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Scraping the Bottom of the Barrel

Would anyone be interested to know that gardening is taking
over my life? I have watered and watered and watered trying
to overcome one hundred degree heat. I planted 75 pansies
and l0 sweet potato vines this past week, hoping to get some
color into the front yard. It kept me sane while coping
with Ted's illness.

Bobby gave Ted a thinsulate blanket for the hospital and I
just finished washing it. For anyone who anticipates a
hospital visit, I suggest you get one and take your own
pillow. It will contribute greatly to your comfort.

Ted sees a neurosurgeon tomorrow and hopefully we will be
able to schedule spine surgery.

I am not cooking because Ted is not eating. The casserole
Ellie brought over last night was very welcome. It was a
chicken and chips one and she tweaked it with sour cream.
My jeans are looser which is a side benefit of all of this
but I will never be a skinny person. The reality is that
I am big boned and inclined to be chubby. To stay thin, I
would have to continually starve. I was willing to do this
in my youth but at 83 the desire is long gone.

I am also having a very bad hair day. My roots were showing
and I grabbed an ash blonde hair color that has made it
look gray. I am just not me without really blonde hair.

The dog, who does not wish to eat dog food, is getting picky
about the pasta and white meat chicken that I fix him, what
is a good dog mom to do? When we were gone last fall, he
lost at least twenty pounds at the boarder place so don't
tell me he will eat dog food if that is all he has.



posted on Sept 23, 2012 11:19 AM ()

Comments:

Don't the sweet potato vines die when they get frosted? Mine do. Maybe I'm confused on what you're doing.
comment by solitaire on Sept 25, 2012 5:06 AM ()
As serious as your predicament is with Ted's illness and all, you made me laugh reading about Rex. I had a dog allergic to most dog foods so I fed him a rice and meat mixture.
comment by dragonflyby on Sept 23, 2012 9:20 PM ()
What we do for our dog and cat people is amazing. They give that love back
in spades.
reply by elderjane on Sept 24, 2012 4:53 AM ()
I envy your controlled garden. Might try that next time. Hoping to plant some carrots, turnips, mustard and spinach tomorrow. We'll see.
comment by jerms on Sept 23, 2012 8:47 PM ()
3 tomato plants and a few zucchini are all that I can handle but they paid
off beautifully. Looking forward to your visit.
reply by elderjane on Sept 24, 2012 4:55 AM ()
What is an thinsulate blanket? My experience in hospitals is that I am never warm enough. How about some hamburger for Rex once a week? That might perk him up. I am in awe of your garden stamina.
comment by tealstar on Sept 23, 2012 8:10 PM ()
You can order them from Amazon. They are very light and very warm. Those
hospital blankets are so thin that you just freeze. Your own pillow helps
too. It is a huge comfort to have them.
reply by elderjane on Sept 24, 2012 4:58 AM ()
you need to slow down there.Your trying to blocked out something and not sure what?
Do not starve yourself.Even though you are not cooking just have something light.
You have to keep the strength up.There is no need of this.
Just take your time and remember you say that laughter is the best.
Invite some of your lady friend for tea or cocoa and just have a great time enjoying one another.
Well that is me I have enough problems but doing by best to overcome my sorrow.
Next week will fare better.Everyday is getting better but still think of him as I walk by his couch.
Take care and Best to Ted and Rex.
comment by fredo on Sept 23, 2012 1:20 PM ()
I am blocking out the fact that I will probably always be a care giver. I
realize that and it is hard to face so I have to keep busy. Gardening helps
as well as reading and movies and visits with friends. Routine and seeing
the kids every day when I pick them up from school is a life saver.
reply by elderjane on Sept 24, 2012 5:03 AM ()
My wife colored her hair for years. Finally, a year or two ago, she opted to let the gray come out and rule. She looked wonderful and I told her so. When Ted gets better, see what he thinks about it.
comment by steve on Sept 23, 2012 11:43 AM ()
He doesn't mind the hair, it is just not me. I look in the mirror and want
to run away. As soon as I have time, the hair will be blonde again. I hate
the ashy look.
reply by elderjane on Sept 24, 2012 5:07 AM ()
did you miss the part where Jeri said that she's not herself if she isn't blonde?
reply by tealstar on Sept 23, 2012 8:08 PM ()
Your yard must be a showplace. We are in a persistent dry warm spell here, finally today a little breeze came up: we haven't had any wind to blow in a weather change. Our cat was the same way - you could tell he was really hungry, but he'd go through spells when nothing would tempt him. We had to resort to baby food, and it's hard to find jars of it these days because apparently feeding meat to infants has gone out of style.
comment by troutbend on Sept 23, 2012 11:34 AM ()
We need the weather change. Actually I have such a heavy mulch down in the
flower bed in front that it detracts from the pansies. If Jerms comes over,
I will have him take a picture. I think they have found that starting meat too early causes allergies. Poor Buddy, he was such a lovely cat.
reply by elderjane on Sept 24, 2012 5:10 AM ()

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