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My Apologies

 

 
It has been brought to my attention that a few people might have been disappointed or upset or angry about my Haiti post last week.  It seems my ''anger'' regarding the situation in Haiti is unfair because I mentioned that the US has only sent 10 percent of what was pledged while the other 90 percent sits in Congress while people are homeless and dying of cholera, malnutrition, and lack of medical facilities one year after the event.
It appears I failed to mention other countries holding onto payments but I didnt know which other countries are doing that....I'm sure there are quite a few...but I didnt know exactly which countries. 
The info about the US was a quote from Anderson Cooper on the day of the one year anniversary....he or his producers or researchers discovered this when they did research for the show.
On hindsight I suppose I should have done some research myself and included other countries as well and for those who were offended, I express my sincere apologies.
The other bone of contention is the fact that I expressed my personal thoughts on whether Haiti's circumstances might be due to the fact that it is a poor and predominantly black nation, and that this situation would be less probable if this was a nation of predominantly whites.
Am I being a racist for expressing my feelings in this regard?  This is an opinion I have seen expressed by many in the print media and one or two in the news or talk shows on tv.  I happen to agree with the sentiments expressed and still have visions of New Orleans in the aftermath of Katrina.
I loathe and abhor racism, prejudice, discrimination more than anything else in the world. To be considered a racist for expressing my view on the Haiti situation is very hurtful but I can understand there are people who would feel hurt by my presumption as well. To those people, I apologize.
Expressing one's thoughts or opinions in blogs is becoming difficult or controversial because everyone has their own opinion on issues and if yours differs from theirs....especially on very emotive subjects, you can hurt people's feelings. I dont like hurting people's feelings and if I do I will always apologize for doing so, but I will not apologize for having my own opinions regardless of what they are.
However, you know what? this is not about you personally and if you take everything you read that you dont agree with as a personal attack against you, you have a problem my friend.  I've been told on more than one occasion, if you want to blog, grow some thick skin...otherwise dont blog.  This is a work in progress for me too, so I get it.

 
 
 

posted on Jan 20, 2011 4:47 PM ()

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Your opinion is valuable to me. Please forgive those who do not believe in Freedom of Speech.
comment by nenah on Jan 29, 2011 7:13 AM ()
thank you nenah...it is disheartening when you have to be very careful about everything your write because people take it too personally even when it is not meant to be. I appreciate your comment very much.
reply by aussiegirl on Jan 29, 2011 7:17 AM ()
I didn't think anything your wrote was offensive or racially biased. I think you are justifiably upset, as I am, too, and from the recent articles in major news and opinion media, so are a lot of people. Haiti has so many convoluted problems, corruption, it is very disheartening. As for Rut, that guy has issues and his Blogster crowd are loonies.
comment by marta on Jan 21, 2011 5:59 PM ()
I cant believe my post got to be the "talk" over there, as if I am the only one who writes what they deem to be racist or controversial...yet they applaud crap posted by a toxic blogger...go figure. Thank you for your support Martha, you're a gem.
reply by aussiegirl on Jan 21, 2011 6:17 PM ()
what is the problem there ?I will try to help you if you tell me whats going on.Thanks.
comment by fredo on Jan 21, 2011 7:18 AM ()
Hi Fredo, I havent learned to navigate around the posting of pics and youtube videos here and I always have a problem doing it. I am learning and I'm sure I will get it one day. Editing posts is a nightmare though, I wish there was a better system...and another thing I just realized, there's non option to delete posts or comments either....or if there is, I havent found it...do you know if there is a way of deleting stuff??
reply by aussiegirl on Jan 21, 2011 8:16 AM ()
Did not get any racist vibes from your post. Ed opined that he thought the Haitian government officials were corrupt. I know people from Haiti and know what a convoluted political environment they have. There is also a tremendous racism in Haiti itself between the black Haitians and the Mulatto Haitians. Can't seem to get away from it, it would seem.
comment by tealstar on Jan 20, 2011 6:36 PM ()
I dont doubt it teal, unfortunately it is still a part of many people's culture but to be considered a racist for pointing out something which appears to be obvious is unfair...

Someone misconstrued or misinterpreted my opinion unfortunately.
reply by aussiegirl on Jan 20, 2011 6:40 PM ()
Me?????

I was being sarcastic--looks like 'that' crowd is rubbing off!
comment by greatmartin on Jan 20, 2011 6:30 PM ()
you..sarcastic????? NEVER!!!
reply by aussiegirl on Jan 20, 2011 6:36 PM ()
The facts are correct. Congress has withheld most of that funding.
comment by jondude on Jan 20, 2011 6:30 PM ()
yes I know, it is sickening..Thanks for commenting..
reply by aussiegirl on Jan 20, 2011 6:37 PM ()
Looks like I have a problem because I know this was aimed at me--

We have to get someone explain to you how to post the things you want to post and I can't help---Fredo? Joan? Anyone?????
comment by greatmartin on Jan 20, 2011 4:51 PM ()
no, this was not aimed at you...this was aimed at the people who mentioned it in Rut's post yesterday. It appears some blogsters got to hear about my Haiti post and took offense. Didnt you read the comments on Rut's post?
reply by aussiegirl on Jan 20, 2011 5:13 PM ()

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