I just got off the phone with my (future-ex) husband and although I was going to wait until he got home tomorrow, the conversation came up and he knows that I bought the mobile home and will be in within two weeks. He was amazingly calm and although not thrilled about the news, he was very supportive. He even offered to get me boxes and to start packing up some of my stuff. We are still being so civil and fair in regards to what is best fot the kids. I pray that it will continue on this pattern. I will expect some days will be better than ever, but in the end I hope to remain friends (as we are today).
We also made definite plans for Easter and after our talk about it, I'm feeling good about it and confident that we've made a good decision. The kids will go to his house after dinner Saturday when he gets out of work. He'll do the Easter Bunny and cook them breakfast and then I will come get them. He will then do a side job and I know honestly this is really what he prefers to be doing. He's not big on holidays and is preoccupied with making some extra money to keep the house. I will then do the Easter bunny again with the kids from me and we will go over to Aunt Rhonda and Uncle Flan's house for Easter dinner and we'll hide eggs there. Plastic ones, with quarters inside. They're fun!