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News from the Farm House

It's a cold, but bright, sunny Sunday morning. Glad I don't have to go to church. The horse manure pile is steaming, doing it's thing. I'm so happy (it doesn't take much)!

The good news with the cold temps is that hopefully the ground will be frozen enough that the "house moving party" can happen tomorrow. I went up there yest. to help Nate cut down fence row trees and brush to make a "cut through" for the house. That, and the need for the ground to be firm, is all that's necessary for the one mile trek across corn stubble fields to its destination on my farm. (I don't live there--I'm 5 miles away) Fingers and toes crossed!

Remember the gal that I had a lunch date with 9 days ago?
She called yest. to say she was passing through and had 4 blueberry muffins to give me. I said "wonderful", but I thought "oh, dear me". Here I am trying to let her down easily, and she does this to me. She stayed for 30'. I just don't feel comfortable with her. Nice, yes. Pleasant, yes. At ease with her, no. Can't explain it. Chemistry, I suppose.

In an unrelated matter, I've decided my great great grandfather never really died. He's still alive! Despite all my best efforts, including writing to and getting a large package of genealogy "junk" from my ancestor's county of residence, nothing has been found saying when he or his first wife (g.g grmother) died. I know WHERE he's buried, but, evidently, there's no date indicated. If the genealogist of DeKalb Co, IN can't find it, there's little hope I can. Being a "Smith" has its drawbacks. But, I'm not giving up!

The same is true on my mother's side, generation-wise. It's the reverse, however. Date of death known, cemetery not. Genealogy research can be extremely frustrating.

That's the news from county road 550 north. Have a good one.

posted on Feb 12, 2012 6:50 AM ()

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comment by crazylife on Feb 14, 2012 7:38 PM ()
I'm having the same problem with my grandfather on my mother's side. Can't seem to find where he was born.
comment by redimpala on Feb 13, 2012 6:06 PM ()
Oops! meant to say the Mormon Genealogical librarymy faux pas!
reply by redimpala on Feb 14, 2012 5:43 AM ()
And to you also. I haven't yet done it; but I'm thinking about checking out the Mormom Archeological libray, which is supposed to be one of the largest in the world. I have to google it to figure out exactly how to access it.
reply by redimpala on Feb 14, 2012 5:42 AM ()
Perhaps I'm asking for too much, but I know the information is "out there" somewhere! Good luck in your research.
reply by solitaire on Feb 14, 2012 5:40 AM ()
What?
comment by drmaus on Feb 13, 2012 2:13 PM ()
I hope the house move is going on right now.
And yeah, please let this nice lady know that you are not interested...
comment by kristilyn3 on Feb 13, 2012 11:57 AM ()
If I quit emailing her, she'll figure it out!
reply by solitaire on Feb 14, 2012 5:39 AM ()
It's fascinating to hear how men deal with issues in dating that once were mostly the woman's problem. Maybe you must do what young girls who get too much unwanted attention are taught: Fend off advances as early as possible. Do not accept any more food gifts; you could lie, say your diet does not allow it, or be awkwardly truthful and just say you don't feel comfortable accepting any gift from her, since your date together lacked chemistry; and say you won't be available when they want to stop by.

Certain issues lately have caused me to think about women's lives and behavior, and the refusing a date issue concerns me. Women aren't natural liars. But that's what the usual response tended to be: a lie. I think we were taught that giving some excuse for refusing a date was supposed to be more civilized, or something. It's only over many years that we've learned men should have been given the truth.
comment by drmaus on Feb 12, 2012 1:53 PM ()
Of course, YOU know what you're referring to (and I don't). Sounds like you've run into some problems (issues) recently. Join the club! I disagree to the idea that women aren't natural liars. I think they are--and very good at it. I, for one, don't need it.
reply by solitaire on Feb 13, 2012 5:38 AM ()
I hope that the cold holds for you for a few more days. We had a little snow here-a lot in NW IN. A little more coming on Mon. and Tues. followed by another small warmup. What a great winter we have been having. The mildest in 80 years, they say. And two more weeks until the end of winter is in sight. I have gotten hooked on tv show Who Do You Think You Are. I am thinking I will join ancestor.com and do a little research on my family.
comment by boots586 on Feb 12, 2012 12:57 PM ()
I had a long-lost cousin in NY who had done some research. I am hoping she had entered it into ancestor.com before she disappeared.
reply by boots586 on Feb 13, 2012 5:54 PM ()
Nobody has ever done any family genealogy? I know I'm the first in my family. As much as I complain, I've actually had much success and am thrilled at my discoveries. I shouldn't complain--every line has an end. Some lines are just shorter than others.
reply by solitaire on Feb 13, 2012 5:33 AM ()
Holding best hopes for the house move tomorrow!
Ancestry research takes a lots of patience and digging. I've done a lot online, and I'm hoping to take my notes downtown one day to our main library to hunt local genealogy records for my Mom's paternal family. As soon as I can find the time and transportation. The discoveries can be fascinating
comment by marta on Feb 12, 2012 9:47 AM ()
I'm still trying to sort things out. Going to have to take a trip up to Auburn IN. Curiosity can be expensive, but worthwhile, perhaps.
reply by solitaire on Feb 13, 2012 5:30 AM ()
I had to do some genealogy in graduate school for family dynamics, but I couldn't get into it even tho a cousin in Texas had a head start that he shared with me. Seems that greatgrandpa Anton changed the spelling of the last name when he came from Germany. That was about as far back as I tried to go on my father's side. Donna was working on her tree and got email from some woman in the Netherlands. This woman was asking for more info than she was giving and Donna asked if she was collecting the info to sell. The woman stopped asking question! But good luck to you!
comment by jjoohhnn on Feb 12, 2012 8:50 AM ()
Once I get all the information, I'd like to share it over the internet, but, of course, I don't know how! I need to find a woman who's computer savey!
reply by solitaire on Feb 13, 2012 5:28 AM ()
Happy Birthday to Abraham and Charles.Your coming up soon.Are you going to do a count down when it is.
comment by fredo on Feb 12, 2012 8:18 AM ()
I could make a big deal out of it being my 69th! But I won't.
reply by solitaire on Feb 13, 2012 5:25 AM ()
I forgot: Happy birthdays to Abraham Lincoln AND Charles Darwin, both born on the same exact day!
comment by solitaire on Feb 12, 2012 7:00 AM ()

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