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Minor Irritations

Okay, another Thanksgiving is history. Here are my thoughts and "review".

I'll give it a C grade. It was at my sister Barb's house, the one my father bought and she "took over" (driving him out, virtually). She's "Queen Bee", loves the attention.

"Guests were our immediate family--Dad, me, my daughter and her husband and son, plus sister's friend and hubby (who can't talk), AND my ex-wife. NOOOOOOOOOOO!
My other sister, Barb's twin Carole, didn't even show up. She said she had high blood pressure and didn't feel up to coming. That's okay, except that she was to bring cranberry sauce and stuffing. Booo.

I brought fried sweet potatoes (yum), scalloped corn, and a pecan/persimmon pie (yes, I made them). The overall food was delicious, except cold. Thanks, inventer of the microwave. The turkey was an organic 23 pounder @ $6.25/lb! Son-in-law got it in a food trade. My traditional drumstick was very chewy--not fun.

Everybody ate fast, as predicted. I hadn't finished the main course by the time the pie plates were cleaned up and the dishes were in the dishwasher. I ignored their comments except to say "I savor, not snarf". I had to forage for pie an hour later. Heck, I was still eating when people were leaving!

Overall, I really didn't have a good time, despite the wine. I couldn't spend much time with my grandson who was being "attended to" by everybody else, esp. my ex. Stay away! I mean the atmosphere was friendly enough, but with the bad vibes between my father and sister, etc., the atmosphere just didn't feel warm and genuine. Know what I mean?

I suppose I get too disgusted too easily. Or I require "perfection"--I'm too picky. I could go on, but you get the picture. Next, Christmas. Ugh.

posted on Nov 26, 2011 6:03 AM ()

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It's over for another year.
comment by crazylife on Nov 29, 2011 8:23 PM ()
I wish. Christmas, Easter, birthdays.....
reply by solitaire on Nov 30, 2011 5:14 AM ()
Ah the joys of family... I am lucky that mine are pretty deal with able!
comment by kristilyn3 on Nov 28, 2011 6:57 AM ()
It's really not as bad as I make it sound--or is it?
reply by solitaire on Nov 29, 2011 4:59 AM ()
It's rude of your family to rush you but I am wondering if you eat even more slowly when you are with them just to be ornery. If you want pie before it's divvied up or put away, sneak in and get your piece(s) early and hide them.
comment by tealstar on Nov 26, 2011 7:32 PM ()
Au contraire. I actually think I'm eating fast. I could go much slower--on purpose. I use the microwave a lot because I don't like cold food. Waiting slows me down. As for the pie, no further comment.
reply by solitaire on Nov 27, 2011 5:39 AM ()
Sorry to hear that...never fun eating alone or people not enjoying their time together. We eat at a good pace but had lots of conversations and laughter amongst our meal. Everyone pitched in on the cooking and cleaning. Played a couple of rounds of Phase 10!! It was a great Thanksgiving!
comment by panthurdreams on Nov 26, 2011 12:11 PM ()
I'm not familiar with Phase 10. Not much on games, anyway. Good parties depend on the people involved. With family, one doesn't have a choice as to who to invite!
reply by solitaire on Nov 27, 2011 5:34 AM ()
I wish you had a better time than you did.I hate the holidays...
comment by dogsalot on Nov 26, 2011 12:08 PM ()
Hi Laura. Yeah, holidays can be a bummer. But it's tradition.
reply by solitaire on Nov 27, 2011 5:32 AM ()
You had that nice time you wrote about in your "Homecoming" post, and I expected your Thanksgiving to be more of the same. Go over to your other sister's and get some of that cranberry sauce (assuming she made it at all). Did your dad move back into the assisted living after Barb took over his house?
comment by troutbend on Nov 26, 2011 11:46 AM ()
I called my "cranberry" sister as soon as I found out she wasn't coming. She didn't answer, so I left a message on voice mail indicating my displeasure. She emailed me yest to say her health was more important than sauce and stuffing. I didn't respond. Dad lives in a house on village grounds. He needs no assistance. In fact, he walked a half mile round trip to and from Barb's. He actually behaved himself at the dinner!
reply by solitaire on Nov 27, 2011 5:30 AM ()
Families are difficult, especially if we go into family gatherings and events with our own expectations.
comment by dragonflyby on Nov 26, 2011 10:45 AM ()
I'm not sure what my "expectations" were. I just know the players and know how to adjust (sort of). Can't wait for the next gathering!
reply by solitaire on Nov 27, 2011 5:25 AM ()
comment by marta on Nov 26, 2011 10:29 AM ()
We ate (not worked) this year at the community dinner. I give the experience an "A". Donna's daughter went to her in-laws so we were off the hook. It was a great day. I can picture your experience tho. Used to go do my brother's when my mother was alive. I'm pleased that those days are over.
comment by jjoohhnn on Nov 26, 2011 10:24 AM ()
I'm just glad I had football on television to distract me from reality!
reply by solitaire on Nov 27, 2011 5:23 AM ()
Ah family--even with my 'made up' family problems arise!!!
comment by greatmartin on Nov 26, 2011 10:20 AM ()
Tell me more!
reply by solitaire on Nov 27, 2011 5:22 AM ()
We all have this picture in our heads of the perfect holiday and it seldom happens. I dread the time from Thanksgiving to the day after Christmas. New Year's is OK. My daughter is the slow eater in our family. We recognize that and try to adjust. We would never move on to the next course, though. That is just plain rude.
comment by boots586 on Nov 26, 2011 7:34 AM ()
Next time (if there IS a next time), I'm going to lay down "your" rule! Good idea. Do you host your family's holiday meals?
reply by solitaire on Nov 27, 2011 5:21 AM ()
What is Thanksgiving without stuffing and Cranberry sauce? I missed out totally so am going to cook Sunday. Who invited an ex wife...horrid thought.
comment by elderjane on Nov 26, 2011 7:19 AM ()
It was one of those "Do you mind, Randy, if...." What could I say? The ex is going through a second divorce and "is lonely". Boo hoo. Besides, I'm a really nice guy. We got along alright. Missed the stuffing (and mashed potatoes), but somebody whipped up some cranberry sauce.
reply by solitaire on Nov 27, 2011 5:18 AM ()
I think the ex was there because they share the daughter who was there. Can hardly get away from contact when you have kids.
reply by tealstar on Nov 26, 2011 7:29 PM ()
Sounds as if your "C" grade was overstated. I would have run out the door and eaten with the neighbors.
comment by jondude on Nov 26, 2011 6:21 AM ()
I'm considering staying home next time, like my one sister. I can think of lots of pluses in doing that!
reply by solitaire on Nov 27, 2011 5:15 AM ()

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