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It's been a texting drama for me this morning.
Last night GF and I went to some friends house for a BBQ. We visited with everyone and ate a rare steak due to the gas running out on the propane tank and no side dish due to the hostess being a bad hostess. But it was fun and we got to see some friends we haven't seen in a long time.
Last night GF and I went to some friends house for a BBQ. We visited with everyone and ate a rare steak due to the gas running out on the propane tank and no side dish due to the hostess being a bad hostess. But it was fun and we got to see some friends we haven't seen in a long time.
GF apparently was talking to one of our friends about our 4 year relationship and the friend told her we should have a commitment ceremony. So this morning, the text started with her telling me that.
Well, as you may or may not know. I have been married 3 times. I didn't like it. I wasn't good at it. I never want to do it again. EVER!!
But try to tell that to her. She says it's her dream but I know she just wants a ring on my finger to let people know that I'm taken. If she could tattoo "TAKEN" on my forehead she would.
So after I told her over and over again that we didn't need a fake ceremony that would cost a ton of money to commit to each other, she finally said "well if you buy me a ring, we don't have to do it" So I said I would get her one when I could afford it and she said "well - only if you want to get me one from the heart, not forced".
So I said "Isn't that what your doing though? Forcing me to buy you a ring?"
UGH!
If only she knew how annoying that was, she would know it just pushes me farther away.
Some people's children, huh?