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Life & Events > Suicide by Train--bladder Cancer--not Good
 

Suicide by Train--bladder Cancer--not Good


Sometimes life can really be the pits no matter what you say or do and you don't know which way, or when, it will go.

I've
known Michael for a few years and I have always seen him as a 'drama
queen' who needed the world to revolve around him. He had some tall
tales to tell and being an ex-liar I knew when he was lying which was
most of the time. Yes, I know you aren't suppose to speak bad of the
dead but it is all part of the story. On Tuesday Michael jumped in front
of a train. He had been having a rough time the past 2 years and
Phillip who has always been there for him had finally had enough. He had
seen him through cancer, through money problems, through 2-3 years of
seizures every and any where, totaled 3-4 cars and, in general, cheated
everyone he came in touch with.

Even
to the end he lied--it is hard to explain this but he was, supposedly,
62 when he died this week--everyone said how young he looked for his age
and, yes, how good looking he was. It turns out, after talking to his
father, that Michael was only 41 and looking at that he didn't look good
at all for his age. Phillip who has known him for 15 years started
thinking of all the things he had told him--about schools he went to,
jobs he had, being in prison for a white collar crime, having thousands
of dollars in overseas banks that he couldn't get to yet--along with
everything else he claimed he started collecting Social Security this
year!

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Last
week I bumped into Jerry at the mail boxes. I have known him since the
late 80s and he has been very nice to me since I moved in here in 1999.
He was an excellent trainer of dogs, always having one, loving them and
recently added a cat to his household. He had just come from the doctor
and been diagnosed with, I thought, was gallbladder cancer but since
then has been told it was bladder cancer--I won't profess to know the
difference. I had heard that he went to the hospital on Friday (last
Friday) and was suppose to come home Wednesday but so far he hasn't. He
looked bad and I am hoping against hope that he is okay and will
definitely call him tomorrow or find out what is going on.

I
just received word that Jerry is still in the hospital, his sister is
coming down and they are looking into hospice care in his apartment.

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On
the other hand I did get to see the touring company of "South
Pacific"--for a sneak preview, if you just can't wait to read my review
(and it helps me if you click on the review) go to 
www.broadwayshowbiz.com  or  www.corinescorner.com to read it.

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On the good or bad side??? He is still stalking me!!!! No, I won't let him catch me--YET!

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posted on Apr 14, 2012 6:09 PM ()

Comments:

Two sad stories. Good thing you had that nice car picture to raise our spirits.
comment by boots586 on Apr 15, 2012 5:37 PM ()
Raised mine!!!! (I will not say it!!!!)
reply by greatmartin on Apr 15, 2012 6:19 PM ()
I'm glad you found out some of the real story about that sociopath. Imagine going around saying he's 21 years older than he is. He must have been a piece of work.
comment by troutbend on Apr 15, 2012 9:18 AM ()
We still can't figure out the why about that--he did look young for being 62 but he certainly looked old for really being 41!!!! And Phillip who lived with him for15 years was as surprised as the rest of us!!!
reply by greatmartin on Apr 15, 2012 9:48 AM ()
I never heard of gallbladder cancer, but since that's a useless organ, it can be removed with no consequences--not so with the bladder. We have one of those "bullshit guys" around here. He "commutes" between here and Oregon. Supposedly he's an artist who works with metal. But his welds are so crappy that his work really doesn't sell. Most of the guys are polite to him, but nobody really has time for the bullshit. What's the point of talking to somebody who has an imagination instead of a life?
comment by jjoohhnn on Apr 15, 2012 6:40 AM ()
I can understand where habitual liars come from--I was one for the first 30 years of my life until I got therapy--basically trying to make themselves look better than they feel they are--a liar puts a lot of effort into his stories and if Michael had put half that effort into being himself he would have been a lot better.
reply by greatmartin on Apr 15, 2012 9:02 AM ()

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