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Life & Events > Coming Home (After 10 Years)
 

Coming Home (After 10 Years)

How un-nervingly strange it feels to be "home" after living in Jakarta for almost ten years.  I really find it very difficult to explain how hard a transition it is. Much harder than moving up to Jakarta I think.  When I made the decision to move up there, I was kinda running away from a situation here in Perth.
It was a new beginning as I had a new job, a new home, a new and very different environment, and a completely new way of life.
Jakarta is in it's own way, a very unique and incredible city. It is rich in tradition, culture and a diverse collection of ethnic, eastern and western people.
Jakarta is an expat's dream place to live....especially if you're a westerner who is not used to having your own household staff.  Jakarta is a place where you can live in houses like those only the wealthier people can live in back home. Big front gates with your own security guard post, beautiful manicured gardens with swimming pool that you dont have to take care of yourself.  Cooking, cleaning, ironing and laundry is done by 3 or 4 people and there's the driver sitting around waiting to take you anywhere you want to go in a nice modern, bright shiny SUV.  I didnt go for one those houses because I dont have a family and lived alone so I was happy with a "simpler" abode...lol.
(Here's a video clip I posted on youtube (one of many) about living in Jakarta....this is my house and my street.
https://youtu.be/D4arBw9D-Tg
Among other videos, I posted 15 short clips of a tour around my street and the local park I used to jog in every morning...all there on my youtube channel (rianovember) for anyone who wants to check out my neighborhood in Jakarta.)
You can get spoilt rotten living in Jakarta, the cost of living is so cheap....for those smokers who are complaining at the price of a pack of cigarettes these days.....$20.00 a pack in Australia.....it's less than $2.00 a pack. Fuel is less than $1.00 a liter...in Australia it is around $1.50 a liter ($6.00 a gallon) and staple food items like bread, milk, fruits and vegetables are about a quarter the price they are in Australia.
Rent is much, much cheaper too.  I was renting a big two storey house with 4 bedrooms (2 of which had en-suite bathrooms) and basically two living areas..upstairs and downstairs and a huge 2 car garage and maid's quarters including bathroom for 70,000,000 Rupiahs for two years.  That's around $7,000 US dollars for TWO years.  That was the amount I would have had to pay if I renewed my rental agreement last month but I would have had to pay for a minimum of two years...preferably CASH...in advance.
The worst down-side of living in Jakarta was the traffic and the rainy season. Flooded roads were a nightmare especially during rush hour and you dont get to walk through your front door till almost midnight after work.
The upside, FOOD.  The restaurants, the variety is incredible.  The great big huge super Malls had excellent western and Asian cuisine restaurants that I would never find in Perth. In fact I would not find a mall here in Perth that would rival the super malls in Jakarta. But you had to be practically a millionaire to shop there of course....and a millionaire I definitely AM NOT....lol.
The very best up-side....it is only one hour and 20 minutes flight to my favorite place...Island of the Gods...Bali. You can fly down to Bali for around $50.00 US return.  A favorite weekender activity for me.
So here I am, back in Perth but for some reason I cant seem to be able to "come home'"....I cant seem to settle down...it feels very strange and surreal and at times quite depressing and I dont understand it.
Oh well, like everything else I guess I will have to get used to it and move forward and decide what to do for the rest of my life.  I wont complain so much because I feel very blessed and fortunate to have had the experiences (good and bad) I went through in the last ten years....something not everyone can experience in their life-time.  I have learned so much and experienced so much that I am grateful for and hopefully new doors will open up for me here in Perth.  Maybe even a new love-life, now wouldnt that be something to write about on blogster...hee hee hee.

posted on Jan 7, 2012 12:12 AM ()

