(ACCORDING TO SOME PEOPLE THE ABOVE ALONE WOULD MARK ME GAY LOL)
I enjoy people with a weird(to me) sense
of humor and, luckily, I found quite a few bloggers with just that--one
of the most often asked questions I get from nongay people is, "How do
you know you are gay?" This is something I posted a year or two ago
that I thought might help you (or not) know the answer to that question.
I may not be gay because;
1. I like women
2. I don't want to be a woman.
3. I hate housework.
4. I am lousy at decorating.
5. Drag queens turn me off.
6. I don't care what the latest fashions are.
7. I can't lip sync
8. I don't work out 90 hours a week.
9. I'm happy with my body.
10. I'm not into 'size'.
11. I like big, heavy, fast cars.
12. Don't like ballet, classical music or opera.
13. I like jazz.
14. I don't hold my pinky out when I drink anything.
15. Don't like to hear "she", "Mary", "her" or other feminine terms applied to men.
16. I don't 'dish' my friends behind their backs.
17. I can be a couch potato.
18. I am neither thin, blonde or 'fem'.
On the other hand I may be gay because I like:
1.Streisand
2.Midler
3. Garland
4. Minelli
5.Show tunes
6 Theatre
7. "A Chorus Line"
8. Bette Davis
9. Joan Crawford
10. Jerry Herman,
11 Maya Angelou
12. Tennessee Williams
13. I Love men and having sex with them.
14. Don't like playing and/or watching football, baseball
15. Like watching ice skaters.
16. Into reading, theatre, movies.
17. Don't like guns, sci-fi, horror movies, hockey
18. I wear my heart on my sleeve
Of course there is the gray area:
I don't have a 'type'--short, tall, thin, fat, black, white, etc., as long as they are breathing!
I don't want kids or to adopt them.
I don't want to get married.
Oh, Heck, both gays and non-gays could pick from either category.
I AM GAY BECAUSE I LIKE TO, AND ONLY, HAVE SEX WITH MEN!
And
that's the only difference between gay and non-gay men--we don't have
an 'agenda', a 'life style' nor are we 'different' looking.
WE
ARE EVERYWHERE AND NON-GAYS DON'T EVEN KNOW IT--WE ARE PART OF THEIR
FAMILY, CO-WORKERS, ETC. AND IT IS TIME YOU LET THEM KNOW IT!
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