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Parenting & Family > Motherhood > My Overwhelmed Daughter
 

My Overwhelmed Daughter

My 22 year old daughter recently took a new position, as a certified medical technician, in the Emergency room at the hospital she's worked at for over 2 years. At this new job, she sees and deals with much more trauma than she did on the floor of her last position.

She called me crying last night after her shift and said tearfully "Mom,... I just called to tell you I love you."

I said "Honey what's wrong?"

She then proceeded to tell me about the rough day she had in the emergency room. An 11 year old boy had been shot in the chest. She and "the team" working on this boy tried for over an hour to save this lil' guys life, but sadly, he died.

She has "lost" other patients in the past, but this was the first child and she was just so overwhelmed with grief.


She has saved one persons life, literally bringing them back from the dead, via CPR since she took on the emergency room. I'll never forget how excited she was when she called me to share this joyful news. But she also knows that death is a part of her job. I think it hurts 10 times more when it's the senseless death of a child.


Bless her heart that she took the time to call me and say those important words.

Because life is short.

Life is fragile.

And sometimes life doesn't make sense, nor is it fair.


Tell those closest to you how much you love them today!

posted on Nov 19, 2008 6:51 AM ()

Comments:

Heart-breaking, and yet wonderful that your daughter is one of those special people who take these unfortunate moments as a cue to remind those around her how much they mean to her.
comment by mellowdee on Nov 21, 2008 5:46 PM ()
My mother is a nurse...has been for over thirty years now...she has become desensitized to the realities of her work (like being able to remove the breast of my father's sister)but even she still has moments.
comment by janetk on Nov 21, 2008 6:22 AM ()
that has got to be tough. She is a very brave and selfless woman though to let the death of a young soul affect her so much
comment by ducky on Nov 20, 2008 7:53 AM ()
She will learn to become desensitized to a point...but I am sure you never really completely go cold...
God bless her for being so brave to do what she is doing.
comment by sybilmariee on Nov 19, 2008 1:12 PM ()
Life is fragile and people are fragile. There are so many who have no respect whatsoever for another's life and their worth.
comment by busymichmom on Nov 19, 2008 10:40 AM ()
comment by fredo on Nov 19, 2008 9:37 AM ()
That's an important lesson to learn. You just never know.
comment by hayduke on Nov 19, 2008 9:15 AM ()
I take my hat off to anyone who can work in that environment. She is a great lady.
comment by meranda on Nov 19, 2008 7:51 AM ()
comment by kristilyn3 on Nov 19, 2008 7:41 AM ()

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