"My world revolves around me but THE world doesn't. "

I found this quote and instantly realized that it is true for all people. Whether we admit it or not we all do what WE want to do whether it is good for us or not. Some people choose to be martyrs while others choose to be victims and some constantly switch roles.

Anyone
who reads my blogs know that I talk about myself and my life a lot!
Most will have a picture or two of me! Yes my blogs are about me, me and
me! In the past month a blogger threatened me physically, another said
"I was a know it all!" and a friend that I had the attitude that I was
always right.  I know it is hard to believe but, yes, there are people
who don't like me--so what?

On
February 29, 2012, I will be 76 or--counting my Leap Year
birthdays--19. For some reason, and I wasn't taught it as a child, I
have had a positive attitude which carried me through hard times and I
have had them--being one night away from homelessness, losing the love
of my life, declaring bankruptcy TWICE!, walking away from $1 million +,
being arrested for being gay and more. I have also had many highs in my
life and have learned a lot. I can look you in the eye and say I am a
happy man, satisfied with my life and have very few regrets but even
those I wouldn't change because I wouldn't be where I am.

How
did I get where I am? A lot of luck? Yes! Hard work? Not too much.
Being at the right place at the right time? Three times. Being
impulsive? Definitely and not worrying about the consequences. Most of
all it has been my caring for, and about, others--and that is something I
learned to do on my own.

I
was brought up on the principles of: "Promises are made to be broken,",
"We are going to the poorhouse" (both from my mother), "F**K them
before they F**K you," and "Someday all this will be yours. Why do you
think I work so hard?" (from my father.) It took going through food and
booze addictions, smoking 3 packs a day, a sex addiction that had me
having more sexual encounters than Wilt Chamberlain and 6 others
combined and then therapy.

The
one thing that has been consistent in my life are my friendships which
included my 4 exes. Obviously, because they are exes, I am not good
in partner/lover/spouse/longtime companion or whatever they are called
today but I am a great friend. The most friends I had at one time were 6
and that's not easy because being a  true friend is not easy.

I
am wise enough, brave enough and open enough to say I won't
compromise-- none of this "If you really loved me you would..." nor am I
willing to change for anyone. I like who I am. I accept people for who
they are--though I am not above a suggestion now and then--and I do give
advice---good advice, from experience. I have no expectations of/from
anyone and don't want them to have them of/from me. I will trust anyone
until they prove me wrong. The only thing I can't/won't accept from
anyone is their lying to me.

(The above was written for a reason/for a purpose.)

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