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Domestic Violence ...

Since I've moved into the "trailer park" (which most of the time I love by the way) I've encountered a sickening amount of domestic violence. It makes my nerves a wreck and makes me not want to let the kids out of my sight (which is where they were tonight-playing with the new badmitten set I bought).

Last month my across the road neighbor was arrested after multiple reports of him abusing both the mother and the teenage daughter. It used to be a daily thing for me to hear him yelling obscenities and threats at both girls. One day the dog attacked him, biting skin off the man's face (smart dog). Finally after the incident where multiple neighbors called the police as they (we) heard him literally threatening her life, he left the park for good. Later we find that he actually did have a knife to her throat.

Today I come home from school, get out of my car and immediately I hear a man yelling "You f'n c*** etc...." It was coming from two streets over, right across from the manager's mobile home (she never even came out through all of this even though her car was there). I was just heading back to my home when I heard someone get in a car and it peel off. Then I hear brakes squealing and someone screaming in pain. Somehow she actually ran this guy down with her car!!! He was on the ground in pain, but no blood that I could see. I'm thinking "What is wrong with people???" Neighbors started gathering and one ran over to the guy. It seemed like forever before the ambulances and police started coming. I have no idea if anyone got arrested, but I hope so. I'd also like them evicted from the park.

I pray for these people and especially for their children. I'm thankful that I have never been a victim of domestic violence. I pray that I will always have enough love for myself to know that no person should ever treat me like that.

posted on June 19, 2008 6:50 PM ()

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"I pray that I will always have enough love for myself to know that no person should ever treat me like that." <<< Don't ever forget those words!

Domestic violence of any kind should never be tolerated. It is dangerous, of course, which is always the primary concern, but it can do so much more damage in so many ways. The victim may get it first-hand, but the rippling effect reaches far more people and lives, making everybody a victim.
comment by donnamarie on June 24, 2008 12:53 PM ()
I'm so sorry you and your children have to experience. I'm also sorry those other people are in such a bad place. On the plus side, your kids will know how much you love them and how lucky they are to have you as their Mom!
comment by frogfenatic on June 22, 2008 10:29 AM ()
My first marriage was to a man who beat me everyday.I do understand Domestic Violence all to well.Laurie
comment by dogsalot on June 20, 2008 8:20 PM ()
It is always amazing to hear how common this still is happening as much as it is.
AJ
comment by lunarhunk on June 20, 2008 11:24 AM ()
That is sad and crazy.
comment by shesaidwhat on June 20, 2008 9:23 AM ()
I've been to several domestic violence siminars thru work and stuff, and have lived thru it myself. One study I read once really opened my eyes. It said go stand out on your front porch and look at the closest 4 houses to yours...1 in 4 houses has domestic violence in it. I was lucky I got away from it. But I see ladies every day in my job that are going thru it.
comment by elfie33 on June 20, 2008 9:18 AM ()
That's some scary stuff. Noone should treat anyone like that.
comment by turftoe331 on June 20, 2008 8:54 AM ()
There is a reason that cops have guns. Nothing will calm down a domestic dispute faster than the threat of being shot...in the face.

What did you expect your manager lady to do? Was she supposed to strap on her Wonder Woman underoos and go to battle with the forces of blind and irrational rage?

Cops don't even like to get in the middle of those did you want her to say "please stop?" and get hurt, shot, stabbed, beaten, or run over as well?
comment by jtruant on June 19, 2008 9:56 PM ()
I was with you right until "It was coming from two streets over, right across from the manager's mobile home (she never even came out through all of this even though her car was there)." Do you really think she should have came out?
comment by mmmhollywould on June 19, 2008 9:39 PM ()
omg. THat is HORRIBLE!!!
comment by kristilyn3 on June 19, 2008 6:57 PM ()

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