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I Had Given up Hope and Was Relieved

I had given up hope on being called for an interview at our local university. I had worked there previously, back in 2000 to 2001. I had been in contact with my boss there over the last several months. She was desperate to get me back to work with her. Her ultimate goal was to get me in there and train me as her replacement when she retires this summer. I believe it's been since summer that we have been in contact with each other. Finally they had an opening in her department and I applied. That was weeks ago. I had finally given up hope on being called and was sort of relieved. I didn't really want to go back to full time work. Sure our financial situation has been quite desperate at times, but we have pulled through time and time again. I was enjoying visiting with my friend Dot who quit her job recently. I had plans to start volunteering at a no kill animal shelter as soon as it opens. I was even having fun getting our house organized and doing some decorating.

Yesterday afternoon I got the call. "Can you come in for an interview next Tuesday?" Well of course I said yes, thinking how much that money will help us! After all my daughter is getting married next year. Perhaps I could get that new car I have been dreaming of. If I ran out of milk I could actually go to the store and buy a gallon. LOL

The position is in accounts payable, something I have 15 years of experience in. I truly liked working at the college, good group of people to work with, laid back atmosphere since it is a state job, and lots of holidays off. I am still amazed however. I worked there for 10 months! And my boss says she has never had such a good worker and misses my work ethic. I only quit working there after the birth of our son in Feb of 2001.

One of my nieces gave me some good advice. She said to go in there confident that I already have the job. Interviews are scary! The stupid questions they ask! Where do you see yourself in five years? Seriously? I don't plan a day ahead let alone 5 years!

My daughter's future inlaws are actually paying for the wedding. I would like to be able to pay for their honeymoon, they are thinking of Jamaica. I guess I am already counting my money before I actaully have it. LOL

My returning to work will be hardest on Dakota. He is used to Mom being home and taking care of everything. He is going to have to adjust to it all over again. This time will be different though. Unlike walmart, I will have a set schedule, monday through friday, 8:30 to 5:00. And I will have most of his holidays off too.

In diabetic news, I am not doing too good. Numbers are still high, not eating right. Sometimes I forget to take my readings. And I am certainly not exercising. Guess I went from acceptance to denial in a short period of time.

posted on Feb 3, 2012 5:57 AM ()

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Best wishes with the interview!
Hope to mail the book to you tomorrow. I'll confirm....
When do your diabetes classes start?
comment by marta on Feb 5, 2012 7:51 PM ()
I haven't been in contact with the hospital about the classes. my sister has been helping me alot with my diet. I think I am in denial now. lol
reply by elkhound on Feb 6, 2012 5:09 AM ()
Good luck. And I mean that for everything you wrote about! Living (period) is more than "good luck, however. It's hard work.
comment by solitaire on Feb 5, 2012 7:25 AM ()
thanks Randy! yes living is more than what I have been doing lately. it's time for me to get serious about my health and happiness.
reply by elkhound on Feb 5, 2012 9:12 AM ()
Get crackin' on the diabetes. It is scary because it leads to heart disease.
Exercise is great when you get started. You will look forward to it.
comment by elderjane on Feb 3, 2012 3:35 PM ()
I promise to do better! going grocery shopping today for good stuff. I am lucky to have a sister who is a registered dietician!
reply by elkhound on Feb 4, 2012 6:27 AM ()
Give it time to adjust to your new heath issues... you will get it!
If they ask you where you see yourself in 5 years I used to say Happy. I dunno why but that seemed to work! You are on the spot a little bit but yes, confidence will take you a long way!
comment by kristilyn3 on Feb 3, 2012 11:57 AM ()
great answer! I am psyched to get this job! It will really help my family alot! kia soul, here i come!
reply by elkhound on Feb 4, 2012 6:28 AM ()
everything sounds great.Sorry about your sugar being high.Once you learn the diet there you will be fine.
comment by fredo on Feb 3, 2012 9:53 AM ()
yes fredo, still getting the hang of what makes my sugar go up and what keeps it stable. working on a notebook of good foods!
reply by elkhound on Feb 3, 2012 10:17 AM ()
You are coming into your own, Mary. Some of my past jobs included AP, and that was my favorite (much better than receivables). It's the sort of work where people respect your need to concentrate on your job, but you'll have co-workers to talk to when you are ready for a break. The routine will really help your diabetes management, and even the little bit of exercise you get going into the office will make a difference and get you started.
comment by troutbend on Feb 3, 2012 9:49 AM ()
it's also a nice big campus so I could walk at lunch time. at first it will be hard getting back into the routine, but I think I will enjoy working again. and not at a dead end place like walmart!
reply by elkhound on Feb 3, 2012 10:17 AM ()
"I guess I am already counting my money before I actaully have it. LOL" I SPEND mine before I have it!!!!
comment by greatmartin on Feb 3, 2012 9:20 AM ()
oh I do that too! it's just more fun when you actually have money!
reply by elkhound on Feb 3, 2012 9:27 AM ()
That is great news about the interview. I know you are going to do great!
It takes a while to settle into the new lifestyle and diet that comes with living with diabetes. You will get there.
comment by trekbrarian on Feb 3, 2012 8:20 AM ()
I think working will actually help with my diabetes because I will be on a schedule and also more active.
reply by elkhound on Feb 3, 2012 8:23 AM ()

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