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Life & Events > Ol' Lonesome Me
 

Ol' Lonesome Me

What a week!

Other newspapers and television got wind of the article referred to in my previous post. The ABC affiliate out of Indianapolis called for a story.

They flew a helicopter up, interviewed me (my SIL was unavailable), and there I was, watching myself later on TV! It was all so surreal. I was feeling good. Perhaps not 15 minutes worth of fame, but at least 15 seconds!

Then came the crash.

I fixed supper, ate alone, checked the TV listings, turned off the news. Silence. Not so "golden".

No phone calls saying "Hey ol' buddy, saw you on television". Zippo.
For the first time in a very long while, I sank into some sort of depression. I really felt alone and sad. I had no one with which to share my recent exhilaration and "fame".
And no calls this morning. (one facebook note)

I'm gratified that many of my mybloggers readers commented they read the newspaper article, anyway.

Living alone out in the sticks has many advantages. I wouldn't trade it for anything. But, occasionally, it does get lonely. I don't get out much--don't force myself on anyone. My choice, so I can't complain.

BUT! Sitting here at my upstairs computer, looking out the window, the sun is shining and I've been watching a pair of bluebirds eying my bird box, and a pair of purple finches flying about. I mentioned Sandhill cranes flying north. Even robins are around! Spring is coming. I plotted out garden plans last night.
That all makes me feel better!
Have a great weekend.
Oh, I about forgot: I have a "Starbucks" date tomorrow (Sun). Blind, of course. Things are looking up again.

posted on Feb 18, 2012 6:00 AM ()

Comments:

Coffee is not a bad way to meet someone. I prefer Dunkin Donuts to Starbuks.
comment by dragonflyby on Feb 19, 2012 4:03 PM ()
Without going into details, the date was a bust. And it cost me $11.12. Not only is mocha expensive (and yucky), she had some "thing" to go with it. Why do I do put myself through this agony?
reply by solitaire on Feb 20, 2012 5:24 AM ()
I am thinking of blueberry crisp.My favorites is rhubarb
Good luck.
comment by fredo on Feb 19, 2012 10:24 AM ()
Actually, I tossed in some rhubarb with the apples! Gave it a "bang"!
reply by solitaire on Feb 20, 2012 5:22 AM ()
Sorry your fifteen minutes of fame did not lead to screaming fans and autograph seekers. Maybe next time.
comment by redimpala on Feb 19, 2012 7:30 AM ()
I doubt if there will be a next time. Time is running out on me! I'll slowly fade away into obscurity.
reply by solitaire on Feb 20, 2012 5:21 AM ()
You really wouldn't want all that notoriety, would you? Paparazzi following you around, taking your picture, no privacy? Better to keep a low profile, then you know your blind dates want you for you, not your fame....
comment by boots586 on Feb 18, 2012 5:01 PM ()
Perhaps a little recognition would be nice, but I understand. Besides, I'm not big on phone conversations.
reply by solitaire on Feb 19, 2012 5:55 AM ()
You are a star and always be.Good luck tomorrow.Keep us informed.
comment by fredo on Feb 18, 2012 4:00 PM ()
But, of course. I always keep my friends informed. Enjoyed the phone call. I meant to tell you that I made an apple crisp Sat. afternoon. Thought of you, then you called!
reply by solitaire on Feb 19, 2012 5:52 AM ()
Good luck on your date!!! Hope its a good one :)
comment by hennaladykim on Feb 18, 2012 9:35 AM ()
You know, I don't really care. She lives too far away, anyway. But, nothing ventured, nothing gained. Probably a "one and done".
reply by solitaire on Feb 19, 2012 5:50 AM ()
Mmmm Starbucks. Have fun and don't be expecting a 25 yo hottie! Sorry no one called to say they saw you or anything.. that is VERY cool though to be on TV!
comment by kristilyn3 on Feb 18, 2012 9:30 AM ()
National news, also! (see new post) This date is my age--another "granny"?
reply by solitaire on Feb 19, 2012 5:49 AM ()
The let-down after your fifteen minutes of fame. BTW, I had a 'blind' date but I kept tripping over her white cane.
comment by jondude on Feb 18, 2012 7:09 AM ()
A mere 15 seconds of fame--or should that be notoriety? As for the date, I have bad vibes.
reply by solitaire on Feb 19, 2012 5:47 AM ()
Some people are more outgoing naturally than others. Even though you live in a more isolated location, I'll bet you can increase your social interactions if you decide to, which will lead to more contacts and friendships. It's up to you. Now, make the most of your Starbucks date!
comment by marta on Feb 18, 2012 7:03 AM ()
We all have our "down" moments. They balance "euphoric" moments. I get them, too. For now, I'm just living one day at a time, but with an eye to the future. Key word: anticipation. Always anticipating.
reply by solitaire on Feb 19, 2012 5:45 AM ()

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