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Life & Events > Relationships > Another Dig Fest
 

Another Dig Fest

I should have put bricks around my herbs. They bit the dust
last night when Rex caught me unaware and dug a big hole in
the flower bed. I was furious and he was one sorry dog. I
am his primary human and I wouldn't speak to him. He weasled
up in bed this morning and we made up. His instinct to dig
is so strong that he finds it very difficult to resist.

The weather has been so wonderful that walking at night is a
real pleasure. A girl walks two golden retrievers and they
keep straining at the leash so that they can greet everyone.
They are girls and not as strongwilled as Rex. People seem
to be in a better mood as well, now that the winter doldrums
are past.

We have a sad thing in our neighborhood. My next door neighbors have taken in their nieces three year old to raise.
She is a pretty, bright, talkative child but her mother doesn't want her. What is it to be so heartless? Sherry and
Max have grown children and they are starting all over again.
She is a fortunate child to have them. Max told Ted that her
mother just doesn't like Hailey. This is beyond my comprehension.

posted on Mar 29, 2012 6:08 AM ()

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Some women are simply born without a maternal bone in their bodies. Sad but true. So glad she has someone to love and care for her.
comment by nittineedles on Mar 30, 2012 3:19 PM ()
What happens when the generation of responsible grandmas and aunts and uncles
are gone?
reply by elderjane on Mar 30, 2012 4:40 PM ()
I'm speechless.
comment by solitaire on Mar 30, 2012 5:22 AM ()
Me too!
reply by elderjane on Mar 30, 2012 4:40 PM ()
she just doesn't like the child?? I can't even imagine such a thing. we have told our kids numerous times, I may not like you right now but I will always love you.
comment by elkhound on Mar 30, 2012 4:20 AM ()
I think it is some kind of mental problem when you don't love your own flesh
and blood. But in the meantime, I enjoy talking to her through the fence and I am going to volunteer to baby sit if they need it. She is a delightful child.
reply by elderjane on Mar 30, 2012 4:43 PM ()
Every spring the fox (or somebody) digs a good-sized hole under one of our building foundations there in Colorado. We fill it in with dirt, and they don't re-dig it, so it's almost like they are toying with us. Last year I didn't even notice it until I was watching the bear, and he stuck his head in it. Hugs to you all there.
comment by troutbend on Mar 29, 2012 11:13 AM ()
Beware of that Bear!! I worry. I hope you and the fox have re-united again.
reply by elderjane on Mar 30, 2012 4:44 PM ()
Never had this kind of problem and do realized a lot of dogs dig.
Not sure if this can be trained to break the habit?
comment by fredo on Mar 29, 2012 9:56 AM ()
He knows it is naughty but his instinct is to dig and to retrieve. Thankfully, he has given up stealing whatever catches his family.
reply by elderjane on Mar 30, 2012 4:46 PM ()
Mr Rex... What will we do with him??? I am glad you guys made up. That is odd to me to just give up a kid??? Imagine the emotional scars.
comment by kristilyn3 on Mar 29, 2012 7:01 AM ()
Yes, I can't give up pets, much less children. There was a sad story today
from our humane society. It seems a lot of young people take their pets there
because they want to go on spring break and don't want the responsibility. grr.
reply by elderjane on Mar 30, 2012 4:48 PM ()
It takes courage to go back to parenting after "retirement". I commend your friends. I hope Hailey thrives with them. Love sometimes does conquer all.
Give my best to Rex. Tell him I understand.
comment by tealstar on Mar 29, 2012 6:51 AM ()
It is hard to go back to rearing a child after you have had freedom for
awhile. She is adorable.
reply by elderjane on Mar 30, 2012 4:53 PM ()
Rex needs a lot of understanding but he is such a cute dog that I can't
stay mad at him for long and Ted is a totally indulgent parent.
reply by elderjane on Mar 30, 2012 4:50 PM ()
My mother gave me to others to raise, but like a bad penny, I kept coming back. With me, it was because I was sick and expected to die of leukemia. She thought it would be easier if she was as emotionally detached as possible. Fortunately, my dad volunteered me to the Army as a research subject.They used babies with leukemia to research treatments for radiation poisoning.
comment by dragonflyby on Mar 29, 2012 6:31 AM ()
Dottie, I don't know how you endured your childhood. It would have defeated
me.
reply by elderjane on Mar 30, 2012 4:54 PM ()
Wow! You seem to have come out of all that just fine.
reply by kristilyn3 on Mar 29, 2012 7:02 AM ()
Wow, what a story. Did the army provide emotional support? You seem to have weathered this devastation rather well.
reply by tealstar on Mar 29, 2012 6:48 AM ()
In Long Beach our next door neighbors took in the woman's sister's 9-month old daughter. They raised her. The mother was a total nut case. Drugs, cycle gang chick, and more. She tried to get the daughter back after she was in middle school, but the neighbors fought it and eventually got total custody and then a true adoption. Long story but it was neat to watch a childless couple suddenly faced with a baby to raise this human for all those years.
comment by jondude on Mar 29, 2012 6:26 AM ()
They are to be commended. I am sure they were richly rewarded. Everyday, I
appreciate being part of my grand daughter's lives. Their hugs and kisses
and protestations that I am their best grandma just warms my heart.
reply by elderjane on Mar 30, 2012 4:58 PM ()

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