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Nurturing

I would define nurturing as having a tender concern for our
family, intimate friends and compassion for those outside of
the circle of our love, including animals and other wildlife.

It dismays me to realize that there is little empathy and
care for others in our society. I cannot stand the sexual
and physical abuse of children.

There is a five year old next door. My neighbors have agreed
to foster her for a year and it has made a tremendous difference in her. She had been tied up, locked in a closet
and beaten by her mother and her mother's boy friends. It
is very distressing to me, that after they have made so much
of a change in her life, they are abandoning ship so to speak.
They are baby boomers and they want their life back. She
will have to go back in the foster care system. I would give
anything to be young enough to adopt her myself.

The Department of Human Services made so many egregious
mistakes last year that it is going through a vast shakeup.
Several children were given back to their abusive parents
and subsequently murdered by those parents. I cannot believe that some people are devoid of natural affection for
their children.

posted on Feb 19, 2013 3:38 PM ()

Comments:

Eek. That's so sad that the poor girl will have to return to the foster system. I wonder what that will do to her soul.
comment by kristilyn3 on Mar 3, 2013 8:25 AM ()
That is so cruel to do that to a child. She will probably bounce around in foster care now for years. So sad.
comment by jaydensblog on Feb 23, 2013 8:41 AM ()
I don't understand people who would hurt children. And what your neighbors are doing seems almost as bad as the abuse the child initially suffered.
comment by elkhound on Feb 22, 2013 4:08 AM ()
It is really horrible but they are very selfish, especially the wife. She
has griped about having the child there all year. I don't understand why
she doesn't see it.
reply by elderjane on Feb 22, 2013 8:17 AM ()
well I do not have any say on this.Not enough experience I guess.But good comment there.
comment by fredo on Feb 20, 2013 1:44 PM ()
Fredo, you have a loving heart.
reply by elderjane on Feb 21, 2013 5:46 AM ()
There is really no such thing as "natural" affection--it's learned. You can get a good idea of how people would really be by watching 3-, 4-, and 5-year olds interact with siblings and small animals. The amount of correction required is a good indication of the learning taking place. It's also very obvious in society what results from the lack of nurturing and instruction. It's no coincidence that mass-murderers and the like come from dysfunctional environments.
comment by jjoohhnn on Feb 20, 2013 6:32 AM ()
I disagree about their being no natural affection. Good mothers are flooded
with an instinct that says, I would kill for this baby and I would die to
save it from harm. I think that is how mother nature meant it to be for
the survival of the species.
reply by elderjane on Feb 20, 2013 12:41 PM ()
It is unconscionable that they would give her up after a year. I wouldn't do that to a pet -- we have stuck by our rescued animals even when we were at wit's end with their mischief and problems. And to do that with a child?
comment by tealstar on Feb 20, 2013 4:43 AM ()
Especially since she is their niece. I wouldn't do it to anyone, no matter
if it got in the way of my good times. It bothers me every time I think
about it and if she is in the foster system no telling how many times it
will repeat.
reply by elderjane on Feb 20, 2013 12:44 PM ()
That's a good example of no empathy. That poor child is going to feel rejected and wonder what she did wrong to cause these people to not want her any more. I suppose she had that one year of a better home than where she came from, but you have to wonder how good it was if their attitude was they would love her only as long as it suited them.
comment by troutbend on Feb 19, 2013 3:50 PM ()
That is the way I feel about it. She is their niece but they have decided
that raising another child is just not doable. It breaks my heart.
reply by elderjane on Feb 20, 2013 4:25 AM ()

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