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So That's What I Get ... .

Donna and I are both certified respite care providers, so we answered a call last week to attend a guy with Down syndrome in the local hospital. We each ended up doing a few 18 hour shifts until the agency found a third person to help out and give us a chance to sleep. No problem, until the day after the guy was discharged. I began feeling not so well. I don't believe I have pneumonia, which is what he was in for, but I've got typical symptoms of a respiratory condition. I had a flu shot, so odds are in my favor that it isn't that.

I really need to be healthy (not contagious) by Saturday evening in order to attend a friend's 40th anniversary in sobriety. She's a few years older than me, but she got sober a few years earlier. I'm also expecting to reach 40 years sober, but I'll be 70 if it happens. Anyway, a meeting like that should bring folks out. Hopefully it will be a large crowd. We don't celebrate as a matter of ego--it's to show newcommers that AA works, but a lively crowd is always more fun than a small one.

The test planting I did last month has revealed that many of my seeds are viable. Hopefully I can keep these things alive, without them getting too large for another six weeks or so.
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A few years ago I read "Predictably Irrational" by behavioral economist--Dan Ariely. I'm usually interested in things psychological/behavioral and this book was particularly interesting because the field is somewhat new. There were no courses in it offered at my Alma mater when I was in graduate school (circa late 90s). Dan is offering a six-week course online, so naturally, I couldn't resist signing up.

https://class.coursera.org/behavioralecon-001/class/index

It's free!

We still have snow on the ground which is quite a contrast to last year when most of March was warm. Trees had leaves, crocuses were out, and the apple trees had blossoms, which turned out to be a really bad thing. On 31 March the overnight temp fell to 19F and much growth was killed. Cold long winters are natural around here.....depressing....

posted on Mar 28, 2013 9:16 AM ()

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Ashville!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have heard only lovely things about Ashville!
comment by kristilyn3 on Apr 6, 2013 10:55 AM ()
Yeah, you and everybody else. I'd probably be out of my price range for a house by now.
reply by jjoohhnn on Apr 6, 2013 11:25 AM ()
No need The immune system is not like the young one.Beside no one had shingle in my family or chicken pox.
comment by fredo on Mar 29, 2013 2:25 PM ()
depressing is right. I am getting depressed down in here in VA even! I did move further south from Bingo due to weather, perhaps I didn't go far enough. Congrats to your friend on 40 years!!! Truly a fantastic accomplishment.
comment by kristilyn3 on Mar 29, 2013 9:46 AM ()
Spring hits Binghamton about three weeks before it get here. VA is actually one of the places I looked at 15 years ago. NC was the other. Should have went with the mountains of Ashville instead of Delhi. Coulda, woulda, shoulda, didn't.
reply by jjoohhnn on Mar 29, 2013 1:59 PM ()
By the way over 80 they do not give you the shingle shot.
comment by fredo on Mar 29, 2013 8:30 AM ()
I hope they have a good reason for that.
reply by jjoohhnn on Mar 29, 2013 1:59 PM ()
Donna looks wonderful! Congratulations on the respite care giving. It is
really needed. Thanks for posting the link to the free course. I may do it,
I am fascinated by human behavior and minored in Psychology with a a graduate
degree in counseling. Mercy, that was a long time ago!
comment by elderjane on Mar 29, 2013 5:28 AM ()
I think the course is really great, but i have the background of reading one of Dan's books. He writes in more detail about his experience in the burn unit (which prompted some of his research). The course started last Monday but you'd have no trouble catching up. You can just watch the videos if you don't want the full experience, but I'm going for the certificate (although I'm not an A student this time around :))
reply by jjoohhnn on Mar 29, 2013 6:15 AM ()
I was born down the road from you, in Schenectady. My recollection is that Watertown, a ways north of Delhi, was always the coldest place around.
comment by steeve on Mar 28, 2013 6:42 PM ()
I always think of Schenectady as a suburb of Albany--close enough to be in the upper Hudson Valley and a bit warmer and less snowy than Delhi. Western NY get hit hard with snow although a lot of it is lake effect which doesn't contain a heck of a lot of moisture. Donna is from out that way (worked for the VA in Rochester for years) and doesn't have too many complaints about the weather, although she did have some interesting driving experience when she had to be to work in storms.
reply by jjoohhnn on Mar 29, 2013 6:10 AM ()
I had the shingles vaccine as soon as it came out--I have seen too many people with shingles to not take it.
comment by greatmartin on Mar 28, 2013 5:54 PM ()
Yeah, Donna's mother had it. Very uncomfortable, to say the least.
reply by jjoohhnn on Mar 29, 2013 6:08 AM ()
I hope you're feeling up to partying on Saturday. I checked out your photos. Donna looks great! I think she looks younger now than she did on your first date.
comment by nittineedles on Mar 28, 2013 2:50 PM ()
I just uploaded that pic today! She always makes negative comments when she sees the plump pics so I figured I'd add a recent one. Women always look better after they've been with me for awhile . In the case of my ex it was probably because she quite smoking. In Donna's case, it's probably my cooking! As for Saturday: Not much required to party at an AA meeting. I just don't want to be contagious.
reply by jjoohhnn on Mar 28, 2013 4:18 PM ()
"I had a flu shot, so odds are in my favor that it isn't that." So did I and I just got over 4 weeks of another strain!!!! HORRIBLE!!

