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If I Keep Waiting ... ..


Been planning to blog for weeks but there's always one more thing to do first. Sometimes it's necessary to just make the commitment.



In Rome that's 29. For anyone who doesn't recognize the medallion, it's what AA gives out to celebrate years sober. The only possible drawback to accumulating sober time is getting old in the process. But as the saying goes, getting old sure beats the alternative.

I came to AA out of desperation when I was 29-years old. On the one hand I wanted to die, on the other, I didn't and survival won out. I made a phone call to a former drinking buddy who had gotten sober a few months before I did and the rest, as they say is history. I made a commitment to sobriety the first night--hangover and all--by saying when my turn at the meeting came, "I'm John, an alcoholic, and I pass". That was it, but it says it all.

My actual sobriety date is 21 January, but the group holds anniversary meetings on the last Saturday of the month, so I celebrated last night. It was a really nice meeting. My buddy Adam gave me the medallion and the discussion part of the meeting that followed was interesting. Anniversary meetings are to show others that the Program of recovery works and it's not supposed to be an ego-feeding proposition, but I was really good to hear that things I've said over the years are remembered and have helped others on their journey.

If you recall the story of Bubba and his brother who were working on the house; they are gone. They finished the inside work and made a deal with another contractor (pending my approval (which I did)) to do the outside work. It's a bit too cold to do siding, and since there has been virtually no snow this winter, I'm not even too concerned with getting the snow guards on the roof and the gutters up. There shouldn't be any flooding this spring unless something really strange happens--like several feet of snow all at once. but the pattern has been for a little to fall and melt, and rain instead of snow, so no big deal at this point.

As much as I prefer to spend time outside, it really don't like doing it in mud, and the boyz don't too much like being out in the cold. Buster spent an hour or so outside today--sunny and 34--but he couldn't get in fast enough after the hour. I figure I'll get some good days to split wood and even if I don't I should have just enough to get through the rest of the season.



That is a picture of the front entryway. It's no where near as dirty as the one in the back was. I had tried floor stripper, Awesome and I don't remember what else to clean it and nothing worked. Then I read Jeri's blog and vinegar had worked for her. I was about ready to try that, but I had ordered a steam cleaner for Christmas, so I waited. I can't believe how well steam cleans. I had watched infomercials on the subject and they were telling the truth. A shot of steam is all it takes. Works great on other surfaces too. Next I'll try it on the stone around the fireplace. The floor area in particular is darker in front of the fireplace insert than the rest, so hopefully it will be all one color when I'm finished.

How about I leave you with a political statement....


Not much else doing... spending time on FB... political posts are poppin' and there are many, many months to go.

posted on Jan 29, 2012 6:28 PM ()

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I am so proud of you JJ. It must have taken tremendous will power. I got
tired of burning holes in my clothing and smelling like tobacco so I gave it
up 25 years ago and it was really hard for me to quit smoking. The white
vinegar worked on a level floor but it didn't in the shower with the drain. I am going to get a hand held steamer. The steam mop works great.
comment by elderjane on Jan 31, 2012 5:04 AM ()
Willpower helps with smoking, but doesn't do squat for drinking--that takes a major change in thinking which doesn't happen over night.

I am amazed that young people pick up the smoking habit these days. I mean WTF? Do they see most of the smokers around them trying to QUIT? That and the price.... geez, it's not throwaway change these days!
reply by jjoohhnn on Jan 31, 2012 5:15 AM ()
Congratulation!
I know it's not quite the same accomplishment but I'll be 12 years smoke free this coming August.
comment by nittineedles on Jan 30, 2012 12:39 PM ()
WTG Actually, it was almost tougher in a different sort of way to give up the butts than the booze. It took a full year--once through every season before I actually got over smoking. The nicotine itself probably wasn't that bad, but the physical habits and the times I really needed a smoke... yup, tougher!
reply by jjoohhnn on Jan 30, 2012 1:13 PM ()
Good for you on your sobriety. I am proud of you... I love your entry way, it reminds me of the entry in the house I grew up in!
comment by kristilyn3 on Jan 30, 2012 12:14 PM ()
This is a 50s house--built the year I was born, so I'm not surprised that some things would look familiar. There is also a little red light by the switch for the basement light.... just like what was in my first girlfriend's house. Other stuff too.. all reasons why I bought the place.
reply by jjoohhnn on Jan 30, 2012 1:10 PM ()
the tile there in front of your entry there is the exact same I have my wood stove standing on.
How about that.We loved it.Congrats.Great
comment by fredo on Jan 30, 2012 10:03 AM ()
Thanx Fredo!
reply by jjoohhnn on Jan 30, 2012 1:09 PM ()
congrats John! I have been so tempted to buy one of those steam cleaners but have been afraid they won't live up to the hype. Our house is all wood floors except for the kitchen and laundry area.
comment by elkhound on Jan 30, 2012 4:01 AM ()
My house is all hardwood too, except for the bathrooms and kitchen. I didn't buy a hand-held for the floors. Not to sound like an infomercial, but the hand-held cleans around the faucets where a sponge won't go and around the inside of the dishwasher door and things like that. When the weather warms a bit I'll try it on the exterior of the camper windows etc where mold develops. Yup, I have big plans for it!
reply by jjoohhnn on Jan 30, 2012 9:14 AM ()
congrats, John, on your years of sobriety. seems like nobody is getting a lot of snow this winter, so far (bugg crosses antenni)

reguards
yer constant pal
bugg
comment by honeybugg on Jan 30, 2012 3:27 AM ()
It's not unusual for us to get a blizzard in the beginning of March, but that doesn't seem to be the pattern. This time last year we had 60 inches, much of it still on the ground. This year, zip. And that's fine with me. No runoff--no flooding in the spring!
reply by jjoohhnn on Jan 30, 2012 9:10 AM ()
Congratulations on 29!
comment by jondude on Jan 29, 2012 7:38 PM ()
Thanx Dude!
reply by jjoohhnn on Jan 30, 2012 9:08 AM ()
My sobriety date is January 21, 1981
comment by greatmartin on Jan 29, 2012 7:11 PM ()
My group gives gold (plated) medallions for 30 years. I order medallions, so I know how much the gold costs. I'll probably take one then put it back in stock and carry bronze. I always carry the current year in my left pocket.
reply by jjoohhnn on Jan 29, 2012 7:29 PM ()

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