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Life & Events > I Can't Think of a Title for This Post ... .
 

I Can't Think of a Title for This Post ... .


.....so maybe you can think of one.



It snowed this morning.  I was camping a week ago, getting a sunburn and woke up today with 7 inches of snow!! 




What the hell?  I hate this time of year..... the waiting.  The yearning for warmth.  Sunshine that even when it comes is chilled by the wind.  I want some HEAT.  Turn it up!! 

 

I got home from my camping trip and found out my daughter is in jail.  She has pretty much been in and out of jail since she was 16 but this time, it's adult jail and she is pregnant so I'm hoping she finds it much more intimidating than kiddy jail.  She got 30 days for a dirty UA.  I knew she was not clean but couldn't figure out how she was passing those drug test.  Guess she didn't!    I just hope she pulls her head out and stays clean after her 30 days.  At least for the baby.  MY grandbaby. 


 

I haven't been to visit yet.  I still can't decide if I should or not.  On one hand, I feel like I should let her get her true punishment and see what it's like to sit in jail for 30 days without mom there for a shoulder to cry on.  But on the other hand, I love her and know if it was me sitting there, a visit from mom would be wonderful. 

 

Her asshole father text me Saturday to see if went to visit her.  It pissed me off.  He thinks I should just give her what she wants even after she has put me through hell for 3 years and robbed me blind.  So I texted him back and said "no, did YOU go visit her?"  Of course he didn't.  He lives 4 hours away and won't waste a weekend to come visit her.  Jerk.  Prick.  Douchebag.

 

She should get out just in time for her 19th birthday.  Man that makes me feel old.  Where did the years go? 

posted on Mar 31, 2008 1:29 PM ()

Comments:

Oh boy....
comment by janetk on Apr 3, 2008 5:02 PM ()
Go see her, but you are doing the right thing. Tough love is a requirement sometimes. (I too have a 19 year old)
comment by teacherwoman on Apr 1, 2008 2:22 PM ()
I am so sorry for the pain that you must feel. I have no suggestions, for I make too many mistakes myself to try to counsel someone.
comment by angiedw on Mar 31, 2008 3:06 PM ()
Gosh... that is rough. On one hand I completely agree - it seems like some tough love is in order. But on the other hand, I can't imagine the pain you must feel as her mom.
comment by mellowdee on Mar 31, 2008 2:49 PM ()
thats a tough one. I would probably go see her just to let her know I still love her but that she needs to get her act together.
comment by elkhound on Mar 31, 2008 1:38 PM ()

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