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Accumulating Stuff

The subject of estate sales and collecting other peoples' stuff came up recently on mybloggers and I chose not to take up space in the comments section of the greaser's blog, so I'm throwing in my two cents here.

Except for baseball cards in elementary school, I've never been a hoarder or collector. I do have small containers of screws and small salvaged parts of hardware that I do keep for when I need them, but most often, when I need wood screws, for example, I don't have the right size. So even keeping those sorts of things is beginning to make less sense than it once did.

I have American Psychologist journals from the time when I was a member of the APA, but those are now so outdated that they have very little value aside from their possible significance as historical texts.

I have a CD collection--probably 100+ discs, but we rarely listen to them. If I have the stereo fired up three times a year, that's a lot. I usually stream youtubes or public radio over headphones, which is what I'm doing now, so I have little use for the CD collection.

I also have a collection of stuffed sheep. It became known that I was rather "sheepish" at some point long ago and people began giving me sheep for almost any occasion. They serve little purpose other than to collect dust, but I remember the story behind many of them, so I keep them.

Not much other junk lying around. Not much junk to get rid of.

When I go to yard sales I usually look for stuff I really need. I usually get the "big score" every year. A few years ago it was the desk chair I'm still sitting on. Got it for two bucks. This year was one of those plastic wheelbarrow substitutes. I had looked at one in the store and it was $40 on sale. Turns out the hub cap on one side is either missing, or fell off in the yard, but either way, if I don't find it I'll have to come up with a substitute, but even so, I got the thing for six dollars and it's a deal even with a small repair job.

So, the point.

Remember the saying that most of us were taught--"save for a rainy day"; well, is it raining yet? In other words, when is it time to face the downhill side of the run through life and start doing things differently?

That includes spending money or not buying things.

Some people will think the next comment is really sleazy, but I can remember thinking after my mother had a stroke or two at 70-something, that maybe it wasn't a good idea to spend too much on Christmas gifts. I had a similar thought about my AA sponsor when he was in his late 70s and would go to the dentist. I'm only 60 (almost) and I don't intend to spend money on root canals and crowns like I did in my 20s. Just pull'em, I don't need them for long enough to justify the expense.

So, as for buying stuff at estate sales: well, maybe I would if it's something I need, make that, something functional and not too expensive. I may buy a quality dulcimer when I get better at playing it, and Donna wants another flute for Christmas, but that's its own issue. How many flutes does a novice need? She says they can only be played for a short time before they "wet out", but she doesn't need to play for any length of time, so what's the big deal.

Anyway, when you get down to it, it's personal choice. I wouldn't mind spending any spare cash traveling in the RV but some people would probably prefer filling their house with stuff. Yup, guess it's that simple.... LOL I could probably delete this now that I figured it out, but I won't. Instead, I'll add some fall color.....

It's been cloudy for days and days, and wet on and off, but I shot a few videos anyway. We're getting some fall color this year, but it would look much better under sunshine. Some of the videos that will come up if you watch the first one are also "travel" LOL flicks, but here's one that shows the local roads and a pumpkin farm....



We ended up with a four dollar pumpkin. They also have gourds which may be suitable for drying and gourd art like we did at 4C Camp for Adults. The owner said they have butternut squash for awhile, so we'll probably stop by there again soon.

posted on Oct 2, 2012 7:41 PM ()

Comments:

You might want to rethink the teeth thing - I've had several pulled recently. Entirely my fault - I thought it was more important to pay for my health insurance than go to the dentist. Now I have a hard time chewing. Getting a bridge in January. I entirely agree about buying more stuff - I hate shopping anyway.
comment by catdancer on Nov 21, 2012 5:55 PM ()
I already have a partial: two front (bottom), skip one, then a third. I think it's low end. It has a piece of metal almost visible.
reply by jjoohhnn on Nov 21, 2012 6:05 PM ()
I LOVE pumpkin patches! Thanks for sharing your trip with us!

