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Thanksgiving Redux

It's Saturday morning, and I've survived "Thanksgiving", the day after Thanksgiving.

It's a cold, frosty morning. Wood furnace is cranked up, filling the house with earthy odors of ash and elm burning. I'm planning on staying home and indoors all day, especially after being gone most of yesterday.

First, I went to my father's house (shared with sister Barb). I soon discovered he's in a procrastinating mood in moving his belongings to his new duplex. It's like he's in a blue funk, which is very unusual for him.

So, with some motivating words and actions, I started loading up my truck with knick-knacks and books. Pretty soon, we had the whole back of the truck filled. He was getting excited. I got him to call the moving company and set a firm date for the "big move". Next Wed, Dec. 1. Barb was helpful, although busy with her share in the Thanksgiving dishes. (I had already made my corn dish.)

Then, Dad drove us all over to my other sister's for our delayed turkey feast. My daughter, husband, and child came up. Everything was great. Dad withdrew into the food, and later, the TV. He doesn't hear well, and tunes out all extraneous noises and activities, burying his head into the plate of food set before him. Meanwhile, the rest of us had a grand time talking and giving attention to "Little John" (13 mo.).

On the drive home, I realized how dangerous it is for my father to be on the road. He weaved and bobbed, accelerated and stopped suddenly, didn't use his turn signals, drove with his brights on (Me: "Your brights are on". Him: "No they're not". Me: "Check your dashboard-- they're on". Him: "I don't see anything". Etc.) At age 93 9in March), I think it's getting close to taking away the car keys.

But, as I said, I survived to spend another day watching college football and basketball. Go IU, beat Purdue. Ha ha. Like that will happen. Good thing there are other games to watch. Enjoy your weekend.

posted on Nov 27, 2010 6:06 AM ()

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We spent the day after Thanksgiving regrouping and resting.
comment by panthurdreams on Nov 27, 2010 11:51 AM ()
I'm wondering what "regrouping" entails! I suppose, getting back to normalcy, eh? Holidays will do that, although I enjoy the change in routine.
reply by solitaire on Nov 28, 2010 5:33 AM ()
Wow, sounds like a scary ride with your Dad. I don't drive at night anymore due to my poor vision. I have the beginnings of cataracts and the lights drive me nuts. I don't envy you when you finally have to take the keys from him. That's tough.
comment by gapeach on Nov 27, 2010 11:50 AM ()
Even I don't like driving at night. I can't judge distance as well. At least you are sensible enough to know your limits. My dad hasn't come to that realization yet, sorry to say. HE may be the sorry one!
reply by solitaire on Nov 28, 2010 5:31 AM ()
I envy your peaceful and warm Saturday....Enjoy!
comment by juliansmom on Nov 27, 2010 10:37 AM ()
I must admit, life is good. I appreciate most every precious minute. Even bad news doesn't take me down for long. Your time will come. I know you lead a difficult life. I've been down that road (with 3 teenage girls!). I've said it over and over again, but hang in there.
reply by solitaire on Nov 28, 2010 5:29 AM ()
I was sad Bama lost... Sounds like a great day! I don't want to think about having to take away my parents car keys... that will be a sad day for your Dad indeed...
comment by kristilyn3 on Nov 27, 2010 9:44 AM ()
And my alma mater actually won! What a thrilling game. I screamed and hollered in glee. That's why I watch football. Adrenalin rush.
reply by solitaire on Nov 28, 2010 5:24 AM ()
Heck I hate not having a car but your dad's car should have been taken away before now even if it means more 'work' for the kids.
comment by greatmartin on Nov 27, 2010 9:34 AM ()
Worse, is the fact that he's always been in the car business--a car dealer for his livelihood. It's his whole life, even now--always looking at car magazines, dreaming of his "next car". It hasn't hit him yet that he's too old to be considering a new car, let alone driving. Here comes trouble.
reply by solitaire on Nov 28, 2010 5:22 AM ()
Yes, it's time to stop your dad from driving. So he'll be angry and in denial and the alternative is worse. You're living a nice life. I wouldn't mess it up with watching football, but that's me.
comment by tealstar on Nov 27, 2010 8:29 AM ()
What you say is true (about my father). We'll see. It's not a total waste of time when I watch games on TV. I usually read (got a whole Nat. Geo completed yest.), or putter around, like putting away "Fall decorations" and adding Christmas ones. I can totally relax when I want to.
reply by solitaire on Nov 28, 2010 5:18 AM ()
Taking away the car keys is hard because it takes a person's independence
with it. It just has to be done for his and the safety of other people.
comment by elderjane on Nov 27, 2010 8:21 AM ()
He doesn't like to be bossed around, either. And I refuse to treat him like a child (like my sisters do). As soon as he has an accident, he'll realize it's time to quit driving.
reply by solitaire on Nov 28, 2010 5:12 AM ()
It may be time for your dad to stop driving, especially at night. Sounds like you emjoyed yourself.
comment by dragonflyby on Nov 27, 2010 7:43 AM ()
Yes, I've noticed several things that are cause for concern in my Dad's behavior. Goes with age, I reckon. Naturally, he denies his driving impairment. Hope you had a nice Thanksgiving. Stay at home?
reply by solitaire on Nov 28, 2010 5:10 AM ()
Sounds that things are going okay there.
For the driving this is spooky.Do they have laws there at every five years for a driving test to see how the person is doing?I have to go every five to get my liscense rewnewed.I watched my Pat play and over run the Lion.
Read my blog on this.Enjoy the rest of the weekend.Good luck in Dad moving.
comment by fredo on Nov 27, 2010 6:21 AM ()
My Colts are on tonight. Wish it wasn't so late. I need my beauty sleep. I require 8 hrs, plus a nap.
reply by solitaire on Nov 28, 2010 5:07 AM ()

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