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Life & Events > Engagement, Babies, & Work Stuffs
 

Engagement, Babies, & Work Stuffs

I heard from my ex the other day that he is engaged. I am happy for him but it’s also like – seriously? He’s been with his current gf shorter than R and I have been together. That of course made me wonder what R’s dealio is, then I think gawd I don’t want to be married (it is the end of single life after all) but then I go back to why he isn’t proposing? But then I go back to I don't want to get married. It's a never ending cycle. No worries, I think he will some year, he’s just southern and I know that he fits that roll well – sloooooow slooooow sloooow! Hehe But then I think of another never ending cycle. When you are single it’s “Why aren’t you dating?” When you are dating it’s “When will you get engaged?” When you are engaged it’s “When will you get married?” When your married it’s “When will you have babies?” So then I find myself happy again to be at the 2nd step of the questions instead of the last. haha

Speaking of which, a high school friend of mine who has been married for many years just informed me that she is having baby numero 2. Wow. I can’t fathom it! Still! And I am 33! I dunno. I am happy for her though!

I met with the temp agency lady today. I was honest about what I do like and don’t like, and she said herself that she is kind of like a recruiter since she knows what I am looking for and what the company is looking for and she will try to find us both the best match. Too cool hey? It was a great interview and we ended up with talking about our love for dogs. :0) Awesome. She said she wanted to check my references, and I hafta take one of those typical temp agency tests in Microsoft office, and then she will contact me about a couple of potential jobs she knows about. YAY!

Happy Wednesday people. At least it’s not Monday!

posted on Sept 17, 2008 10:01 AM ()

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Go with what your heart says and it will work out fine. If you need to propose, propose. Or better still just talk the situation over with him.
comment by elderjane on Sept 18, 2008 12:31 PM ()
If you cherish your man, I bet you will be most satisfied.
comment by writerproducer on Sept 18, 2008 9:58 AM ()
I don't think I'll EVER understand the workings of the female mind! If you don't want to be married, then why are you wondering why he hasn't proposed? AAAANNNDDD, in this day and age, if you want to get married, who don't YOU do the proposing? But then, you don't WANT to be married, so this is all a moot point anyway!!! Sometimes you make my head hurt.
comment by hayduke on Sept 18, 2008 9:50 AM ()
Do not - repeat - DO NOT GET MARRIED. It is not only the end of single life as you know it, it is the end of ALL life as you know it. Follow the advice about dogs if you feel the biological need for children. At least you don't have to put the dog through college! Ever wish you could have a re-do of your life, I sure do and that is the one thing I would change. No men in my space. Love them, definitely, but something about all the testosterone in your living space upsets the balance of your world. Good luck on that one.
comment by lizbeth on Sept 18, 2008 6:53 AM ()
my advice? stay single. If you and R are good as you are, don't tamper with it. tell yer ex to go p-ss up a rope. As for children, I'd stick with dogs. They are better behaved.

reguards
yer single, childless and loving it (usually) pal
bugg
comment by honeybugg on Sept 18, 2008 2:40 AM ()
If you wait long enough to get married you can tell them inevitable inquisitors that… Alas yer eggs have dried up…when THAT question is asked.

Yay only two more wake-ups until a sleep-in.
comment by dazeymae on Sept 17, 2008 10:31 PM ()
He's PLAYING YA.. wake up! Use that "estrogen" to really know the "deal!
comment by coincutter on Sept 17, 2008 9:06 PM ()
Hmmmmmmmmmmmnot my thing here.Whatever you do.Good Luck.
comment by fredo on Sept 17, 2008 2:06 PM ()
well, you may have to be the one to propose then. That way R will know you are serious about it. LOL
comment by sexysadie on Sept 17, 2008 12:03 PM ()
R isn't going to propose until he knows you will accept. He's a smart boy and he knows you well enough to know that you are not ready to be engaged let alone marriage.
Good Luck with the recruiter! I hope she finds you a great job match! And soon!
comment by sexysadie on Sept 17, 2008 10:54 AM ()
I u! I hate engaged people... just kidding!
comment by spicybitch on Sept 17, 2008 10:41 AM ()
Good luck w/ the engagement thingMine also moves slow so I know ur frustration, but it will be worth the wait in the endAnd good luck w/ the job search!!
comment by starlite on Sept 17, 2008 10:27 AM ()
Why fix something that not's broke?
comment by mrsstu on Sept 17, 2008 10:13 AM ()

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