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Life & Events > Relationships > Taking a Deep Breath
 

Taking a Deep Breath

Whew. The MADHOUSE is over! It's peaceful and silent in the old house again.

My Christmas meal turned out great (no applause, please). Turkey (which I like to freeze), a veggie roast (potatoes, parsnips, onions, Brussel Sprouts, garlic, celery, etc.), scalloped corn, and a very sweet "hell of a yam pone" sweet potato casserole. Plus red cabbage slaw and a fruit salad(apples, raisins, pears, black walnuts with yogurt). Desert was persimmon pudding and a blueberry cheesecake. Nearly everything was grown or gathered by me (all but the turkey, raisins, and celery).

It's always nice to see my daughter from Honduras, but her hubby and two kids (ages 4 and 6), are more than I can take. He's a poor excuse for a husband, and a worse excuse for a father. The kids (as I've mentioned before) are totally out of control, sassy, disrespectful, sneaky, and boisterous. They couldn't leave fast enough. What a shame I feel that way. Evidently, they're in Honduras to stay, as they're looking to buy a house. Their "income" is totally from donations--U.S. charity--since they run a medical clinic slash mission house. This means the house will be bought by donors to support "the cause". To me, this is totally wrong. I'd like to support my daughter, but not this way. They're not getting a cent from me.

Compare this to my other daughter and her husband (living in Indiana), who have worked like crazy refurbishing houses to resell, only to have the housing market collapse, forcing them into bankruptcy. They even have to leave their own home/farm. They're the ones I loaned $35k to, in a futile attempt to save them. There's no justice in all this.

Anyway, my blood pressure will eventually drop, as solitude returns to my way of life. Deep breath and a long sigh. Whew!

posted on Dec 27, 2008 5:49 AM ()

Comments:

Your dinner sounded heavenly, your family experience true to life!
Best wishes for the New Year
comment by ciscawikkeling on Dec 31, 2008 8:17 AM ()
Those out-of-control g'kids would send me over the edge. Perhaps it's a good thing neither of my daughters has had kids. I have a hard enough time dealing with having to take care of my one daughter's dachshund, a high maintenance dog for sure.
comment by looserobes on Dec 29, 2008 3:41 PM ()
Glad it turned out great. My turkey and stuffing was unusually good this year. Sorry about the kids. My oldest grandson just blew a 36,000 a year scholarship to USC by not going to class. He made a 3.5 average last year and l4 hours of f this year. He didn't even have enough sense to withdraw
amd come home. I am very mad at him and want him on medication and in counselling but I am afraid my daughter won't do it.
comment by elderjane on Dec 28, 2008 7:39 AM ()
ahhh! thus the name "solitaire". We also (twisted sister and I) had a quiet holiday - we were snowed in - and that is the truth! We had a tonne of snow out here on the usually wet coast and nothing, truly nothing was stirring on Christmas. We only got out today, hit the library and the drug store and quickly retreated. Roads are passable, but just. The snow has turned to rain and major slush. Here's hoping the temps remain above zero.

Amazing isn't it? How you get to pick your friends and not your family? My family is not close, for good reason (keeping us apart has contributed to a low murder rate in this country).

Glad to hear that other than the screaming banshees that it was a great dinner. Hope the rest of your holidays are good and quiet.
comment by lizbeth on Dec 27, 2008 4:12 PM ()
Glad you're back here... peace & quiet... Maybe it's best they're far away. But then maybe if they were nearer, you'd have more influence over the kiddies... You make fabulous food!

Happy New Year!
comment by sunlight on Dec 27, 2008 3:51 PM ()
Sorry about the problems your Indiana daughter is having -- all that work and still struggling. It appears you are handing out tough love to your other daughter -- works for me. Why don't you post your recipe for the veggie roast -- it sounds great.
comment by tealstar on Dec 27, 2008 11:33 AM ()
I'm coming to your house for Christmas dinner next year!!!! I'm not even waiting for an invitation. Your menu is invitation in itself. I, too, have solitude now that JR is off hunting. Except he still calls by phone to tell me what to do. He is more bossy than an old lady. But, I love him.
comment by anniel on Dec 27, 2008 9:54 AM ()
I send you good vibes as you hopefully refresh yourself. This has been such a difficult year all around, and it is especially hard to watch loved ones struggle with challenges and choices only they can make. Let's breathe in hope, my friend.
My tummy is rumbling wishfully at the thought of your delicious Christmas dinner. A toast to your talents! Persimmon pudding.... Be still my heart!
May peace for you and all of us rise and light our way into a new year.
comment by marta on Dec 27, 2008 9:18 AM ()
I was here earlier. Must have not commented? Your dinner sounds like it was wonderful. What? You didn't shoot the turkey? Guess you are truly a gatherer and not a hunter in spirit.
comment by dragonflyby on Dec 27, 2008 8:27 AM ()
That's what great about grandchildren,they visit and go home with their parents.I wouldn't want to raise children in todays society.Your dinner sounds delicious.I was drooling reading the ingredients of the veggie roast,yummy.This economy is really hurting everyone.Both my sons took pay cuts.One just had his third child and now by accident the fourth will be due one year and one day apart from the last baby.Amie will be be taking measures to prevent anymore children this time.Peace and quiet sounds good to me too.Have a glass of wine and put some nice jazz on.... Laurie
comment by dogsalot on Dec 27, 2008 7:50 AM ()
Ah LIFE, the twist/turns...
Well relax/recoup/restore

Dinner Menu WOW good for you, what a joy to plant/harvest/prepare/share.
comment by anacoana on Dec 27, 2008 7:23 AM ()

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