's caregiver for more years than I care to remember I can tell you it is perfectly normal behaviour.
comment by nittineedles on May 24, 2011 2:11 PM ()
I appreciate your "good words". When there's over 91 years difference in ages, it's no wonder he cried. Old people can look pretty strange and ugly!
reply by solitaire on May 25, 2011 4:56 AM ()
Do enjoy. They grow up way too fast.
comment by elderjane on May 24, 2011 12:42 PM ()
And I'm not getting any younger!
reply by solitaire on May 25, 2011 4:53 AM ()
I feel that way about most kids - I don't understand em. You crack me up...
comment by kristilyn3 on May 24, 2011 12:29 PM ()
Thanks, I think. I won't ask you if you have "plans".
reply by solitaire on May 25, 2011 4:53 AM ()
I know you're too nice to make a big deal about it, but deep inside you must be feeling just a tiny bit pleased that your ex-wife's second marriage has failed. See? It's not you, it's her! This is the proof!
comment by troutbend on May 24, 2011 10:57 AM ()
I suppose you're right. I still harbor some bitterness in what she did. No hate. I just feel sorry for her. She still thinks religion will solve her problems. And maybe they have helped her get this far. In the meantime, I've moved on. (I won't take her back, that's for sure!!!)
reply by solitaire on May 25, 2011 4:51 AM ()
Children often react strangely for no apparent reason. It is usually because they are tired, hungry, or need a diaper change. I would NOT be inclined to think it is that unusual nor indicative of being molested. That's really pushing the envelope by someone who has never had children. I reared two and am helping to rear my three grandchildren. Enjoy him every chance you can. They are such a delight during those "baby" days.
comment by redimpala on May 24, 2011 8:38 AM ()
Thank you--I agree. One of my children was scared of her great grandfather. I think it's normal. Sounds like you love your grandkids like I do. It's wonderful, and the memories they'll have are priceless.
reply by solitaire on May 25, 2011 4:46 AM ()
I sort of tend to agree a bit with teal--should check into it--could be nothing but...
Sounds like you had that fun day--so what do you call him when you are with him?
comment by greatmartin on May 24, 2011 8:10 AM ()
See my explanation to Teal. I call him Johnny. I sing a lot of "Johnny" songs like "When Johnny Comes Marching Home" and "My Name is John Johnson (I come from Wisconsin...)" to him. He understands his/my name.
reply by solitaire on May 25, 2011 4:42 AM ()
My own parents are so excited about our baby girl coming, I can understand your satisfaction at being able to spend some time with him. Enjoy those moments, they're the best, I'm sure.
comment by jerms on May 24, 2011 6:23 AM ()
My other two grandkids are coming up from Honduras this summer to rotate from grandarents and aunts. I don't have a bond with them, obviously (ages 10 and 8). We'll see how that works out.
reply by solitaire on May 25, 2011 4:39 AM ()
Johnny's reaction to your father should not be ignored. Could be your dad reminds him of someone he has good reason to fear. Could there be an elderly man, neighbor of your son, who might have molested him? Don't like to be paranoid, but his response was not normal.
comment by tealstar on May 24, 2011 5:19 AM ()
When my sister babysat Johnny while I was gone to Utah, she said Dad scared him when they visited. She didn't elaborate on how, but I can imagine. Too bad.
reply by solitaire on May 25, 2011 4:36 AM ()

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