I am amazed--the seeds I planted last Sunday are already sprouting--will post a blog every Sunday and the progress (or lack of same!) I do know I put way too many turnip and radish seeds in each container and should thin them out BUT I don't want to hold the responsibility of "You live" "You die" I could buy a few more pots I guess!
comment by greatmartin on Mar 28, 2013 2:35 PM ()
Yeah, I know what ya mean... I only wanted to find out if the old seed I have are any good. Now I don't want to kill what sprouted. Good thing I can't accidentally get pregnant! I say "odds are" about the flu since the shot isn't 100% effective even for the common strain for which it is intended. I got the shingles vaccine too. Very expensive. Only after did I read the paperwork and find that it's only about 50% effective although it my lessen the severity of an outbreak.
reply by jjoohhnn on Mar 28, 2013 4:15 PM ()
I liked the comment from troutbend.I have heard about this.
Yes,very nice to help someone there and we should have more.Happy Easter.
comment by fredo on Mar 28, 2013 12:54 PM ()
Happy Easter to you too Fredo! I rarely get sick and I don't have that stuff anyway, but I'll survive!
reply by jjoohhnn on Mar 28, 2013 1:22 PM ()
PS: I so enjoyed that video you did last year about your garden. I hope to have a bigger one this year and will make one of those of my own to post.
comment by troutbend on Mar 28, 2013 12:53 PM ()
I go on youtube and watch other peoples' garden videos. I like to see how and when it's done in other parts of the country. It's really interesting to see gardens in the west where everything is brown except the plants being drip irrigated. I wish I had more space to plant in full sun, but there's no practical way to do it.
reply by jjoohhnn on Mar 28, 2013 1:21 PM ()
Take some echinacea if you have any, that's supposed to boost your immune system and shorten the course of whatever ails you. That is so nice of you to help someone in the hospital because it's terrifying to think of being alone there without family to do for you and bring in things you need and keep an eye on interactions with the staff. It seems like nurses are too busy anymore to do more than the minimum.
comment by troutbend on Mar 28, 2013 12:52 PM ()
The nurses and aides do an excellent job at the local 20-bed hospital. Makes a big difference when it's a community sort of thing. Part of the issue is that their training actually contradicts the needs of the developmentally disabled patient. Part of our job is to be sure the guy gets what's in his treatment plan. Nurses are taught to cooperate with the patient's wishes "he has the right to refuse". In this case, he doesn't. Sometimes a consumer needs to be fed even tho he's usually capable of feeding himself. Hospital staff is understandably just not sufficiently familiar with the special-needs population. So yeah, we need to be there in most cases.
reply by jjoohhnn on Mar 28, 2013 1:18 PM ()

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