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Health & Fitness > Warning
 

Warning

I am going to talk about my physical check up yesterday.
I received an excellent report and I can't help but think
that I must have gotten my maternal grandmother's genes.
She died at ninety two, having outlived two of her three
daughters. She was in a nursing home the last year of her
life but remained engaged with life and her family. She
had to have twenty four hour a day supervision because of
her propensity to fall.

I visited her often. I went by her house one afternoon and
she was making doll costumes for the state historical society.
At the time she was eighty nine. She painted and crocheted
regularly. Her great grandchildren were very much a part
of her life and we loved her a lot. Her legacy to me was
a knowledge of our ancestors and the lives that they had
lived plus a cherished portrait of her parents. Her glass
was always half full and her sense of humor never failed her.


The bad aspect of living to a great age is that you outlive
your friends. Many of mine are gone and two of my good
friends have the dreaded Alzheimer's that robs you of
your humanity. My sister told me yesterday that two of
our high school friends had died. She lives in a town
where we all grew to adulthood.

My sister must have gotten the same good genes because she
is also healthy and vigorous at seventy nine. We are much
healthier than any of our children and wonder why. I
envision a future where genetics can be altered to prevent
disease and a knowledge that keeps people well mentally
and Physically for a longer period of time.

posted on Mar 7, 2013 5:39 AM ()

Comments:

You are the most special grandma.

I think fewer people in generations after yours were raised on home-grown or family farm-raised foods, so more preservatives and more processing. I can just about remember when fast food stands were rare as hens teeth in certain parts of the country, and if there was one, it was local food, not shipped frozen from far away.
comment by troutbend on Mar 8, 2013 3:43 PM ()
We had fresh, organically grown vegetables and beef and chicken. That may be a factor. I know that fried chicken is certainly not as good now as it was
then. We had it every day all summer long.
reply by elderjane on Mar 9, 2013 4:58 AM ()
I don't want to out live my parents much less my friends. Sad to think about, but I guess that's why it's good to be surrounded by family?
comment by kristilyn3 on Mar 8, 2013 12:49 PM ()
In the natural order of things children outlive their parents which is as it
should be. As you have your own family you become less attached to parents
and involved in the life of your children. Can't wait to see pictures of
Skylar.
reply by elderjane on Mar 9, 2013 5:01 AM ()
Personal industriousness is a great quality of older generations, we're in danger of losing it. A teacher from long ago kept asking journalism students to start collecting a written account of the daily activities of their relatives. Such a thing would be fascinating.
comment by drmaus on Mar 8, 2013 11:55 AM ()
How I wish that I had kept a journal of things that happened in my professional life...it seems a lifetime ago. We cherish my great grandfather's letters that were saved when he homesteaded in Oklahoma and
wrote his wife about his journey. I wish that I could have known him. He
was an ex Confederate soldier and a Texas Ranger. We all need to keep
journals starting now.
reply by elderjane on Mar 9, 2013 5:06 AM ()
At 55 I consider myself in fairly good health, outside of the normal wear and tear that has come along with getting older. I never envisioned myself at this age as a youth..but now that it's here I am okay with it
comment by redwolftimes on Mar 8, 2013 6:13 AM ()
As time goes by, one adjusts. Old age is not fearsome if you can stay
healthy and optimistic. Vanity seems to disappear and you make your peace
with wrinkles and age spots.
reply by elderjane on Mar 9, 2013 5:11 AM ()
Good news indeed. I never knew my grandparents as they were in Greece and quite elderly at a time when trans-Atlantic travel was lengthy and expensive. I do remember my mother coming into the living room where I was sitting on the floor playing Greek records on our old Victrola. I was about 6. She had just gotten the news that her mother had died. She hugged me and told me and I was very sad for her.
comment by tealstar on Mar 7, 2013 2:05 PM ()
It is very sad to lose a parent in a far off country. Ellie went home for
her father's funeral and will go back to Russia when her mother dies to
support her sister and her sister's family. You would have a lot in common
with Fredo's Mike. His father was Greek.
reply by elderjane on Mar 8, 2013 4:49 AM ()
Congratulations on your excellent health report.
My annual check up is fast approaching and I'm beginning to think maybe I should start eating more veggies and walking more.
comment by nittineedles on Mar 7, 2013 11:37 AM ()
I could scarcely believe my cholesterol was 155 since I eat a lot of cheese,
butter and indulge in heavy cream. I hope you have a good one as well.
reply by elderjane on Mar 8, 2013 4:53 AM ()
We know a couple named Irv and Betty. They are both 90ish and have relatives who are just as old. It's nice that they got together and had so much time together. There are other older women who have been widowed for 30+ years. I hope that the half-full glass is more important than the genes (or I'm in trouble).
comment by jjoohhnn on Mar 7, 2013 11:16 AM ()
My grandmother that I spoke of was a widow for the last twenty years of her
life. This is sad because she loved my grandad dearly. I think the last
few years of her marriage was very happy.
reply by elderjane on Mar 8, 2013 4:56 AM ()
I miss my grandparents terribly. They died in their 70s. It also breaks my heart that my only granddaughter, now 15 mo. old, lives on the opposite side of the country from me. I chose to move out here but it still is hard for me. Jeri, your good check-up makes us all happy for you...and for us!
comment by steeve on Mar 7, 2013 7:12 AM ()
One never knows how life is going to work out. You may have your grandaughter staying with you on vacations and in the summer. I love being
around the young and watching their personalities form. They tickle me to
death.
reply by elderjane on Mar 8, 2013 5:00 AM ()

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