I have a preacher friend that I occasionally golf with. When I switched my golf season membership to another course, Pastor Ed did too. Although he hasn't said so directly, I think it was because of me. After all, he now has to drive an extra 13 miles--a total of 38 one way--to play the new course.

I'm not sure why he enjoys playing with me. Perhaps it's because he considers me his golf "mentor". He often asks for tips and help. Another reason might be my scintillating personality(!) and course demeaner (not "coarse").

But I think the main reason he likes playing with me is because he is in the process of questioning his faith. Ed is always asking, "So what do you think about_______?" I tell him, he listens, might discuss, but doesn't argue or debate. And I like that about him. He's open minded--rare for a preacher (or is it?).

He's commented several times about my truck bumper sticker that says "Imagine No Religion" (from Freedom From Religion Foundation). It's been an interesting source of conversation. I once told him it would make a good sermon. He even invited me to speak to his congregation--sort of a "point-counterpoint" duel. (I told him I have no intention of ever setting foot inside a church again.)

I really like Ed (just plain "Ed"). He's not pompous or full of himself. He's funny, yet serious--contemplative, questioning. Walking around the golf course for 3 hours with Ed conjures up many topics of discussion. Part II will delve into one of those topics (and it's not about religion!).