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Before I watch the videos, let me wish you the best of luck finding a job and a place to live back in Perth. Keep us up to date.
comment by solitaire on Jan 10, 2012 6:31 AM ()
Thank you solitaire....here's to new beginnings.
reply by aussiegirl on Jan 10, 2012 3:32 PM ()
Dear Maria, you have finally made the move -- what a time! But tell me please -- what did you arrange for your animals? Will they be all right -- did they find new homes? Are you staying on your own in Perth, or, for a time with family? More details, please. As you get settled, are you looking for work? Hoping the best for you.
comment by tealstar on Jan 8, 2012 2:20 PM ()
Hi Teal, yes I made the move down to Perth on 22nd of December and spend Christmas and New Year holidays with my family and friends. The move was horrific, packing up the house in Jakarta after almost ten years...selling up furniture and deciding which items to send to Perth, which to sell and which to give away. More horrific is saying goodbye and parting with my beautiful cats and two turtles (Toby and Jasper) Toby and Jasper did very well, I'm sure they think they've died and gone to heaven. They went to a beautiful American lady who works at Jakarta Animal Aid Network. She's got a ''heavenly'' pond for them and I know they will be very happy there.

My cats went to a place in Bogor run by an Australian lady called Multispecies Education International.
https://www.facebook.com/pages/Multispecies-Education-International/130181247001053

They have something like a shelter and take care of cats that have been abandoned or injured or abused and give them the very best quality of life they can.

Although it was very heart-breaking saying goodbye to them (especially Sweetpea) I know they will be well taken care of and once they get used to being there, I'm sure they will be okay. I will send them money every month to pay for their food and whatever they need. Hopefully I will be able to go up and visit them sometime this year.

I am staying in my own house in Perth but I am going to put it on the market. It has been neglected severely for the last ten years and needs to be bulldozed. The block of land it sits on is zoned by the council for three units and developers are making a fortune buying up these old houses and developing them.

I am having a very difficult time settling down for some reason, but I'm sure it's only time and getting used to being back in Perth and I'll be fine. I havent started looking for a new job yet, getting motivated to do anything is really difficult. I was thinking of taking a couple of months holiday in Bali to use up my Indonesian visa which doesnt expire until March but I'm sitting here procrastinating about that too....lol.

Thanks for your kind wishes for me Teal, and best wishes to you for a wonderful 2012.
reply by aussiegirl on Jan 8, 2012 3:31 PM ()
Wishing you all the best back in Perth. You still have some family in Australia, don't you? I know it must seem strange after living in Jakarta for ten years, however. Love the videos, by the way. Will be looking forward to seeing some from Perth now.
comment by redimpala on Jan 8, 2012 8:42 AM ()
Yes I do have family in Perth, a brother and two sisters. Glad you enjoyed the vids, will start taking some here in Perth.
reply by aussiegirl on Jan 8, 2012 4:05 PM ()
Sending you warmest wishes for a smooth transition and happiness with your change of venue. I loved the videos you posted because they are the closest I will get to ever visiting those places, and you made it a nice visit.
comment by troutbend on Jan 7, 2012 8:05 PM ()
thank you so much troutbend, I will start taking some vids of Perth and post them as well.
reply by aussiegirl on Jan 8, 2012 12:55 AM ()
Sending you love and care, dear Maria, as you make this new transition. I understand the mixed feelings, but may change also bring you welcome new opportunities and options. Take time, be kind to yourself.... It's okay if it takes awhile to adjust. Remember, my friend, endings are always beginnings, too.
comment by marta on Jan 7, 2012 4:59 PM ()
Thank you Marta, I'm sure it's only time and getting used to being home again. I'll be fine.
reply by aussiegirl on Jan 7, 2012 5:03 PM ()
I am sure if I returned to New York City I would feel completely disoriented--it is a different world there now--I am older--while you are not older Perth is 10 years older and you ran away from it--possibly coming home has brought some of those memories back?
Okay, get your mind off it--GET CLEANING!!!!!
comment by greatmartin on Jan 7, 2012 8:29 AM ()
I have started cleaning!!!
reply by aussiegirl on Jan 7, 2012 5:02 PM ()
And I felt some of those experiences with you. Your photos and descriptions have always been succinct and clear to us. Thank you!
comment by jondude on Jan 7, 2012 6:11 AM ()
no, thank YOU jondude, it was fun posting them.
reply by aussiegirl on Jan 7, 2012 5:02 PM ()
I saw all your videos. They were wonderful.
comment by nittineedles on Jan 7, 2012 12:45 AM ()
thank you, once I get settled here I will do a few so you can see some of Perth.
reply by aussiegirl on Jan 7, 2012 12:56 AM ()

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