My childhood friend T is getting married in July. She has been engaged for about 3 or 4 years now I think, and the last time I talked to her she said they were getting married this year because she wants to get it over with. haha I can see why she's a best friend of mine, we share similar views on things! She's cool though, she said she is probably going to come in on a jet ski (she's getting married at her dad's lake house in CA). That cracked me up. She also said that planning it has been a pain in the butt and that I shouldn't ever get married. I would hafta agree!

R is the first guy I could really see myself HAPPY with long term. He's just amazing to me - and he can stand me and my craziness - and we just "fit" somehow. Marriage hasn't ever been a dream of mine. I was never that little girl dreaming of "my day" or anything. Does that make me strange? Perhaps. But it seems like a whole lot of work for a single day.

Also the whole bachelor party crapola would piss me off for sure. Boys behaving like male whores right before marrying a woman they supposedly respect and love has never made sense to me. Guys will defend it to the end, but in reality, it is what it is...

I dunno why I am writing this. Actually I was reminded of it when I was reading Mellowdee's post about her wedding dress. She seems so excited about it. I think I would hafta get a plain ole dress cuz I would get claustrophobic in some of the dresses I have seen friends wear. And needing help to go to the bathroom? I am in between that phase (not a baby and not so old I need that help) and I am fine here. haha

Another post of me blathering about nothing. Aren't you some lucky readers! :0)