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Life & Events > Keeping a Journal
 

Keeping a Journal

This is something that I do only by fits and starts. When I
find something I have written down, I always glad because it
helps me to put events in order. I keep an appointment book
and don't discard them but it doesn't help with observations.

When I was in school, I only lacked 3 hours having a minor
in English and my creative writing teacher urged me to keep
a journal every day. My particular field was interesting but
so draining that I wanted to switch it off when I got home.

Later, the year that I worked at the shelter for battered
woman, I had more material than I could deal with. It was
far and away the most absorbing and interesting job that I
have ever had. Again, I failed to write anything.

One thing that always held me back was putting intimate
details down for all to see. Would my children really want
to read about Mom's private life? Would I really want to
reveal it all?

A good journal keeper would have enough material for a
lot of books, especially if they made work related notations. I am very sorry I didn't do that. I would
certainly advise the youngsters among us to keep a detailed
journal.

posted on Nov 26, 2012 5:11 PM ()

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I kept a journal for years but stopped when I started blogging. Its purpose was to keep me writing and the blog fulfills that, although there are whole areas that are too private for a blog and they don't get recorded. I should go back to doing this and I am glad to get the push from this post. The journals for the last years are all on computer. The ones before are in handwritten notebooks. I carried a medium-sized looseleaf binder with me everywhere and would write in it whenever I had to wait in line, or sit on a subway train, or have coffee alone. Some of those years I never want to revisit and I am seriously thinking of just shredding all of them. No descendants anyway and they should not, anyway, be privy to my truly dysfunctional times.
comment by tealstar on Dec 9, 2012 6:47 AM ()
I also journal sporadically and I just realized that I stopped after Tod died.
comment by dragonflyby on Nov 27, 2012 9:19 PM ()
You lose heart after a tragedy of such proportions. I think you have done
very well with trying to get on with life. Sometimes heart break makes us bitter, but you haven't gone in that direction.
reply by elderjane on Nov 28, 2012 5:52 AM ()
I write in a journal sporadically, figuring some is better than nothing. At the time things are happening, or we are in the middle of it, seems like we'll never forget, but the years pass, and we find that we do. Looking back, I miss having a timeline because I can't remember what year things happened, and time flies by.
comment by troutbend on Nov 27, 2012 2:47 PM ()
I know. I don't keep events in order of what year they happened unless I
write them down. I just found a notation about the car wreck that Celeste
was in and although it seems recent it was in 2005.
reply by elderjane on Nov 28, 2012 5:54 AM ()
Your sister in law's family has a treasure in her novel. If I had made notes on what I encountered every day of my professional life, I would have a
good book or two by now. I am so sorry that I let mundane things get in the
way of the discipline of writing.
comment by elderjane on Nov 27, 2012 1:19 PM ()
reply by marta on Nov 27, 2012 4:01 PM ()
wrote a few blogs of my working days in pt augusta reading what i had written gave me a blast . memories came flooding back while i was writing and it was all good times of people i had met good and bad --i never kept a journal or a diary
comment by kevinshere on Nov 27, 2012 3:01 AM ()
I really wish that I had done so. When I find something I wrote ten years
ago, it helps me place events in order.
reply by elderjane on Nov 27, 2012 1:13 PM ()
Even Charles Darwin kept a personal journal on the Beagle yet I could never master it. Only during my first year of sobriety did I manage to make a few notes every day. Kind of reads like Kristi's--"good day, bad day..." Ok, so it tells me I was clueless in those days. It's locked up tight. I told Donna to burn it when I drop. Not even sure why I keep it.
comment by jjoohhnn on Nov 26, 2012 6:30 PM ()
Donna might enjoy reading it.
reply by elderjane on Nov 27, 2012 1:14 PM ()
I have had a journal since I Was 10. I went back and read it and it's too funny (so stupid!) I write in it off and on now a days.. more off!
comment by kristilyn3 on Nov 26, 2012 6:21 PM ()
Kristy, you would have a fascinating story about the dogs you train, walk
and foster. Try it again, people love animal tales.
reply by elderjane on Nov 27, 2012 1:16 PM ()
Jeri, this post strikes a chord with me. I have say that daily journaling is a discipline that is difficult for many and it wasn't a good fit for me as primarily a poet. But I did learn at a fairly young age to write down things that occur to me in little notebooks, so perhaps that is a similar habit. Not all prose writers practice journaling, but writing daily is a part of many accomplished prose/fiction writers' practice. My dear late sister-in-law, an award winning creative writer, held a different view. She didn't journal but felt that she was absorbing her experiences, like planted seeds, and that she expected when the time was ripe, the rooted words would come forth into whatever they were meant to be. Sure enough, she did write an autobiographical novel which she had no desire to publish, but it is a treasure for her family now that she has died. So I wouldn't close the door on your possible writing, or think you have missed the boat. Perhaps you will be surprised by the word seeds rooting inside your memory.
comment by marta on Nov 26, 2012 5:44 PM ()
See your reply above..I goofed.
reply by elderjane on Nov 27, 2012 1:20 PM ()

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