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Once a Witch ... ...

We have a neighborhood meeting once a month, sponsered by
the city. They are boring but it is nice to see your
neighbors and interact with them and hear of their
concerns. I usually go with Phyllis because she needs
to maintain high visability in order to sell houses.

Last night we were held hostage by a woman who was having
a melt down about code enforcement. Personally, I believe
in being forgiving of little lapses because who knows when
I will need that forgiveness myself and it is important
to me to have good relationships with my neighbors.

To my horror, I believe I knew the ranter from the seventies. She was very beautiful once and her beauty
has been ruined by anger and spite. Sometimes age does
that to people. She is all alone now and I really should
reach out to her despite her prickly exterior. Her son
used to stay overnight with us a lot because he and Bobby
were friends.

I try to surround myself with good people. Should I call
her or not? Advise me.

posted on Aug 5, 2015 4:16 AM ()

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It's worth a try. If she truly is too bitter to bear, she's probably used to potential friends passing through her life after a brief time. Good luck, I hope you can bring some sunshine to her day.
comment by troutbend on Aug 6, 2015 10:48 PM ()
She didn't respond to my phone call inviting her to come by for coffee,
so she probably is just that bitter.
reply by elderjane on Aug 7, 2015 2:44 AM ()
I knew you would.
comment by jjoohhnn on Aug 5, 2015 6:30 PM ()
I guess you all know me pretty well.
reply by elderjane on Aug 6, 2015 5:49 AM ()
I agree with your instinct to call her -- and this sounds just like you to do. Of course you need to step back if she responds badly, but when you think of how much she might need a kind word, it's sad. I think people rant and complain when they feel not listened to and disrespected.
comment by drmaus on Aug 5, 2015 11:23 AM ()
I called and suggested we get together for coffee on the answering
machine. What ever will be, will be. I think she needs someone to
befriend her.
reply by elderjane on Aug 5, 2015 3:50 PM ()
That's a toughie. Once you make contact it might be hard to stop if she is in fact prickly inside as well. But you might be a saving grace she is in dire need of at the moment... Maybe think of a way to potentially (nicely) blow her off just in case, and once that has been established then initiate contact?
comment by kristilyn3 on Aug 5, 2015 7:16 AM ()
It is tough because I am sure that she needs warmth and friendship. I
didn't add that her son passed away unexpectedly two weeks ago. I loved
that child.
reply by elderjane on Aug 5, 2015 9:50 AM ()

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