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Still Standing

The sun came up again today. I figured it would. I have a bad back (cutting and hauling firewood) and poison ivy, but there are rainbows in my life.

I think the grandkids had a good time with their grandad. I kept them busy. They are both very "hyper". We walked in the woods and cemetery, played in a park, went to a zoo, ate at Dairy Queen, played games at home, watched Toy Story 3, etc., etc. My meals weren't too nutrutious (hot dogs and pancakes), but what the heck, no complaints. And nobody got injured or maimed. But I wouldn't want to do this full time.
The kids are snotty, whiny, loud and obnoxious. They have horrible table manners (or manners in general). I tried to keep my "corrections" to a minimum. Not my job. I just don't understand where I went wrong with my daughter Valerie, their mother. She was taught how to be a proper young lady. Perhaps she's tired of fighting the current.

The good news is two of my 4 children, Darin and Laura (ages 28 and 35) are flying "home" from California tonight! My Indiana daughter (Emily) is picking them up (Indy). I'm eager to see them. Don't know what they have planned while here for a week.

In the meantime, I'm golfing and gardening, etc., the usual. I blanched and froze asparagus and green beans yest. Also picked and froze a gallon of blackberries. But I saved out enough for a cobbler! Yum.
Have a great day/week.

posted on July 13, 2011 5:26 AM ()

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How wonderful that you will be able to spend time with your children! Glad you survived the grandchildren. Have you ever asked your daughter about her child-rearing practices- asked why without inferring judgment? Maybe she feels guilty for bringing them up so far away from home and family?
comment by dragonflyby on July 14, 2011 11:12 AM ()
While I support my Honduran daughter, not to mention restraining myself from criticism, she knows how I feel (to some extent). Plus, I think I know how she feels. Distance is a problem, for sure. She's quite defensive about her children, husband, life-style. Unfortunately, she just doesn't get it. No income, no savings, no equity, no health insurance, no family. Her husband is a "big shot" down there--and THE BOSS. And it goes without saying, he's a horrible father (and I think husband). His "authority" is the Bible. If I ruled the world, I'd say to my daughter: dump your hubby (he's using you), come home, get a paying job, let us help with your out of control children. But, she won't listen (because the Bible says "Obey your husband").
reply by solitaire on July 15, 2011 4:29 AM ()
Obviously your kids rebelled against your way of bringing them up so they brought their kids up differently!
comment by greatmartin on July 14, 2011 8:15 AM ()
It is a really big job raising children in this day and age. Sure a lot different than when my parents raised me or at least, it seems that way. My two grandsons, ages 8 and 10, keep my daughter on her toes constantly. I must say, she does a great job.
comment by anniel on July 14, 2011 12:36 AM ()
How about her husband? Does he play a role? That's the problem with my daughter and her children. She does it all. Boo hiss.
reply by solitaire on July 14, 2011 5:42 AM ()
I'm so glad your son is coming home! Big hugs to him! Hope it's a wonderful family time together.
comment by troutbend on July 13, 2011 4:48 PM ()
Here I am tying up the phone line, and they're possibly trying to call me! Eager to see them!
reply by solitaire on July 14, 2011 5:41 AM ()
How fun to have a family visit! Kids baffle me... I think they are best left to others.
comment by kristilyn3 on July 13, 2011 11:45 AM ()
Children are not for everyone. If you don't want the responsibility, don't have any.
reply by solitaire on July 14, 2011 5:40 AM ()
"The kids" You're a braver soul than I.
comment by nittineedles on July 13, 2011 11:43 AM ()
Just doing my "duty". I avoided them long enough so far. Isn't that awful to admit?
reply by solitaire on July 14, 2011 5:38 AM ()
It must be the village life in Honduras
You did a fine job with them and the best that you could.
Enjoy your time with the girls.You are going to be a busy guy there?
comment by fredo on July 13, 2011 9:52 AM ()
Hope to play some golf with my son. If not, just having 3 of my 4 kids "home" is good enough.
reply by solitaire on July 14, 2011 5:37 AM ()
'The kids are snotty, whiny, loud and obnoxious.' Sounds like typical kids of today and why I am glad I didn't have any!
comment by greatmartin on July 13, 2011 8:01 AM ()
But my own children were and are great! Who knows what has happened in one generation.
reply by solitaire on July 14, 2011 5:35 AM ()
My youngest are nine and thirteen. They are at a good age.
comment by elderjane on July 13, 2011 6:55 AM ()
I'm hoping they'll "grow out of it". We'll see.
reply by solitaire on July 14, 2011 5:34 AM ()
Too bad about the manners thing. Even though you thought it wasn't your place, even now-and-then training carries weight. It's hard to focus on training small children. It sounds like your daughter just doesn't want to spend the time.
comment by tealstar on July 13, 2011 5:34 AM ()
It's my daughter's husband that doesn't want to spend the time. He ignores his children--a crime. Valerie may have given up or is immune to the kid's behavior.
reply by solitaire on July 14, 2011 5:33 AM ()

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