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Family Crisis

Ellie got the news that her father passed away after a massive stroke. She will leave for Russia in a few days.
The Russian custom is to have the funeral on the third day
after a death, so there is no way she could have made it
for the funeral. She has a l7 hour train trip to Kurov after she gets to Moscow.

She wants the kids routine to stay as normal as possible so
I will pick them up and feed them dinner and Pat,(Bobby's
stepmother) will pick them up about six and take them to
their house and stay with them until Bobby gets home about
eleven p. m.

Adrienne's birthday is the l5th and I offered her a sleepover with two of her friends here but I think she wants
to wait. At any rate we will celebrate as much as we can.
I keep remembering how their Russian grandfather took Adrienne to the park with him where he went to play Chess.
She remembers nothing about the time she spent in Russia.

Some good may come of this. Pat was widowed about three
years ago and I have always thought it was silly not to
include her in family things. She is a nice person and
we have no animosity towards each other. She had a
difficult marriage to Bob. They were in couples therapy
for twenty years and I respect her for sticking it out.

It goes without saying that all of us will have to adjust
while Ellie is away.

posted on Apr 6, 2011 5:51 AM ()

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Poor Ellie. Glad she has all of you to take care of your granddaughters while she is away. Of course, that is something you love to do anyway.
comment by dragonflyby on Apr 7, 2011 7:20 AM ()
Losing a parent is bad enough, but from that distance, since it's been so long since she's seen them must be so much harder. Good thing Ellie's paperwork is all in order so she can go without delay.
comment by troutbend on Apr 6, 2011 1:49 PM ()
She got it together last summer because she was hoping to visit this summer.
reply by elderjane on Apr 6, 2011 7:59 PM ()
same here sorry for the loss.You seemed to have things in order there and good luck whatever happens.
comment by fredo on Apr 6, 2011 10:40 AM ()
We are going to work it out. But it will be kind of a workout for the
grannies too.
reply by elderjane on Apr 6, 2011 8:00 PM ()
Sorry to hear about her Dad... I hope you all get along well while she's away.
comment by kristilyn3 on Apr 6, 2011 10:28 AM ()

I think we can do it without much trouble. I just need to find out what
the kids like to eat besides meat and mashed potatoes.
reply by elderjane on Apr 6, 2011 8:02 PM ()
How healthy that old negatives seem to have been resolved so that you can have a closer family life. I'm sorry for Ellie's loss. It must be painful for her to grieve from such a distance. I'm sure family will be grateful to have her there.
comment by tealstar on Apr 6, 2011 7:49 AM ()
She has always stayed in close contact with her sister and parents by phone. I think the trip itself will be horribly tiring. Her sister is
a nurse, married to an engineer so they will move her mom to Siberia where
they live.
reply by elderjane on Apr 6, 2011 8:05 PM ()

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