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Me, All About Me

I will answer to this, then I don't have any plans to discuss it further. It was stated by a blogger here
that I tend to be "secretive" when discussing myself,
and you know I really can't disagree with that statement.
I never have been one to talk about myself, or "air my
laundry" in public, and I have reasons for that. There
are things about myself and my family that are really no
one else's concern. If someone chooses to make their life
an open book that to me is their choice, they are the ones who will have to live with that. Also there are certain
topics that I feel no need to discuss, sex and religion are two that spring to mind immediately. Like I said before if
you choose to discuss that here..well that is your prerogative, as for me I don't feel the need for it. For the record though I do believe in God..though I am not a
regular church-goer, and I encourage that belief in my
children(my belief in God..not the absence of church going). Why I don't go to church, again that is between myself and the Almighty..other then that I feel I owe no
one any explanation. As for the sex and talking about women
in a derogatory fashion, well that should be self-explanatory. I hold women in a very high regard and respect,and the measure of a woman is not about bust size. When measuring a woman I look at intelligence, spirit, heart, and sense of humor..and of course character. Do I consider myself prejudice?? If used in it's context yes I am, and I believe if you dislike something(or someone)then yes you are prejudice also. But do I dislike due to race, color, religious belief, or even sexual orientation..the answer is no. Mostly I write poetry here, but from time to time I have written, commented on other peoples blogs. I offer my opinion from time to time, and that is all it is..an opinion. It bears only the credence that you choose to give it, and yes I do receive as I give..in the same spirit. If a person chooses to debase me or try to draw me into a "pissing contest"..well too bad you are wasting your time. Well I know this has turned out to be a little long-winded, but I felt I needed to clear the air on this.

posted on Sept 19, 2008 1:21 PM ()

Comments:

Tim, I don't know what's going on, but this is your blog and I think you should be able to blog about what you wish to blog about. I do, and I think that's what most people do. Some blog about their thoughts and personal things and some don't.. It is a public site, and so I think YOU can go and make comments on others' blogs. I always welcome you! You're never critical. You write beautiful poetry. That's what I read when I come here. I always thought that was what your blog was about. It is wonderful poetry. Sometimes I come here when I'm not really online and read and am inspired.
comment by sunlight on Sept 20, 2008 7:38 PM ()
Oh Red... your an "alright guy".. but as was said "you are a prude". I just think the problem is "you flat out take life too serious". Jeez man, can you distinguish "jokes from reality"? Have you ever "told" a joke?? My opinion... you need to chill out a tad...

In life "Tim", Nobody that I know (in person) that I met online first (and I meet alot) talks completely like they do in a blog forum. The reason.. blogs are for "basically" opening up.. things you can't do in the real world. Now, I will admit.. I am more direct and forward then most.. but I certainly don't express my views to every customer that happens by. I am very respectful.. cool.. and kinda go with their flow. This (and any blog) is a forum to express thoughts. You really shouldn't let others thoughts piss you off. Unless of course, they are threats and not just opinions.

To be honest Tim...90.678% (I did the math) of the time my "customers" walk away feeling "good" after an experience with me. I am totally me, but I can crack a joke or whatever. What I have in "person" that I don't have online is this. In person.. some dude buys a "2 name necklace" with both their names. He comes to the booth.. orders it. I tell him (the dude with the AC/DC shirt).. "Man, you'll get a good BJ over this.. GREAT time for you tonight!!". He goes home happy. I sized him up.. Now.. if your following my point, you can't do that online. No matter WHAT you say here.. someone will be pissed. You can either decide to be "what they want you" to be.. or just be yourself. You are not talking "one on one" you are talking to a community. Now if I was 'politically correct' (running for office) I would be different.. but since I'm not... what you see is what you get.

Last thought is this.. You've been vocal against me.. I have you. I still like you though. Very easily if we ever had a debate... of 100 people 50 would support you, 50 would me... so kinda pointless.

You a good guy Red... Take care man
comment by coincutter on Sept 20, 2008 6:05 PM ()
You sound just like me. I allude to things, but never use names, unless it's about Caylee and finding her. I just talk about "stuff" and remain non-political. I also do not attend a "church" (which to me is a building, but maybe not to others)I worship God, I just do it in my own way. Well said. Each person has a right to their own opinion -- that's how I feel.
comment by teacherwoman on Sept 20, 2008 12:26 PM ()
comment by strider333 on Sept 19, 2008 10:05 PM ()
I am one who tells EVERYTHING about myself--who I am, who I was, what I have done and where,where I came from and how I got here, etc., Probably the only thing I don't talk about is the actual sex acts I have done and/or performed and that's because in that way I am a prude. I have always respected and always will respect what someone wants to tell and/or what they don't won't tell--just as I have the right to ask ANY question I want the person has the right not to answer any question they don't want to.
From your poems and some blogs you ahve written I know you are a good person--nothing else matters.
comment by greatmartin on Sept 19, 2008 8:20 PM ()
verah good post, Tim. You'll be a valuable asset to the Bugg Administration

reguards
yer no further vetting necessary pal
bugg
comment by honeybugg on Sept 19, 2008 4:40 PM ()
Good Tim.Very nice short bio.
comment by fredo on Sept 19, 2008 2:00 PM ()

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