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Life & Events > Relationships > Great Grandparents
 

Great Grandparents

For some reason, "stuff" keeps popping into my head to write about. Inane, but worthy (to me) to share.

It sort of hit me (as I was reading a book) that I knew a lady that was born during the Civil War. That was 150 years ago! She was my great grandmother, Lide. I was 11 yrs old when she died (at age 92), so I remember her fairly well. She lived with us for awhile. (Her only son, my grandfather, died at age 35.)

Thankfully, she left an autobiography. What a treasure! She talked about her grandparents. So now we go back in time even farther. As far as I know, Lide was the only ancestor I have that left a record of his or her life. What a shame. I would so much like to know what went on in their world.

My mother kept a diary her entire life. My father has written a "memory book". That means my grandson will have something to remember about a great grandfather that was born during WW 1 and the great flu epidemic (1918). How cool is that? If my father lives to 100, Jonny will be 8. Perhaps he'll have some memories of Dad. Photos help.

Because my "greats" never (except Lide) left any hints of their lives, I have decided I would. My autobio (written 5 yrs ago) includes info about my grandparents, etc. Maybe my descendents won't care, but my life will be recorded, just in case a great, great grandchild is interested in the life of someone born during WW 11 (1943). I don't consider my life story to be egotistical--I'm not on an ego trip. I just know how disappointed I am in not knowing who my ancestors were.

Of course, I have faith that humans will still be around in another 100 years.

posted on Dec 19, 2011 5:48 AM ()

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I don't think the plane will take a special request to drop us off - but I will keep that in mind. I want to visit Wolf Park - and you are right there - so it WILL happen!
comment by kristilyn3 on Dec 21, 2011 7:45 AM ()
There are books for children to fill in when they interview their grandparents about what it was like when they grew up in "the olden days." "The olden days" are when we were children.
comment by boots586 on Dec 19, 2011 5:22 PM ()
Actually, it's one of those books that my father has completed (or says he has). I'll ask him about it. I have some recordings he and my mother made back in the early 40's of him playing piano and her singing. Scratchy, but valuable.
reply by solitaire on Dec 20, 2011 5:35 AM ()
I have no descendents ... however, for my own need to write about it, I have an autobiography spanning the years from early childhood to mid twenties when I moved to New York City. You might think what is to know from such a young life ... I am too timid to show it around as it is very revealing. So I think it will go unread.
comment by tealstar on Dec 19, 2011 12:37 PM ()
We are ALL your descendants! I can't remember if you have any brothers or sisters (my bad), but if you do, there must be some family members that would like to have the memoirs of "Aunt Harriet". I bet many of your MyBloggers readers would enjoy reading it.
reply by solitaire on Dec 20, 2011 5:33 AM ()
What a great idea to write about your life for the kids. I love it. I would love to read your great grandma's story too!
comment by kristilyn3 on Dec 19, 2011 10:00 AM ()
Well, on your way to Green Bay, stop by and you can read it! She does talk about going to Baltimore to find her great grandparent's burial spot (failed). Her great grandfather, Pierre LeSourd, was a soldier in Lafayette's army during the Revolutionary War. Neat, eh?
reply by solitaire on Dec 20, 2011 5:29 AM ()
That's a wonderful thing to leave. Are you sure you won't write a sequel? to me the most interesting part would be everyday life entries.
comment by drmaus on Dec 19, 2011 9:34 AM ()
Perhaps in a few years, I'll update my autobio. I do keep a "monthly" journal--actually two--events and thoughts. As for daily diary, my mother's is very boring and mundane. So is my childhood diary.
reply by solitaire on Dec 20, 2011 5:24 AM ()
When events of my lifetime are talked about as history these days I suppose it would be good to write about how life was when I was a kid. "What was it like when you didn't have Internet grandpa?"
comment by jjoohhnn on Dec 19, 2011 9:32 AM ()
Being the good writer and man of the world that you are, of course you should write out some memories--included in your autobio!
reply by solitaire on Dec 20, 2011 5:20 AM ()
My paternal grandmother also was a writer and kept a family history, dating back to Revolutionary War times. All my first cousins have a copy, and it's very cool. My grandmother's niece, who just died a few years ago, was also a great source of family lore, including some tidbits that Grandma left out of her accounting because the relatives weren't "respectable," such as a horse thief! lololol Before my Mom died, I recorded her on audio tape telling many family stories and history. Now on a CD, it is very precious. Good for you to make a record for your family to come.
comment by marta on Dec 19, 2011 9:24 AM ()
Of course, I left out all the bad parts! Nothing but angelic stuff. Your CD is priceless.
reply by solitaire on Dec 20, 2011 5:19 AM ()
It is important to leave a record of your life for your descendants... or at least, I think it is. I am glad that you wrote your autobiography for your grandchildren and great grandchildren.
comment by dragonflyby on Dec 19, 2011 7:20 AM ()
Most people (my neighbor, for instance) don't think so, or don't care. Evidently, neither did my ancestors.
reply by solitaire on Dec 20, 2011 5:16 AM ()

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