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Heroes?

At last week's Lions Club meeting, a proud member brought his son to "show off". The young man, about 20 years old, was on Army leave from Iraq.

We had been asked several months ago by the father to fund "care packages" to the six or so local boys fighting overseas, and the son wanted to thank us. He sounded sincere and said nothing more about the situation over there.

Another club member commented about the "wonderful job you and the other soldiers were doing", etc. Then we all stood up and applauded.

I, too, followed the crowd, but I had conflicting thoughts swirling around in my head. Here's a kid from rural America, college never crossing his mind, enlisting to go "fight for his country". He returns to a hero's welcome from a war that should never have happened.

Yes, I fully appreciate those young men "serving" their country by protecting us. Perhaps they are heroes. But I ask myself, why do they join up for military service in the first place? Do they like the idea of carrying weapons and fighting? Do they desire the hero's worship? Can they not find a civilian job?

This issue runs deep in today's presidential race. How do we define "service to our country"? The candidates tried to answer that question the other day. Candidates boast of their "community" service. Voters make decisions based on military experience. I'm just not sure why the fuss is such a big deal. I'm not condemning or promoting either side--simply commenting on the issue.

posted on Sept 13, 2008 6:41 AM ()

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The kids that I first taught are now old enough to join the military. The first ones were 9 when I taught them (started in 4th grade). I think I wrote about this once. We live in an affluent community. They are expected to go on to higher education, but for some the economy doesn't allow it. Some of them were one of several children. So, many of them have joined for the benefits... yes. What they didn't count on was re-deployment ... over and over again. I wonder what kind of lives these sweethearts will have? They will come back different (as some of your readers have commented.) They are good kids. They deserve a good life. I dread reading the paper or listening to the news. I pray for them.
comment by sunlight on Sept 15, 2008 11:03 PM ()
And yes, if they have been in combat, I think they are heroes.
comment by elderjane on Sept 14, 2008 6:47 PM ()
Boys who want opportunity for education join the military, Some want to serve their country, and if there is not a war on the military can be a satisfying life style. I think that I can safely say that no one comes back from combat the same way that he went in, mentally and often not physically.
comment by elderjane on Sept 14, 2008 6:45 PM ()
Service to others is a high calling and can be actualized in many ways. I'm just glad the kid made it home from a trumped up war we have no business fighting.
comment by marta on Sept 14, 2008 11:59 AM ()
Hello Randy!

Great post. I think about the same things. A friend of mine came home from two tours in Iraq he is not the same person that left and the sad part is he knows it.
comment by wickedwitchofthewest on Sept 13, 2008 7:25 PM ()
I too wonder why these young kids don't go to college and reading the post above I get that family tradition and perhaps lack of funds or skills make these kids take up arms and fight in the wars. Very thoughtful post
comment by ciscawikkeling on Sept 13, 2008 4:45 PM ()
Perhaps some of them join because of pressure from parents or others.
comment by catdancer on Sept 13, 2008 1:23 PM ()
My era was one in which 99% of our soldiers were appreciated. That all changed with Vietnam. We shouldn't punish our soldiers for the political madness that puts them in harm's way. Young men join for many reasons. Some because of love of country and they want to do the right thing. Some because their civilian prospects are poor and they hope to learn a skill. The all-volunteer army has resulted in poor boys becoming the protectors of our country and dying for it, and the rich go to college. It's not the best system.
comment by tealstar on Sept 13, 2008 1:12 PM ()
I understand enlistment in the military as I come from a military family. It is about service to country, and some generations have the misfortune of having to serve during an unpopular war. Mine was the Viet Nam Era.
Military service is apolitical. In some families it is more than a tradition. It is a value system; a frame of mind as deeply ingrained as our religious beliefs or cultural norms. Our politics and policies may change, but within military families, service to country is valued regardless of the political climate.
comment by dragonflyby on Sept 13, 2008 7:56 AM ()
A very thoughtful post, my friend. Certainty, you have hit upon a subject well worth exploration, if that exploring can be done objectively and without the usual patriotic mumbo-jumbo. You raise several uniquely complex issues. The problems so many ex-GIs face upon return, and the mental anguish so many struggle with, ought to be considered as well.
comment by looserobes on Sept 13, 2008 7:46 AM ()
We learned quickly in Vietnam that if you wanted to be a "hero," you kept quiet, did your job and followed orders. The only "heroes" were the dead ones.
comment by jondude on Sept 13, 2008 7:09 AM ()

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