I have been suffering with a sinus infection and the antibiotics don't seem to be working.
Dakota has the flu, taking him to the doc today. It settled in Friday night with fever, coughing, congestion and all the fun stuff. When Dakota has a fever he talks non stop in his sleep, full conversations with himself.
Saturday we were invited to stepson's for dinner and time with our Bella. I decided we needed to go to walmart to get my Bella a valentine present. Wouldn't you know it, as soon as we pull in, we notice the family of the child molester is also just getting there. I figured they would just leave us alone and we would be fine. Normally we let Dakota wander around the store and he checks in with us via cell phone. I told him this time he had to stay with us, I had a bad feeling. The molester's sister, who is 32, decided to follow us around the store with one of her nieces. They would giggle and whisper and make a point that we saw them. It really upset Dakota. He just wanted to get out of there. I wanted to confront her and ask what is so funny about your brother being jail for molesting my son! But I didn't. You can't reason with crazy people. It angered me so much that it bothered me all day. How dare they continue to try to make us fearful and be a constant reminder of what happened. We have a no contact order for the molester. He cannot contact Dakota in any way. But it doesn't say anything about his family. Today I am going to call the prosecutor's office and ask about this situation. If I need to get a restraining order against the sister I will. She is vindictive bitch. And she is not all there mentally either. I seriously thought about calling the police but didn't know if I was within my rights to do so. I would love to have a state police go to their home and reinforce that they need to leave us alone! Perhaps if I press charges for harassment, that will get this woman to leave my son alone!
sorry for the rant but Dakota has been through enough without having to worry about going to public places and running into that family. And really it is just his one sister who is the problem. I have seen her in action before with people she feels wronged her family. Perhaps if they had been truthful with me from the beginning, none of this would have happened and her brother wouldn't be in jail.

I wanted to post this under crime and punishment because while that man did the crime, I feel we are being punished.