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After I booked my one-way Amtrak ticket to Oakland (Ap 18-20) to see my #2 daughter and son, I emailed her with the info.
She replied with shocking news. She's splitting up with her husband! I raised my arms in a touchdown position upon reading that. It's been 11 years with that bum. Never once did he have a job. If I said he is black, that might sound racist. But black, white, green or purple, he is and always will be a lazy "ne'er do well". Finally. Finally! Laura has seen the light. What makes intelligent people do such things? No children, thankfully.
She works in administration at UC Berkeley making big bucks.

During and following my first marriage breakup, I started jogging to relieve the stress. It's been over 25 years now that I've been running. After my second divorce (12 yrs ago), I added boxing and weight lifting and sit-ups (crunches) to my exercise regimen (winter time). Always walked the golf course in the summer.

In the beginning, exercise helped me mentally to get through the hard times. I was teaching and raising 4 kids by myself. Quite stressful, to say the least. I continue to keep fit just to, well, keep fit, look good, and stay alive! Has doing a million (literally!) crunches over the past 12 years really helped? I surely hope so!

So, I told my daughter to become physically active for no other reason than to relieve stress. The release of endorphins helps with depression also. She's skinny and eats right, so that's not an issue (see photo--the tall one). I'm really happy for her, although I didn't tell her that!

I'm going hiking with my sister this PM. Yeah!

posted on Feb 26, 2012 5:47 AM ()

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Best of luck to your daughter . . . and as for you - keep on keepin' on
comment by blogsterella on Feb 28, 2012 8:02 AM ()
Happy you happy and glad you taking care of yourself. Important!
comment by panthurdreams on Feb 26, 2012 6:18 PM ()
Hi Dale. I don't have to tell you about the importance of exercising, esp. hiking! Hope all is well. Did you enjoy the Oscars?
reply by solitaire on Feb 27, 2012 6:00 AM ()
It is imperative that we older people exercise. We have to be able to get up off the floor, especially if we live alone. We need to keep making bone so we don't break hips or anything else. Yoga is good for relieving stress. Maybe your daughter can find a yoga class near her home or job.
comment by boots586 on Feb 26, 2012 2:26 PM ()
I do yoga as well as other exercises. I do cardio dance to help build bone as well as for the cardio benefits.
reply by boots586 on Feb 27, 2012 2:35 PM ()
When I first started exercising, I broke my ankle, had knee surgery, and had other "ailments". But the longer I went, the fewer the maladies. I'm thinking the exercise toughened me up over the long run. I'm not sure about yoga.
reply by solitaire on Feb 27, 2012 5:59 AM ()
Tell her to get a really good lawyer and safeguard her finances.
comment by marta on Feb 26, 2012 12:41 PM ()
Good idea, although I'd just as soon stay out of her business. Fatherly advice might help, however.
reply by solitaire on Feb 27, 2012 5:56 AM ()
It's good to know your daughter is wising up and I hope she sticks to her resolve. Sometimes the guy worms his way back in. Enjoy your trip.
comment by tealstar on Feb 26, 2012 12:09 PM ()
Yes, she dumped him once before, then returned. She's very religious, also, which doesn't help. Perhaps she'll wise up to that farce someday.
reply by solitaire on Feb 27, 2012 5:55 AM ()
enjoy your visit there.She should have dumped the person a long time ago.
Enjoy.
comment by fredo on Feb 26, 2012 9:51 AM ()
Any break-up, no matter whose fault it is, is hard for both parties--there is a lot of anger and what ifs--hopefully she will get on with her life.
comment by greatmartin on Feb 26, 2012 9:03 AM ()
UC Berkeley - maybe a liberal thing. Anyway, things should start looking up for her!
comment by jjoohhnn on Feb 26, 2012 8:31 AM ()
Isn't it Santorum that's saying "liberal" colleges are brainwashing our kids? What an idiot.
reply by solitaire on Feb 27, 2012 5:53 AM ()
comment by hennaladykim on Feb 26, 2012 8:29 AM ()
it is so hard for us parents when we see our kid with a not so good choice in spouse.
comment by elkhound on Feb 26, 2012 7:38 AM ()
My other two daughters did just fine. I may have some disagreements with my SILs, but for the most part, they're good guys. My son is still single (age 29).
reply by solitaire on Feb 27, 2012 5:50 AM ()
comment by elderjane on Feb 26, 2012 6:47 AM ()
Well I'm happy you are happy. love is blind so they say, so I'm glad she is finally able to see the light.
comment by kristilyn3 on Feb 26, 2012 6:09 AM ()
Good way to state it. We'll see what happens next.
reply by solitaire on Feb 27, 2012 5:49 AM ()

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