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Struggling

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My plight. Hating work. Wanting to help animals in a hands on way. Everyone here has been sooo supportive and I appreciate each and every one of you who have been, really and truly.

I am stuck though at the moment. I know it's not forever but it's REALLY hard to be stuck. I can't move to a cheaper area unless I want to lose money due to this housing market. I can't leave my job because I have too much debt right now (I am working on it but it's going to take forever to repay all my past mistakes). I have tried to figure out ways to make it work financially while I am in this area and it's just not working out, unless I literally work at least 16 hours every day, in which case I would be miserable as well. *Sigh*

I never heard anything from the semi local farm sanctuary... I sent a letter, emailed, called, no response. Perhaps they ARE that busy? I also asked about donating for their yard sale. They never got back to me. I don't know what to think!!!

Today I emailed a local animal shelter and offered up my time. Not that I have a lot, but gawd I am grasping at threads it seems while I am stuck in admin hell, so maybe if that pans out I will feel better? I do not know.

What I do know is that this job is a waste of my time. I want to be HANDS ON helping animals have a better life. I want to be HANDS ON in a doggie day care if that pans out. I would LOVE to be hands on saving farm animals or fighting for their rights. Bottom line, I want to do something involving animals and this admin job of doing nothing I see as important just isn't cutting it. Financially, it's da bomb. Emotionally it's the pits. Right now I hafta focus on financial though, which sucks the life out of me, but it's what I have to do. Maybe when I am 90 and out of debt I can pursue my dreams. Wait! I can't think that way or I will go insane. Therefore, maybe by the time I am 37, 4 years from now, I will be in a position to do what I want to do. Can I wait that long??? Gawd I hope so.

posted on July 8, 2008 7:03 AM ()

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I've been there. One day at a time. Getting out of debt is really important, especially in these unsure economic times. I know it's draining some days, but just take one day at a time. Be productive each day and you'll get there. I promise.
comment by shesaidwhat on July 11, 2008 3:25 AM ()
I really wish I could help you.I don't have the money but I do know how to run a kennel or doggie daycare.Dreams do come true,so don't give up.You are young and have plenty of time to make 'this' dream come true.Laurie
comment by dogsalot on July 8, 2008 5:11 PM ()
I really believe that once you start working towards making a difference in your life, everything else will fall into place as its suppose to. Maybe a little volunteer work on the side will eventually give you the qualifications and networks you need for a decent-paying job helping animals... it'll happen! I'm sure of it.
comment by mellowdee on July 8, 2008 2:39 PM ()
Everyone here is so full of good advice. But I like "chin up, tits out." You have a plan and you just have to work towards it. Think of your current job as a start to this plan. It's the way you are going to be debt free. Hang in there and know that you are working towards a better life!!!
comment by sexysadie on July 8, 2008 11:02 AM ()
We all have made mistakes in our past that we must pay for first. Be patient. Instant gratification is not the answer. I know you have made a life plan. (Or at least, you've started one.) Stick to it. Pick a date. Five years from now, where do you want to be? Now, work to make it happen.
(By the way, did you see on the news that a new study links tofu to Alzheimer's disease? Pass the ketchup, please!...Sorry)
comment by hayduke on July 8, 2008 9:45 AM ()
well for me all the comments is there for you.
Never had this kind of problems,and to give you advice is out
of the question.Sit down and think and work it from there.
One step at a time.Good luck
comment by fredo on July 8, 2008 9:30 AM ()
Okay, here's a solution that I've used in the past...consolidate your bills into one payment. I know that won't count your utilities, but you can get a lower rate for a loan to cover this and maybe put $200 or $300 a month back into your pocket. You own your condo. Refi if it is possible. The rates are low right now. If you already have a good rate don't think about it. Look at subletting. You can charge enough for a sublet to pay both the payment and have some money left over, which would finance you getting into a new place. Especially if you decide to charge them 1st and last months rent and a security. That's definitely an idea to help you move. Last, keep your chin up. There are more jobs out there, but you need to go ahead and start sending out resumes. Don't give up hope sweetie! It may not be overnight, but it will definitely get better.
comment by teacherwoman on July 8, 2008 9:00 AM ()
maybe talk to one of those credit counselors to pay down your bills? you have the brains so figure out a plan as to when you can do this. Cuz I know in my heart you are destined to fulfill your dreams!
comment by elkhound on July 8, 2008 7:36 AM ()
37? That's how old I was when I *started* college! Took 11 years to complete my MA, since I had to leave time for work. You'll be Ok! Not tomorrow, maybe, but you'll be Ok!
comment by jjoohhnn on July 8, 2008 7:13 AM ()
I've been in your shoes. I know what you're going through. And I also know you will pull through this. Chin up, tits out!
comment by mrsstu on July 8, 2008 7:07 AM ()

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