As for hoarding, you've brought up some good points. As you know I've been dealing with this issue for a long time, both in myself, my husband, and in the house I've inherited. In spite of the hoards that have taken close to a year to sort out, I'm still not ready to strip myself bare of possessions. I'm an artist at heart and the collecting and arrangement of things is tied directly to my enjoyment of life. The litmus test in all of this is... is it adding or taking away from my enjoyment of life. Whether I have two years to live, or twenty five, I expect that this will always be important to me.
comment by maggiemae on Oct 7, 2012 8:39 AM ()
Never heard of anyone collecting sheep--certainly not a man. Amusing. I can identify with your "what's the point?" enigma. I love your rationalizations.
comment by solitaire on Oct 6, 2012 5:13 AM ()
I spend a lot of time at home and I want it to look good inside and out.
I like decorating and I like nice things. I have given a lot away and I
have two children and 6 grand children who will benefit from it when I am
gone. I cherish the things Ted's mother left us and I will never be too
old to re-decorate. I also love the hunt, I am sensible enough not to
buy a new car but I would love to have a travel trailer to take Rex on
vacations. Unfortunately Ted's health prevents travel for now. Upstate
New York is so beautiful. I love your videos. We are all different. Viva
La Difference!
comment by elderjane on Oct 3, 2012 3:26 PM ()
I have the trailer but I don't drive and Donna is afraid to drive cross-country which is what I want to do before I drop. Most of the stuff is just here. I value the dulcimer and of course, the computer and stuff I use all the time. The rest I really don't care about. As I said in a reply below, I'd like to live further south with a shorter winter, but I can't deal with a major move even if Donna would go for it. One of the downsides to home ownership is long term commitment.
reply by jjoohhnn on Oct 3, 2012 8:10 PM ()
you reach a certain age--well I did--when you don't want 'stuff' (and your heirs don't want it either--if they want it give it to them now!)--a few years ago I went on ebay and sold all my stuff---CDs, Playbills, books,etc. even made a junk box (extra can openers, peelers,etc.,) and got $50 plus shipping (to California!!!)--now I just have the basics--a kitchen table, service for 2, computer desk, bed, 2 towel sets, etc. I have already asked my heirs if there was anything they wanted and I gave it to them if I didn't NEED it.
"Stuff" comes with responsibility and why have anymore than you NEED as you get old? Trust me--those journals will be thrown out plus those CDs and who wants a sheep collection? Okay, give it to them now--one less thing to dust!
comment by greatmartin on Oct 3, 2012 9:12 AM ()
I'm not ready to part with the sheep, but the journals are here only because I'm too lazy to deal with it. Me and the ex had planned to retire into a fifth wheel which would have required downsizing, but at this point, there's not enough stuff to be a problem.
reply by jjoohhnn on Oct 3, 2012 8:06 PM ()
Watching this made me realize how much I miss the "North".
comment by dragonflyby on Oct 3, 2012 9:07 AM ()
I need four seasons, but I could very easily live with a shorter winter. If I was younger I'd consider Kentucky or or NC. But I can't deal with selling the house and a major move even if Donna would go for it. Last move was 40 miles, but that was when me and the ex owned the motel, so we moved stuff one trip at a time until the motel sold. Then took the last of the stuff on the last trip.
reply by jjoohhnn on Oct 3, 2012 8:03 PM ()
Gorgeous country road. Do you still add to your sheep collection on occasion? I have a giraffe collection and a 3 monkeys collection (see no, hear no, speak no evil), but haven't added to them for years.
comment by steve on Oct 3, 2012 7:50 AM ()
I really wasn't the one who would add to the sheep collection. One of them that is no long with me was a plastic statue of a sheep with a machine gun, "Lambo". Most are stuffed tho. I'll go around and take some pics since you are the second person who has mentioned them.
reply by jjoohhnn on Oct 3, 2012 8:00 PM ()
I need to hit more yard sales... what great deals you can get!
Loved the video... you crack me up!
comment by kristilyn3 on Oct 3, 2012 7:18 AM ()
Yard sales are fun. Sometimes Donna asks, "and what will you be looking for today?" I say that if I knew what I was looking for I'd go to Wal-mart.
reply by jjoohhnn on Oct 3, 2012 7:58 PM ()
Great video and scenery,those pumkins are not the type grown around here.Regarding the butternut squash, we call then pumkin as well and is my favorite.
Hoading things for me is long gone,like you though screws and bolts i still keep, other thing i have still from years back are 2 clocks,a picture that hung over my mothers bed, also my 78 rpm record collection
comment by kevinshere on Oct 3, 2012 3:06 AM ()
Yeah, we all keep different things.
reply by jjoohhnn on Oct 3, 2012 7:56 PM ()
Great scenery. Looks a lot like it is around here.
I want to see your sheep collection.
comment by nittineedles on Oct 2, 2012 11:34 PM ()
Sheep are all over the house, but I'll see what I can do.
reply by jjoohhnn on Oct 3, 2012 7:55 PM ()
Thanks for the video. It's so pretty there. I know what you mean about reaching the age when the last thing most of us wants is more stuff. But people have different reasons for buying things and different definitions of 'need.' Sometimes the fun of searching out a find is a means of escaping from their stressful life, or taking a trip down memory lane. I've bought things for my house like what I had as a child. For example, there was a clown light fixture in my bedroom, and a few years ago I found one on eBay. It makes me happy to look at it.
comment by troutbend on Oct 2, 2012 8:55 PM ()
Searching out a find is why I go to yard sales. We usually go on the big summer holidays when we can hit them along the road without looking up where they are in the paper. Donna will ask, "and what are you looking for today". I answer that if I knew what I was looking for I'd go to Wal-mart. The desk chair and the wheelbarrow thing are two big finds--positive reinforcement, so I keep doing it.
reply by jjoohhnn on Oct 3, 2012 5:54 PM ()

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