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Divorce Survey

Divorce Survey


Take this survey

Have you ever been married? yes

How many times? once

Have you ever been divorced? going through this now

How many times? see above

Why did you marry your spouse(s)? we'd been together since 14 and married after college

How long did it last? the marriage 13 yrs, the relationship 21

Did you have a fairy-tale wedding? yes

How many bridesmaids/groomsmen? 4 of each

Where did you honeymoon? Poconos

Did you live with them before you married them? for about a month

Where did you meet them? through a friend

How long after you met them did you have sex with them? 2+ yrs.

Did you have kids before you got married? no

When did it start to fall apart? right after the wedding and again after the birth of each child and especially the past 2 yrs.

Who emotionally pulled away first? me I guess but only because he was never really "emotionally there"

Why? I got tired of being hurt when the love and caring wasn't reciprocated in a way I needed

Did either of you cheat? me emotionally, he...not that I know of...

If so, who cheated first? see above

Did you try to save your marriage? yes

How so? 2 counselors, many different plans amongst the 2 of us

Are you friends now? yes

Who do the kids live with? me

Was the divorce friendly? so far so good

Does he/she pay child support regularly and on time? yes

Did you have sex with him/her during the time you were separated? no

Was it better than when you were married? no

Did you have sex with him after the divorce? not there yet

Was it better than when you were married? same

Do you want him/her back? I miss the dream but not the day to day life

Have they remarried? too early still

Are they happy? ...

Do you still talk to them? who is them?

Do you still love them? I'll always "love" him

Do you like their new spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend? ...

Do your kids like their new spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend? ...

Do your kids like your new spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend? ...

Does he/she like your new spouse/boyfriend/girlfriend? ...

Do you still think about them? yes

How long has it been since your divorce? ...

How long has it been since you spoke to them last? today


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posted on Apr 1, 2008 10:10 PM ()


comment by kristilyn3 on Apr 7, 2008 8:35 AM ()
"I miss the dream but not the day to day life"...there you again, making me tear up.
comment by janetk on Apr 6, 2008 11:11 AM ()
I'm very happy in my marriage. PD is my first true marriage. I was married for three weeks when I was 20. That's how long it took for the annulment to finalize. It was a drunken mistake. I was told it was a dare. BTW...she was underage. I'm glad that I wasn't arrested. 'Nuff 'bout that. PD is my true love and we've been together for twelve years (married almost 11.) I have a post coming soon on what today means to me. If you need a friend...I'm there for you.
comment by draco on Apr 4, 2008 11:20 AM ()
Honeymooned in the Poconos my first marriage! Funny! I'm afraid to take the survey... YIKES, but I'll think about it.
comment by artisticgypsy on Apr 4, 2008 9:04 AM ()
I have been married to the same person for 45 years. We separated in 1990 for two years after I caught him cheating on me; we got back together in 1992. Our relationship improved a lot because he stopped taking me for granted. He is the only man I "truly loved" and could not bring myself to divorce him. That does not work for everyone but for us it did, thank goodness.
comment by gapeach on Apr 2, 2008 10:50 AM ()
I have been married twice, but death, not divorce, ended the first marriage. It was a terrible marriage, but I would have stayed as you did for the 21+ years. I guess we just hate to admit defeat sometimes.
comment by angiedw on Apr 2, 2008 3:58 AM ()

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