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Compromise and Clutter

Ted and I both have the pack rat gene and I am thinking of all the things I want to get rid of and all the things he is desperately clinging to. He gets indignant when I wish to get rid of his Samauria Swords or other junk he lovingly holds on to and I am ruthless about some of the things that I want to auction off.

To top it all off there is a garage full of stuff that didn't sell at an estate sale in the house we have bid on and he wants all that too. If we get it, we will pick through it and let the kids pick through it and then call the Salvation Army but there are some good things in there.
We will probably have a humoungous fight about what he wants to keep and end up compromising.

Have you ever thought about life just being one giant compromise? We don't go through this world getting our own way all the time and it would probably be disastrous if we did. I have made some really poor choices and some good ones and learned to live with them all.

posted on July 10, 2008 6:52 AM ()

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I've moved 12 times in 2 years! What I need has been simplified by how many times I care to move it! Rain and creatures have had a blast going thru it as well! If I could only find my make-up!!!
comment by haddox101 on July 21, 2008 9:26 AM ()
Here's a trick I used on my mother while she was in Florida. I took things out from the bottom of the piles and left the top layers. She hasn't said anything so I'm certain she hasn't noticed. I'm planning some really drastic measures next winter.
comment by catdancer on July 11, 2008 8:23 PM ()
You know those pieces of appliances, and stuff that
gets broken off that you find under the sofa? Ed keeps them
because he will eventually discover what they have broken
off of and fix it. When I traveled to New York had me
run all around the city to find the one perfect product
that he could use to restore our gold leaf frames that our
paintings are in. That was 4 years ago and the product is
still on the shelf. Meanwhile, we have a chest full
of designer dress shirts still in the store plastic that he wil
never wear because he no longer goes to an "uptown"
office but that he won't get rid of.
comment by tealstar on July 11, 2008 11:19 AM ()
Some of these comments made me laugh out loud. I am a terrible packrat too.
comment by dragonflyby on July 10, 2008 8:25 PM ()
Storage building in the new house yard? I know what you mean about compromises, especially when it comes to someone hanging onto their precious 'stuff' when it cuts into the space where you'd put your own precious stuff.
comment by troutbend on July 10, 2008 2:34 PM ()
Tell Ted to go for a walk and then you can raped the house
throw out anything before he get back.You have to move fast.
Clutter here is which I have and just like to throw it out
the window.Get those bags fill it up and call them to come
and get it.Bag in a Dumpster.They will even take your piano
comment by fredo on July 10, 2008 10:02 AM ()
I can't say anything..I'm a huge pack rat..
comment by elfie33 on July 10, 2008 9:05 AM ()
Perhaps Ted wants the house for the stuff in the garage...
comment by looserobes on July 10, 2008 7:28 AM ()
Compromise is key, although I think it would be sweet to always get my own way!
comment by kristilyn3 on July 10, 2008 7:15 AM ()
My 2nd bedroom has become some how a catch all storage room that I am now afraid to go into.
comment by grumpy on July 10, 2008 6:55 AM ()

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