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Life & Events > Run of Bad Luck
 

Run of Bad Luck

I ain't complaining--life is good--but I sure have had a run of bad luck lately.
I've mentioned my dog bite (healed), house broken in to, backing over my cat, bee stings, etc. But wait, there's more!
I buried Lucy, my black Lab yesterday. She was a faithful dog, always happy to see me. She loved to run with me on my jogs, no matter how far or how hot. Yes, she'd dig in my garden or bark into the night, but how could I be angry at her as she sheepishly bowed her head in shame? Farewell, my friend.

I rarely skip a Lions Club meeting, but I was feeling low with Lucy's passing. Plus I wanted to watch the Cubs in the playoffs. Well, for the first time in the 10 years I've been a member, my number was drawn to win $50. No show, no money. Wouldn't you know it.

I had an argument with my father yesterday about me "bailing out" my children on occasion. He's from the old "experience is the best lesson" school. My son lost his job (Wachovia), daughter and husband near bankruptcy (construction), another daughter's husband laid off (electrician), and I worry about my third daughter living in dangerous Honduras. What's a father to do?

Well, I'm off to play golf, then cut firewood. Time to reflect and start a new chapter. Things just have to get better!

posted on Oct 3, 2008 5:42 AM ()

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Wow... You have been busy since I have been away. And let me say first, I am so sorry about Lucy! *Hug*

Now for the rest - Good grief!!

Hope that all the "bad luck" has run it's course -

Now, onto parenting - I know your dad means well (as did mine) but we live in a different world than our fathers did, and sometimes we do need to step in and help from time to time. I don't mind helping my children out as long as it's legit - (My daughter wanted money for cigarettes one time... Ummm Hell no!)
Never feel bad for loving your kids!

comment by greeneyedgemini on Oct 15, 2008 2:37 PM ()
Did you break a mirror, walk under a ladder, or let a black cat cross in front of you???? Geez... you are having some tough times. I am very sorry to hear about Lucy. Loosing a dog is like loosing a family member. My heart goes out to you. I do hope things get better soon. Love & (((hugs))) - Annie
comment by anniel on Oct 11, 2008 2:06 PM ()
Here's to better days ahead for all of us. Like you said, it's got to, right?
comment by shesaidwhat on Oct 8, 2008 3:08 PM ()
Hope things are looking up for you!
comment by spicybitch on Oct 5, 2008 2:06 PM ()
Sending you a friendly blooming bouquet of caring, my friend!
comment by marta on Oct 5, 2008 11:34 AM ()
I'm so sorry about your pet and your kids' bad luck. I hope that things will get better--and soon! It is odd about your dad--my folks were just the opposite--couldn't do enough for those grandkids--too much, in fact.
comment by angiedw on Oct 4, 2008 3:03 AM ()
Oh, no! I'm so sorry about Lucy. What happened? I'll light a candle for her.
comment by catdancer on Oct 3, 2008 10:32 PM ()
Oh boy. I hope your bad luck runs out.
comment by imaginaryfriend on Oct 3, 2008 6:41 PM ()
Wow! You are having a run of bad luck. About your children- I mentioned you and your relationship with them in my post, "Mo' Money Update" because it so paralleled my relationship with my youngest son. While your father may or may not be right, helping adult children is out of love for them. I will never criticize you for caring about them, and heck- it's your money, not your father's, and no one has the right to tell you how or where you should spend it. BTW: I second Jeri's suggestion if that is feasible. This is as close to the Depression as we are going to get, and during that time a lot of families consolidated to make it through the rough times.
comment by dragonflyby on Oct 3, 2008 12:52 PM ()
Your dad isn't factoring conditions beyond a person's control, like the devastating economy right now. Good friends of mine moved back to the midwest where there are jobs. They slept in their truck the first two nights because they couldn't afford a motel room. I am so sorry about your lab. A good friend is hard to lose. But hang in there, and be happy your own health is okay.
comment by tealstar on Oct 3, 2008 10:03 AM ()
Randy, I'm so sorry to hear this. So much for the adage that bad luck comes in threes. Yes, turn the page, new chapter coming up.
comment by troutbend on Oct 3, 2008 9:26 AM ()
Let them move home, Randy. You have a big house. The economy is in such bad shape, you need to find another alternative to a cash bailout. You may need it later. They can rent their houses until they are back on their feet.
comment by elderjane on Oct 3, 2008 6:12 AM ()

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