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That Sinking Feeling..

I sit here this afternoon, after an unimaginably difficult day of work and I just want to sink into a deep sleep and make the feelings go away. The anxiety, the nausea, the sadness, the loneliness, the end.

I was told last night to expect a trip to our state from his new friend in KY at some point in the near future. I sobbed myself to sleep last night and slept very restlessly. I awoke a couple of times with blankets twisted all around me. I awoke a final time before the alarm almost wanting to get up, but not go to work. I don't know what I wanted to do. I guess....I wanted to be held, to be loved, to feel safe.

I've got to do this all for myself and I don't know how. It seems like it was all so easy for him to get over me.

I feel like everything I say, I've said a thousand times before. I just can't get past it. I'm going through it. I'm not trying to go around it. But I wish there was a direct route to the other side, no more windy roads and hill.

He's taking the kids tonight and all I feel like doing is going to bed and cry myself to sleep again. I mean I don't want to do this. I want to be held and have somebody who loves me so much that it will make all the pain go away. But wishes are just wishes and as I've learned...I must be careful what I wish for. It seems that it doesn't happen fast, but what I wish for does usually come true. The only problem being that when my wish comes true and I think I'm finally going to be happy and loved, I'm not.

posted on Apr 30, 2008 1:05 PM ()

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You are going through one of the toughest times of your life. When a day arrives, and it will, you will understand that it is better for you. That person with whom you lived and loved would never have been trustworthy, anyway. You will also understand that this ordeal will make you a stronger, and better person. Bet on it!
comment by jondude on May 1, 2008 6:27 AM ()
You do need some up close and personal help with this. A support group would be wonderful for you. Although you do have to go through this and not around it, others who are experiencing or have experience it would certainly be beneficial to you.
comment by angiedw on May 1, 2008 4:40 AM ()
I agree with elfie33. Are there any support groups that you can join? I'm so sorry that you are hurting so much. I wish there was something I could say that would take away your pain.
comment by hopefields on Apr 30, 2008 11:37 PM ()
Gee, you don't know me, but I've been reading your posts from the first one with the stars all over it. I am so sorry that you are going through hard times. We all have them, but that isn't helpful to someone going through such a hurtful time. I know that at times I sleep a lot to get through them, too. It does take time, and it will go away, but in the meantime, it seems to go on forever... I know. Take care...
comment by sunlight on Apr 30, 2008 9:16 PM ()
Oh sh*t...I know that you're going through it and not trying to go around it......but I *promise* you that you will get to the other side. There are no quick routes. There are no fast getaways. Not here in Janet Land and not there in, um, Starry Ville. I wish that there was something I could say that would make this feel a bit better for you, but since I can't I'm just going to tell you that we're all here for you, in whatever capacity you need and whatever capacity we can give. Don't be scared of saying the same thing over and over again! That's how we release things.And for what it's worth..having someone who wants you and loves you doesn't actually make it that much easier. Trust me on this one, okay?
comment by janetk on Apr 30, 2008 1:59 PM ()
Sweetie...maybe if you found a support group in your area it may help. Sometimes talking to another person going thru the same thing can help alot..
comment by elfie33 on Apr 30, 2008 1:39 PM ()

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