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Life & Events > Relationships > Oh, the Joys
 

Oh, the Joys

Or should that title be "Ode to Joy"?
Here's sort of a weekly summary of "Life with Randy".
All in all, it was a good week.

But........., I offered to take my father grocery shopping yesterday. He's without a car (which he bemoans, but I reminded him that it was his decision to give his car to my manipulative sister, who gave her car to her grandson). He's in the market for a Ford Focus. Oh dear me.

We made two stops, Walmart and Aldi. I think I deserve some sort of medal. It was an exercise in patience. Two hours, one in each store! Banana decision: too green, a bruise on one, too many, too few, etc. Cheeses: too ANYTHING! Cereals: oh, brother. The broccoli I choose was "too stemmy", so he had to sort through all of them. Well, you get the drift. Mercy. He is, after all, nearly 95, and still in great health.

After dropping Dad off, I went to the Court House to vote early (straight Dem.). That felt good. While there, I did some preliminary research on my kids house history. Nothing yet on the actual house, but the land it once sat on (before it was moved to its current spot), did belong to my great grandfather. So I'm sure it's all connected. The house/farm project is going well, by the way. I'll post some pics soon.

I babysat "Champ" (my name for him) two days ago. We had a blast playing. I relish my role as grandfather. I only had one, and he was aloof. My own father, too, never played with my kids--he just berated them. I've learned how not to act.
6 week old Macy smiled at me! Then pooped.

Looks like a good weekend to get out and be active. More bricks to lay for my driveway, yard and garden work, and hiking the countryside. Life is good. Enjoy.

posted on Oct 20, 2012 5:50 AM ()

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Smiled then pooped. I have some "pooping smile" pictures of my kids. No one knows until I tell them (and yup, just have to tell them!) I picked up a bunch of bricks from the side of the road that had a free sign on them... thought of you while I loaded them! Will be used for garden edging.
comment by crazylife on Oct 21, 2012 10:19 PM ()
A gal after my own heart (bricks)! Waste not, want not. When I was at the Court House, I looked out the window and saw an apple tree on the lawn, ground littered with apples. I inquired and they said "help yourself". I can't imagine NOBODY would bother to pick them up to take home. I mean, they're FREE and going to waste. Yes, I gathered up some.
reply by solitaire on Oct 22, 2012 5:03 AM ()
I can sure relate to the shopping with dad thing. My MIL takes two hours just to get out the door! It's good that you've taken a few lessons to heart on how to be a good grandpa. It will make all the difference.
comment by maggiemae on Oct 21, 2012 2:17 PM ()
I envision a close relationship with the little guy--and gal. I'll try to be a good grandparent.
reply by solitaire on Oct 22, 2012 5:00 AM ()
I envy you and Jeri. You live close to your grandchildren.
comment by dragonflyby on Oct 21, 2012 7:22 AM ()
Honduras isn't very close, however! I have two gchildren down there.
reply by solitaire on Oct 22, 2012 4:58 AM ()
Ninety-five and still driving? Oh, me, indeed.
comment by boots586 on Oct 20, 2012 6:06 PM ()
He was a car dealer for ages, so he still thinks his reflexes and senses are as good as always. NOT!!
reply by solitaire on Oct 21, 2012 5:16 AM ()
Shopping with fussy people is a chore. Had one elderly acquaintance (in New York)who asked me to lunch, by which she meant we would eat and then I would help her run errands. What I thought would be two hours out of my day turned out to be the entire day.
comment by tealstar on Oct 20, 2012 4:45 PM ()
Dad did it for his parents, so it's now my turn. I'm just glad I have two sisters to help.
reply by solitaire on Oct 21, 2012 5:15 AM ()
6 week old Macy smiled at me! Then pooped. What a hilarious statement.
comment by kristilyn3 on Oct 20, 2012 9:35 AM ()
True! I think the smile was for the poop, not for me!
reply by solitaire on Oct 21, 2012 5:14 AM ()
Outdoors sounds like a plan.
comment by jjoohhnn on Oct 20, 2012 6:50 AM ()

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