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Excess

Too much cooking and too much snacking and just too much of
every thing. I know I sound jaded but the holidays weren't
happy for our family, although we tried to be cheerful.

I am happy for the days to resume their normal structure.
We have a lot to be thankful for but let me tell you about
my daughter's holiday. Her half brother is an alcoholic and
a druggie and was threatening suicide all through this time,
her other brother was diagnosed with cancer, her father has
Alzheimers and her son was in the hospital with a still
undiagnosed fever and infection. Of course Ted and I are
torn up over Bobby's cancer and are grateful for the concern
of neighbors and friends and the blog community. It helps.
We are glad to see the end of 20ll.

I spent yesterday picking up leaves and those nasty sweet gum
balls. For some reason, everyone in this neighborhood has
sweet gum trees in their front yard. No one knows what to
do with the sticky gum balls although one year an art teacher
picked them up for some kind of art project. Any Ideas?

By the way, Eric is home and doing well now so he is ok.

I think we will all be better when they start Bobby's
treatment. The holidays slowed every thing medical down,
although he had a Pet Scan Friday. We should get the
results this week.

Sorry to be so gloomy.

posted on Jan 3, 2012 8:24 AM ()

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Vent away dear Jeri. I lived alone when I lost my husband and spent several days screaming into empty space. Hoping for better days for you soon. Still praying for Bobby.
comment by tealstar on Jan 4, 2012 9:10 AM ()
Candles are burning with care and support for you, Bobby and your family. I totally understand. You'll know how much when you read my last post. Worry can be so exhausting, so be kind to yourselves. My heart and hopes are with you all.
comment by marta on Jan 3, 2012 3:10 PM ()
He has an appointment with the surgeon on Thursday. We should know something
concrete then. I am so grateful for the support of all of you.
reply by elderjane on Jan 4, 2012 5:12 AM ()
You seem to have reason to be gloomy, so no worries lady. I hope things calm down, and keep us posted on Bobby.
comment by kristilyn3 on Jan 3, 2012 11:47 AM ()
I will let you know when we know something definite.
reply by elderjane on Jan 4, 2012 5:13 AM ()
When life is uncertain, sad, and stressful, sometimes all we can think to do is cook comforting foods and hope somehow the family can put some of that to the back of their mind for a bit.
comment by troutbend on Jan 3, 2012 11:34 AM ()
The girls are out of school today and I am going to pick them up at noon and
feed them soup. They have developed a passion for it. I guess it means comfort.
reply by elderjane on Jan 4, 2012 5:16 AM ()
So sorry about Bobby and your daughter's sorrow. I'll be holding good thoughts for the Pet Scan. Has or will he have surgery? I'll be saying a special prayer for all of you.
comment by redimpala on Jan 3, 2012 10:59 AM ()
The cancer is so close to the rectum that they are hoping to shrink it
with chemo and radiation so there will be more room to operate. I can just
imagine the pain.
reply by elderjane on Jan 4, 2012 5:19 AM ()
I am so sorry that you are feeling this way.Not sure what to say and was hoping that we get off on the right foot on this brand New Year.You have a few problems there,but I know that you should not hold this stuff in.Take one step at a time.
Will be thinking of Bobby treatment.
comment by fredo on Jan 3, 2012 9:37 AM ()
I am trying to be grateful for little things and to enjoy simple things like
my first cup of coffee.
reply by elderjane on Jan 4, 2012 5:22 AM ()
You have every right to be 'gloomy' once in a while because life can throw some pretty unpleasant zingers at us. If you endured unhappiness by maintaining a "Rebecca of Sunnybrook Farm" cheerfulness, that would not be realistic. I...your friends on MyBloggers...are worried about Bobby too.
comment by dragonflyby on Jan 3, 2012 8:56 AM ()
I have to vent once in awhile. They say sorrow shared is a sorrow halved and
that seems to be true. I just wish the treatment would start sooner.
reply by elderjane on Jan 4, 2012 5:25 AM ()

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