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Nice Feelings

This is the first year EVER that I am late getting out my Christmas cards. I usually mail them right after Thanksgiving. It has been hard getting into the Christmas spirit this year. Between cleaning up after my nasty boarder, Auxiliary ceremonies, meetings and newsletters, and getting Christmas gifts in the mail, I am late getting my cards out. So little time, so much to do- and yet Christmas comes at the same time every year so I have no excuse for being so far behind!

Several people wrote messages in their cards to me this year. Some of them touched me very deeply.

"...I know you will always be doing something to encourage and inspire others."

"I just reread your poem from last year. So touching...thank you...."

"You are such a giving person... Christmas always makes me think of you."

Reading these words made me smile. Very nice feeling to know that I am appreciated.

I am thinking about how to spend Christmas. In past years, I spent Christmas with either my family or Susie's family. I have received several invites from friends to spend Christmas with them, but I don't know that I want to go anywhere. I think I would like to do something very different this year. How about a very special, scrumptious picnic lunch and a trip to the beach or a nearby park to paint plein aire? Oh, I'll probably end up accepting one of my friend's invitations, but the thought of spending Christmas Day with a paintbrush and a canvas sounds so... appealing. I've got time to figure it out.

posted on Dec 17, 2010 4:10 PM ()

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well wished that we were there to help you on that day.
comment by fredo on Dec 19, 2010 7:01 AM ()
Do not look upon invites as expressions of pity. The comments in your Christmas cards tell me that people love you and enjoy your company. Graciously accept an invitation and have a great Christmas.
comment by redimpala on Dec 18, 2010 6:54 PM ()
CJ, you brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for giving me another perspective; another way to consider those invitations. Bless you!
reply by dragonflyby on Dec 19, 2010 7:32 AM ()
Do whatever you want to do! I love the comments you got as well.
comment by kristilyn3 on Dec 18, 2010 8:38 AM ()
They made me feel appreciated. Nice feeling...
reply by dragonflyby on Dec 18, 2010 6:30 PM ()
Another "milestone" this year is the fact that the only decorating I am doing now is the tree and the wreaths. Seven boxes of Christmas decorations remain in the cellar, and that's where they will stay. Sad, but the cats will hardly notice. Nobody ever visits me during the holidays anyway. All my best friends are here, beyond the monitor screen!
comment by jondude on Dec 18, 2010 6:41 AM ()
Jon, WE are pathetic because the same is true here!
reply by dragonflyby on Dec 18, 2010 6:19 PM ()
Well for me spend some time with the family and then you can reflect later on what you wanted to do.I do like the idea pinic lunch,the beach and to relax some painting.But do what you feel.But do not be alone on this Christmas Day.Only make it worse for you.Good luck.
Wish that I was there to give you a big hug.So settled for a
comment by fredo on Dec 18, 2010 6:40 AM ()
I have no family here in Florida, but I consider myself hugged!
reply by dragonflyby on Dec 18, 2010 6:29 PM ()
You are such a people person that I can't see you being alone on Christmas but do whatever melts your butter. You are entitled.
comment by elderjane on Dec 18, 2010 4:53 AM ()
I think I have the Christmas doldrums. I can't be with my youngest son because he is gone, and I can't be with my oldest because I cannot afford to go up for Christmas- and they have their friends and their plans. Susie will likely extend a very last minute invite, but she has not spent a single day with me in over a year. Not a single lunch or dinner- notta, and we used to be so close. That woman living in her house is up her butt so tight that there is no room for anyone else. I think I am hesitant to accept invites because I fear they are out of pity. "Poor Dottie is all alone." That is not a good reason to accept an invitation for Christmas dinner.I think that is why I'd rather be by myself.
reply by dragonflyby on Dec 18, 2010 6:27 PM ()
And you will. Do what you love
comment by anacoana on Dec 17, 2010 5:44 PM ()
I agree! Do what you love, and embrace the joy!
reply by marta on Dec 17, 2010 10:59 PM ()

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